Race issue

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    Oct 27, 2012 4:27 PM GMT
    fellas tell me whats wrong with a black man having relations with a white man ?whats the damn difference! i dont get it i mean if i date a white man im not concerened about the color of his skin im in it for his heart and the love we can share as we build a bond together. i should be able to date any race without being stereotyped when me and my significant boo walk down the street together or go to a restaurant i hate the fact that racism is still a big issue in interacial relationships everyone should have the right to date whoever they want without being judged for it this is not for only whites but for every race out there who believes that you should also have a right to date any other race i like white men as much as i like black men even though i never dated a white man i do look forward to it one day thats why im here on real jock to get aquainted with other races aswell as my own but i would like to experience a new start in dating a race other than my own for the first time so not to jump off topic but if you are white or of any other race,single and you believe in interracial relationships hit me up im looking forward to meeting new people
  • winwin

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    Oct 27, 2012 8:45 PM GMT
    You can date any race you want and if people have a problem with that, it's their problem and not yours. Personally, I have not experienced any issues dating and being with a caucasian.
  • kevmoran

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    Oct 27, 2012 8:48 PM GMT
    I don't see it much, but a guy I was seeing for awhile was Arabic and people would sometimes watch and make comments. Like we're two dudes holding hands, and our race difference is what shocks you? Really?
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    Oct 28, 2012 5:29 AM GMT
    people can be real nasty as if your only to be with your own kind what the hell is wrong with people i dont give a damn if im dating a brutha outside my race i will sport him like a pair of gucci shades like he is best thing poppin
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    Oct 28, 2012 5:33 AM GMT
    [quote][cite]winwin said[/cite]You can date any race you want and if people have a problem with that, it's their problem and not yours. Personally, I have not experienced any issues dating and being with a caucasian. [/quote out of respect for you im just going to be real is it just a black and white thing? or does any other race go through this?
  • TheBizMan

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    Oct 28, 2012 8:31 PM GMT
    Some people are in it for the skin color though.... to me that's a problem, but nothing I would concern myself with.

  • thadjock

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    Oct 28, 2012 8:56 PM GMT
    a hot guy is a hot guy, there isn't any race i would exclude if i was attracted to a guy.

    that being said, i do think some races have more guys that i'm attracted to.

    black, black mix, latin, latin mix, pacific islanders, eastern euro, AUS, all have a high percentage of super hot guys. i think "mixed" race in any ratio makes for a hot guy.
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    Oct 28, 2012 9:09 PM GMT
    to some people race matters to some it doesnt, i agree that a hot guy is a hot guy irrespective of race, but i personally dislike complainers who are always talking about how white guys prefer to date only other white guys. I have no problem with white guys that are interested in only other white guys, but I have a lot of problem with black, brown (me), and yellow guys that have a problem with white guys dating only other white guys. If a white guy is not interested in you because of your race, get over it and stop complaining about it.
  • thadjock

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    Oct 28, 2012 9:23 PM GMT
    whatever3009 saidbut i personally dislike complainers who are always talking about how white guys prefer to date only other white guys. If a white guy is not interested in you because of your race, get over it and stop complaining about it.


    well, when it comes to categorising "white" guys even that isn't pure.

    I 'm generally considered "white" but i was built with french/arab DNA including other trace elements, so i'm not that common british/irish/german/scandanavian style "white" most people use as a benchmark.

  • WhoDey

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    Oct 28, 2012 9:32 PM GMT
    thadjock said
    whatever3009 saidbut i personally dislike complainers who are always talking about how white guys prefer to date only other white guys. If a white guy is not interested in you because of your race, get over it and stop complaining about it.


    well, when it comes to categorising "white" guys even that isn't pure.

    I 'm generally considered "white" but i was built with french/arab DNA including other trace elements, so i'm not that common british/irish/german/scandanavian style "white" most people use as a benchmark.


    I'm sorry, but for all intent and purposes, you are white
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    Oct 28, 2012 9:37 PM GMT
    Leviticus 18:22, "White man shall not lie with a black man as with a white man."
  • Montague

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    Oct 28, 2012 9:38 PM GMT
    paulflexes saidLeviticus 18:22, "White man shall not lie with a black man as with a white man."


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    Oct 28, 2012 9:39 PM GMT
    Montague said
    paulflexes saidLeviticus 18:22, "White man shall not lie with a black man as with a white man."


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  • FRE0

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    Oct 28, 2012 10:21 PM GMT
    I wish that racism would end. Not being physically attracted to a particular race is not in itself necessarily racism, but often it is.

    All races have their share of wonderful and attractive people, and also their share of duds. Sometimes mixes are especially attractive. It's unfortunate that some people let race prevent themselves from meeting people which whom they could have a wonderful relationship.
  • thadjock

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    Oct 28, 2012 10:29 PM GMT
    FRE0 saidI wish that racism would end. Not being physically attracted to a particular race is not in itself necessarily racism, but often it is.

