Steroids and lifting partner

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    Oct 29, 2012 5:00 AM GMT
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    I'm looking for some input and a different view on a situation.


    I met this guy a couple of weeks ago, he's a graduate student at my school. We met through Grindr. We've hung out a few times and he is my lifting partner for the gym during the week. Whenever we go out, its always me driving and him needing a ride or tagging along with me including the gym.

    *To keep the confusion down, I will name my lifting bud, John. I'll call the guy I chatted with online Nathan.

    A few days ago I was chatting with someone that knew John on the same site. Nathan told me that they had also lifted together for a while until John's then boyfriend got jealous, so they stopped. He also told me John is a Compulsive liar and uses steroids and other drugs. I told him I knew John was using steroids but he said it was his 1st cycle. Nathan laughed at me and told me it wasn't his first time and that John has been doing them for a long time.

    He told me pretty much that John uses people to get whatever he wants. He acts like he cares about you but really he doesn't.


    I'm wondering what should I do? I've never met this Nathan except for us chatting online. I don't know if he is telling the truth or not? I did catch John in a lie earlier. I asked him how many times had he juiced before and he said 24 or so. Then I said why didn't you say that the first time instead of telling me it was your first time.
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    Oct 29, 2012 5:53 AM GMT
    While you don't actually know "Nathan", he only warned you about "John"'s lying and how he uses people. You've already caught John lying. It doesn't necessarily mean he will try to use you like Nathan said though. However, you should probably stay alert to make sure he doesn't use you. Did you mention giving him rides because you're worried you're already being used?
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    Oct 29, 2012 7:47 AM GMT
    As long as your juicer lifting buddy pitches in for gas or buys you a meal once in a while, I don't see what the big deal is.

    Ass, gas, or grass.. Nobody rides free. icon_lol.gif
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    Oct 29, 2012 12:44 PM GMT
    Dahas saidWhile you don't actually know "Nathan", he only warned you about "John"'s lying and how he uses people. You've already caught John lying. It doesn't necessarily mean he will try to use you like Nathan said though. However, you should probably stay alert to make sure he doesn't use you. Did you mention giving him rides because you're worried you're already being used?



    Yes I did mention the rides because I think he might have been using me. He has never pitched in for gas and doesn't even say thank you when I give him the rides.
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    Oct 29, 2012 12:46 PM GMT
    xrichx saidAs long as your juicer lifting buddy pitches in for gas or buys you a meal once in a while, I don't see what the big deal is.

    Ass, gas, or grass.. Nobody rides free. icon_lol.gif


    Well the problem is he has never offered or pitched in for gas and I have been lifting with him for over a month now. He bought me food once but proceeded to take it home with him and forgot to give it to me icon_sad.gif
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    Oct 29, 2012 2:08 PM GMT
    xrichx said
    Ass, gas, or grass.. Nobody rides for free. icon_lol.gif

    Have a sticker done with this and put it on the dashboard (passenger's side of course) and see his reaction next time he or anybody else rides with you.
  • fmrhugger

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    Oct 29, 2012 4:24 PM GMT
    There are 6 billion people in the world. Move on from him.
  • calibro

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    Oct 29, 2012 5:10 PM GMT
    fmrhugger saidThere are 6 billion people in the world. Move on from him.


    what happened to the other billion?
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    Oct 29, 2012 5:19 PM GMT
    calibro said
    fmrhugger saidThere are 6 billion people in the world. Move on from him.


    what happened to the other billion?

    They are straight.
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    Oct 29, 2012 6:38 PM GMT
    TellMeMoar said
    calibro said
    fmrhugger saidThere are 6 billion people in the world. Move on from him.


    what happened to the other billion?

    They are straight.


    I see, the math adds up!
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    Oct 29, 2012 6:47 PM GMT
    I saw just drop him. Ain't nobody got time for that. Not only that, but you don't want to get fed up one day and put your foot down to him and become a victim of roid rage. Anyway you look at it this guy isn't doing you a favor and it definitely doesn't sound like a symbiotic relationship (friendship). When someone keeps taking and taking it's only a matter of time before you've got nothing left but your last fuck to give. Drop him like a bad habit man.
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    Oct 29, 2012 11:36 PM GMT
    FranklinK saidI saw just drop him. Ain't nobody got time for that. Not only that, but you don't want to get fed up one day and put your foot down to him and become a victim of roid rage. Anyway you look at it this guy isn't doing you a favor and it definitely doesn't sound like a symbiotic relationship (friendship). When someone keeps taking and taking it's only a matter of time before you've got nothing left but your last fuck to give. Drop him like a bad habit man.


    I once had a fuck buddy who was almost the entire year doing cycles and he never had the mythical roid rage. Nothing could change his wishywashy nature I guess. icon_lol.gif
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    Oct 30, 2012 12:59 AM GMT
    LakeErieMonsters said
    xrichx saidAs long as your juicer lifting buddy pitches in for gas or buys you a meal once in a while, I don't see what the big deal is.

