What is considered clingy?

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    Oct 30, 2012 1:16 AM GMT
    For every guy i've dated, we only see each other about once a week, sometimes twice a week. Rarely is it more often than that.

    Over summer, a guy I was dating told me that I should only send no more than one text per day and that I was sending too many (5 to 10 max).

    Right now (since the end of august till now) I've been dating a nicer guy. We started out seeing each other every day for the first 4 or 5 days. After that, about twice a week. In the last month, we've only been seeing each other less than once a week, maybe once every 9 or 10 days. I try not to text him more than 10 texts per day; I never call him cuz of my bad experiences with other guys.

    So... I don't know if this is a normal relationship, but I feel like we don't see each other enough. I kind of feel like just forgetting the BF/monogamous relationship thing...
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    Oct 30, 2012 1:21 AM GMT
    bodyboarder725 said What is considered clingy?
    Posting a thread asking what clingy is.
  • unhooligan

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    Oct 30, 2012 3:10 AM GMT
    Yeah one text is enough. They will get it when they get it. its up to them if they want to respond
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    Oct 30, 2012 3:18 AM GMT
    10 texts a day isn't too much. And I'm not talking about one word texts.Before you decide on anything, talk to him about it. Figure out what you can do to change it.
  • Kel_

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    Oct 30, 2012 3:19 AM GMT
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  • calibro

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    Oct 30, 2012 3:20 AM GMT
    oh to be 12 again...
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    Oct 30, 2012 3:24 AM GMT
    You're not out looking for you're missing family member you're just making excuses for throwing that big awkward shaped bag in the dumpster that I saw you grab a wallet out of that was no where near you're house.
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    Oct 30, 2012 3:25 AM GMT
    calibro saidoh to be 12 again...
    You mean you're not 12 anymore? Mister, you have some serius 'splainin to do. Your priest would like to have a word with you. icon_twisted.gif
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    Oct 30, 2012 3:26 AM GMT
    LitAwake saidYou're not out looking for you're missing family member you're just making excuses for throwing that big awkward shaped bag in the dumpster that I saw you grab a wallet out of that was no where near you're house.
    Every time I think you've reached the pinnacle of confusion, you exceed it.

    How?

    BTW, and why would such a supposedly-brilliant guy misspell such a simple word as "your?"
  • RaggedyMan

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    Oct 30, 2012 3:27 AM GMT
    are we talkin random texts or replies to text back and forth?
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    Oct 30, 2012 3:28 AM GMT
    bodyboarder725 said I try not to text him more than 10 texts per day;


    Way too fucking much. Hell a text everyday I think is way too much.

    The solution isn't to tie your hands while you hungrily stare at your phone craving to text. The solution is for you to fill up your days with activities and projects that are about YOU that are geared towards making a better YOU and about YOUR interests. The solution is to NOT have the free idle time to send 10 texts.

    THAT is the kind of man other guys want to date.
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    Oct 30, 2012 3:31 AM GMT
    Ariodante said
    bodyboarder725 said I try not to text him more than 10 texts per day;


    Way too fucking much. Hell a text everyday I think is way too much.

    The solution isn't to tie your hands while you hungrily stare at your phone craving to text. The solution is for you to fill up your days with activities and projects that are about YOU that are geared towards making a better YOU and about YOUR interests. The solution is to NOT have the free idle time to send 10 texts.

    THAT is the kind of man other guys want to date.


    Best advice ever!!!
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    Oct 30, 2012 3:33 AM GMT
    paulflexes said
    calibro saidoh to be 12 again...
    You mean you're not 12 anymore? Mister, you have some serius 'splainin to do. Your priest would like to have a word with you. icon_twisted.gif


    i was raised jewish
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    Oct 30, 2012 3:34 AM GMT
    yourname2000 said
    Ariodante said
    bodyboarder725 said I try not to text him more than 10 texts per day;


    Way too fucking much. Hell a text everyday I think is way too much.

    The solution isn't to tie your hands while you hungrily stare at your phone craving to text. The solution is for you to fill up your days with activities and projects that are about YOU that are geared towards making a better YOU and about YOUR interests. The solution is to NOT have the free idle time to send 10 texts.

    THAT is the kind of man other guys want to date.

    +1


    Sadly I need to take the advice haha
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    Oct 30, 2012 3:39 AM GMT
    yourname2000 said
    msuNtx said
    yourname2000 said
    Ariodante said
    bodyboarder725 said I try not to text him more than 10 texts per day;


    Way too fucking much. Hell a text everyday I think is way too much.

    The solution isn't to tie your hands while you hungrily stare at your phone craving to text. The solution is for you to fill up your days with activities and projects that are about YOU that are geared towards making a better YOU and about YOUR interests. The solution is to NOT have the free idle time to send 10 texts.