    All races have their share of wonderful and attractive people, and also their share of duds. Sometimes mixes are especially attractive. It's unfortunate that some people let race prevent themselves from meeting people which whom they could have a wonderful relationship.


    even if we all had the same color skin, humans will always contrive more ways to seperate us/them. we're not satisfied unless we can belong to a club which excludes others, or side up with a team, against something or someone.

    why do you think pro sports are such an international phenomenon? it vicariously nourishes our need to feel superior and belong to a tribe in the modern world. and people who cross boundaries meet with scorn and disdain. you'll never change that.
  • TheBizMan

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    Oct 28, 2012 11:17 PM GMT
    whatever3009 saidto some people race matters to some it doesnt, i agree that a hot guy is a hot guy irrespective of race, but i personally dislike complainers who are always talking about how white guys prefer to date only other white guys. I have no problem with white guys that are interested in only other white guys, but I have a lot of problem with black, brown (me), and yellow guys that have a problem with white guys dating only other white guys. If a white guy is not interested in you because of your race, get over it and stop complaining about it.


    This is where we don't see eye to eye. It's not so much a problem that he's not attracted to you because of your race, but if he wants nothing to do with you because of your race then I'd say that's blatant racism and it IS a problem, and I wouldn't just get over it and move on, I'd call him out on that shit.
  • Montague

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    Oct 28, 2012 11:21 PM GMT
    skykey saidWhite guys aren't that interesting and they're overrated.


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    Oct 28, 2012 11:40 PM GMT
    Montague said
    skykey saidWhite guys aren't that interesting and they're overrated.


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    Oct 28, 2012 11:51 PM GMT
    FRE0 saidI wish that racism would end. Not being physically attracted to a particular race is not in itself necessarily racism, but often it is.

    All races have their share of wonderful and attractive people, and also their share of duds. Sometimes mixes are especially attractive. It's unfortunate that some people let race prevent themselves from meeting people which whom they could have a wonderful relationship.


    and then those same people cry out that they can't find a man lol . sad but it's kinda ironic. the guy who would've accepted that person is written off because they were or were not white,black, asian, middle eastern, indian, , etc lol
  • shutoman

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    Oct 28, 2012 11:51 PM GMT
    fellas tell me whats wrong with a black man having relations with a white man ?

    Nothing, Golden; nothing is wrong with it.

    The right for a person to have relations with someone of the same sex is at one with the right for a person to have relations with another person of any race.

    There is, in short, one right: the right to do anything which doesn't harm others.
  • FRE0

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    Oct 29, 2012 6:22 AM GMT
    tmac said
    FRE0 saidI wish that racism would end. Not being physically attracted to a particular race is not in itself necessarily racism, but often it is.

    All races have their share of wonderful and attractive people, and also their share of duds. Sometimes mixes are especially attractive. It's unfortunate that some people let race prevent themselves from meeting people which whom they could have a wonderful relationship.


    and then those same people cry out that they can't find a man lol . sad but it's kinda ironic. the guy who would've accepted that person is written off because they were or were not white,black, asian, middle eastern, indian, , etc lol


    That's about the way I think.

    Before I retired, I worked with many different kind of people, including people from India, Malaysia, Taiwan; white, black, brown; Buddhists, Muslims, Hindus, Jews, Christians, etc. In the ways that most matter, we are more similar than different.
  • TheBizMan

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    Oct 29, 2012 6:35 AM GMT
    FRE0 said
    tmac said
    FRE0 saidI wish that racism would end. Not being physically attracted to a particular race is not in itself necessarily racism, but often it is.

    All races have their share of wonderful and attractive people, and also their share of duds. Sometimes mixes are especially attractive. It's unfortunate that some people let race prevent themselves from meeting people which whom they could have a wonderful relationship.


    and then those same people cry out that they can't find a man lol . sad but it's kinda ironic. the guy who would've accepted that person is written off because they were or were not white,black, asian, middle eastern, indian, , etc lol


    That's about the way I think.

    Before I retired, I worked with many different kind of people, including people from India, Malaysia, Taiwan; white, black, brown; Buddhists, Muslims, Hindus, Jews, Christians, etc. In the ways that most matter, we are more similar than different.


    You got to experience cultures on a deeper level than most get to, or even want to.
  • zakariahzol

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    Oct 29, 2012 7:07 AM GMT
    No problem with interracial dating...but I have problem with some guys who refuse to date his own race . It kinda demeaning your own race . Asian people mostly, have a strong tendencies to regard white guys as better looking and more attractive.

    Dont get me wrong guys (no racism here). I live with a white men in college for 2 years(everybody else after that is Asian). But I dont limit myself to one ethnic group only. Men are men. They are attractive regardless of race
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    Oct 29, 2012 7:09 AM GMT
    It's 2012, I still can't believe that race is an issue. People should be able to date whoever they like and not feel pressured.
  • TheBizMan

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    Oct 29, 2012 7:17 AM GMT
    OneSongGlory saidIt's 2012, I still can't believe that race is an issue. People should be able to date whoever they like and not feel pressured.


    Believe it because it definitely still is.