    Ass, gas, or grass.. Nobody rides free. icon_lol.gif


    Well the problem is he has never offered or pitched in for gas and I have been lifting with him for over a month now. He bought me food once but proceeded to take it home with him and forgot to give it to me icon_sad.gif


    Just ask. Doh
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    LakeErieMonsters said
    xrichx saidAs long as your juicer lifting buddy pitches in for gas or buys you a meal once in a while, I don't see what the big deal is.

    Ass, gas, or grass.. Nobody rides free. icon_lol.gif


    Well the problem is he has never offered or pitched in for gas and I have been lifting with him for over a month now. He bought me food once but proceeded to take it home with him and forgot to give it to me icon_sad.gif
    Is he at least a good lifting buddy? Is he helping you with your workouts and motivating you in the gym? If not, then you either need to distance yourself from him, or establish a mutual symbiotic relationship. In exchange for being his personal taxi driver, he should..
    - Chip in for gas, or
    - Buy you a smoothie or meal after a workout, or
    - Suck on your cock as you drive him home from the gym

    Dominican_Gent said
    xrichx said
    Ass, gas, or grass.. Nobody rides for free. icon_lol.gif

    Have a sticker done with this and put it on the dashboard (passenger's side of course) and see his reaction next time he or anybody else rides with you.

    Yes! icon_lol.gif

    JJtf.png
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    Oct 30, 2012 2:30 AM GMT
    xrichx said
    LakeErieMonsters said
    xrichx saidAs long as your juicer lifting buddy pitches in for gas or buys you a meal once in a while, I don't see what the big deal is.

    Ass, gas, or grass.. Nobody rides free. icon_lol.gif


    Well the problem is he has never offered or pitched in for gas and I have been lifting with him for over a month now. He bought me food once but proceeded to take it home with him and forgot to give it to me icon_sad.gif
    Is he at least a good lifting buddy? Is he helping you with your workouts and motivating you in the gym? If not, then you either need to distance yourself from him, or establish a mutual symbiotic relationship. In exchange for being his personal taxi driver, he should..
    - Chip in for gas, or
    - Buy you a smoothie or meal after a workout, or
    - Suck on your cock as you drive him home from the gym

    Dominican_Gent said
    xrichx said
    Ass, gas, or grass.. Nobody rides for free. icon_lol.gif

    Have a sticker done with this and put it on the dashboard (passenger's side of course) and see his reaction next time he or anybody else rides with you.

    Yes! icon_lol.gif

    JJtf.png


    LOL... Do they sell those? How has been the reactions so far?
  • nic_m3

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    Oct 30, 2012 2:36 AM GMT
    Has it occurred to anyone that maybe Nathan IS the jealous EX? I mean this John guy doesn't sound to great but hey just sayin. Also if there are 6 billion gays why the hell am I single?!!
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    LOL... Do they sell those? How has been the reactions so far?
    Not my picture. But yeah, it's a very old phrase. Started up in the 1970s I believe, and you should be able to buy a bumper sticker of it at most novelty shops.
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    Oct 30, 2012 5:56 AM GMT
    snwbordnick saidHas it occurred to anyone that maybe Nathan IS the jealous EX? I mean this John guy doesn't sound to great but hey just sayin. Also if there are 6 billion gays why the hell am I single?!!


    Nope Nathan isn't the jealous now EX Fiance. Nathan had a boyfriend of quite a few years that wanted to marry him outside the country and then come back and act like it never happened.(That is how John explained it to me, of course now that I caught him lying before I can't buy it 100%)
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    Oct 30, 2012 5:58 AM GMT
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    LakeErieMonsters said
    xrichx saidAs long as your juicer lifting buddy pitches in for gas or buys you a meal once in a while, I don't see what the big deal is.

    Ass, gas, or grass.. Nobody rides free. icon_lol.gif


    Well the problem is he has never offered or pitched in for gas and I have been lifting with him for over a month now. He bought me food once but proceeded to take it home with him and forgot to give it to me icon_sad.gif
    Is he at least a good lifting buddy? Is he helping you with your workouts and motivating you in the gym? If not, then you either need to distance yourself from him, or establish a mutual symbiotic relationship. In exchange for being his personal taxi driver, he should..
    - Chip in for gas, or
    - Buy you a smoothie or meal after a workout, or
    - Suck on your cock as you drive him home from the gym
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    He's an okay workout buddy. He spots me for some of my exercises but thats it. We aren't doing the same workout when we hit the gym. He goes off and starts talking to other guys. One time he started working out with this totally different guy. I don't mind but I figured lifting partner means you do the same workout together icon_rolleyes.gif