    THAT is the kind of man other guys want to date.

    +1


    Sadly I need to take the advice haha

    Hmmm....from what you've posted on here (new job, new internship, etc, etc) you seem to be living a full and interesting life....you certainly seem interesting to a lot of RJers. icon_wink.gif


    outside of work, school, gym i am very boring lol. need hobbies
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    Oct 30, 2012 3:40 AM GMT
    calibro said
    paulflexes said
    calibro saidoh to be 12 again...
    You mean you're not 12 anymore? Mister, you have some serius 'splainin to do. Your priest would like to have a word with you. icon_twisted.gif


    i was raised jewish
    Then why don't you have your own airplane? All the other Jews I know have at least one, if not more. icon_razz.gif
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    Oct 30, 2012 3:41 AM GMT
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    Oct 30, 2012 3:41 AM GMT
    msuNtx said

    Sadly I need to take the advice haha


    Hell I need to take my advice. Hang around RJ enough and all the repeated threads give you the top rated answers...but that doesn't mean it's that easy to live them icon_neutral.gif
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    Oct 30, 2012 3:45 AM GMT
    yourname2000 said
    msuNtx saidoutside of work, school, gym i am very boring lol. need hobbies

    I consider RJ one of my 'hobbies', lol.


    Doesn't sound as good when telling people. I waste hours a day chatting online with guys I don't even know haha. I feel I know you guys somewhat though icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Oct 30, 2012 3:47 AM GMT
    Some people have to pay money to receive a txt...

    just sayin
  • calibro

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    Oct 30, 2012 3:48 AM GMT
    paulflexes said
    calibro said
    paulflexes said
    calibro saidoh to be 12 again...
    You mean you're not 12 anymore? Mister, you have some serius 'splainin to do. Your priest would like to have a word with you. icon_twisted.gif


    i was raised jewish
    Then why don't you have your own airplane? All the other Jews I know have at least one, if not more. icon_razz.gif



    who said i don't have an airplane?
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    Oct 30, 2012 4:36 AM GMT
    Ariodante said
    bodyboarder725 said I try not to text him more than 10 texts per day;


    Way too fucking much. Hell a text everyday I think is way too much.

    The solution isn't to tie your hands while you hungrily stare at your phone craving to text. The solution is for you to fill up your days with activities and projects that are about YOU that are geared towards making a better YOU and about YOUR interests. The solution is to NOT have the free idle time to send 10 texts.

    THAT is the kind of man other guys want to date.


    ...I think I finally understand... however, I like texting with friends I hardly see often. It builds a connection. I guess not everyone sees texting like I do.

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    Oct 30, 2012 4:38 AM GMT
    calibro said
    paulflexes said
    calibro said
    paulflexes said
    calibro saidoh to be 12 again...
    You mean you're not 12 anymore? Mister, you have some serius 'splainin to do. Your priest would like to have a word with you. icon_twisted.gif


    i was raised jewish
    Then why don't you have your own airplane? All the other Jews I know have at least one, if not more. icon_razz.gif



    who said i don't have an airplane?
    You never offered me to fly it, even though I have 7000+ flight hours of experience. icon_cool.gif
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    Oct 30, 2012 5:37 AM GMT
    paulflexes said
    calibro said
    paulflexes said
    calibro said
    paulflexes said
    calibro saidoh to be 12 again...
    You mean you're not 12 anymore? Mister, you have some serius 'splainin to do. Your priest would like to have a word with you. icon_twisted.gif


    i was raised jewish
    Then why don't you have your own airplane? All the other Jews I know have at least one, if not more. icon_razz.gif



    who said i don't have an airplane?
    You never offered me to fly it, even though I have 7000+ flight hours of experience. icon_cool.gif


    This is why I start these forums... so I can see how far it digresses lol
  • Kel_

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    Oct 30, 2012 5:42 AM GMT
    bodyboarder725 said
    paulflexes said
    calibro said
    paulflexes said
    calibro said
    paulflexes said
    calibro saidoh to be 12 again...
    You mean you're not 12 anymore? Mister, you have some serius 'splainin to do. Your priest would like to have a word with you. icon_twisted.gif


    i was raised jewish
    Then why don't you have your own airplane? All the other Jews I know have at least one, if not more. icon_razz.gif



    who said i don't have an airplane?
    You never offered me to fly it, even though I have 7000+ flight hours of experience. icon_cool.gif


    This is why I start these forums... so I can see how far it digresses lol


    And have you learned anything from the advises?
    I hope you do, because some of these guys aren't really trolling you. Some have given their genuine responses, it's entirely up to you how you would take it.