Boyfriend strips in front of 500 people

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    Oct 31, 2012 9:42 AM GMT
    So my boyfriend was in the front row of a drag show and got pulled up onstage and then backstage. They told him to strip and then paraded him around the crowd where people smacked his ass and well, probably decided he was a nice piece of ass.

    Problem is I missed the show by about 30 minutes because I wasn't off work yet. And, I'm just not sure how I feel about the whole thing. Should I not give a shit, or should I be jealous and angry? I am pretty confused about it.

    By the way, he is hot, and he doesn't seem to think so, although he knows he has a nice body.
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    Oct 31, 2012 10:01 AM GMT
    I think you should tell him your emotions but think of it also what would it be like if you were in his place.
    If you would look like you don't give a shit (which is probably not true 'cause you wrote this post) it might make him feel you don't care about him. And you don't want that, do you?
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    Oct 31, 2012 10:14 AM GMT
    It is a shame I missed it, and I think that's what bothers me the most. That's an unusual occurrence and I would have liked to share it with him. However I might have been worse off seeing the objectification in person.

    The whole production is going to be on a DVD so I'm totally buying it, and no this isn't a sales pitch.

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    Oct 31, 2012 2:23 PM GMT
    It's not like he planned that to happen, did he?

    Yourname2000 has the right perspective. Use it to spice up your sex life, and be glad you got a guy who others ecognize as hot!!
  • NorthChinaLi

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    Oct 31, 2012 2:28 PM GMT
    HeniganSF saidSo my boyfriend was in the front row of a drag show and got pulled up onstage and then backstage. They told him to strip and then paraded him around the crowd where people smacked his ass and well, probably decided he was a nice piece of ass.

    Problem is I missed the show by about 30 minutes because I wasn't off work yet. And, I'm just not sure how I feel about the whole thing. Should I not give a shit, or should I be jealous and angry? I am pretty confused about it.

    By the way, he is hot, and he doesn't seem to think so, although he knows he has a nice body.



    make sure u are on stage next time!!!
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    Oct 31, 2012 2:30 PM GMT
    You should ask yourself why you are upset about it. Do you think he cheated? Do you not like the fact that everyone saw him naked? Do you feel left out? Then decide if you really should feel that way. He didn't cheat or anything and he certainly didn't plan this. If you don't trust him, that this is something you will want to figure out.

    I think you should be excited for him. If he had a good time and felt good, then celebrate with him! You should be even more excited that everyone knows that you are with a hottie. He had a good time and got some attention. It probably made him feel really good.

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    Oct 31, 2012 2:32 PM GMT
    Was he more naked than you are in your adult pic?





    Just sayin'?icon_razz.gif
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    Oct 31, 2012 2:44 PM GMT
    Aristoshark said

    hey stranger, welcome back!


    Tanx, JP!
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    Oct 31, 2012 2:50 PM GMT
    That is so not my type of boyfriend...

    If he is yours truly you should be comfortable with it! what is there to be confused about.

    if he is faithful?

    then case closed.
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    Oct 31, 2012 2:52 PM GMT
    HeniganSF saidSo my boyfriend was in the front row of a drag show and got pulled up onstage and then backstage. They told him to strip and then paraded him around the crowd where people smacked his ass and well, probably decided he was a nice piece of ass.

    Problem is I missed the show by about 30 minutes because I wasn't off work yet. And, I'm just not sure how I feel about the whole thing. Should I not give a shit, or should I be jealous and angry? I am pretty confused about it.

    By the way, he is hot, and he doesn't seem to think so, although he knows he has a nice body.


    so u want us to decide how u should feel?? OH GOSH WHY CANT PEOPLE LEARN TO THINK AND FEEL FOR THEMSELVES!!!!icon_mad.gif

    look its not big deal let it go simple as that. that my opinion lol
  • rnch

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    Oct 31, 2012 2:55 PM GMT
    "this thread is useless without pics"




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  • HndsmKansan

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    Oct 31, 2012 2:56 PM GMT
    I'd probably think about what happened, but largely let it all pass. He might have received a "rush" off of it, but I wouldn't be focused on the comments and "ass smacks". Have fun with it and move on, Relationships can have issues if the other partner focuses on it too much.. that it somehow "means" something. I mean if he routinely wanted repeats, I'd suggest you have a talk with him, otherwise. laugh it off.
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    Oct 31, 2012 3:07 PM GMT
    HeniganSF saidSo my boyfriend was in the front row of a drag show and got pulled up onstage and then backstage. They told him to strip and then paraded him around the crowd where people smacked his ass and well, probably decided he was a nice piece of ass.

    Problem is I missed the show by about 30 minutes because I wasn't off work yet. And, I'm just not sure how I feel about the whole thing. Should I not give a shit, or should I be jealous and angry? I am pretty confused about it.

    By the way, he is hot, and he doesn't seem to think so, although he knows he has a nice body.


    Clearly it bothered you. If it didn't, there would be no post. If something bothers you. Tell him. Simple.
  • LJay

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    Oct 31, 2012 3:42 PM GMT
    it's just something that happened. Don't put too much into it. Let him get a confidence boost out of it and move on. It will do your relationship no good at all to wander around with undefined issues related to the event. He's hot. You're hot. You have each other. Lucky guys.
  • calibro

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    Oct 31, 2012 3:42 PM GMT
    you sound clingy
  • starboard5

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    Oct 31, 2012 3:49 PM GMT
    Here's one of the tidbits of wisdom that's managed to get through my thick skull: No one controls anyone in life. Someone can manipulate another person with their cooperation, but that's another thing. People will do what they want to do. You can let them know your own boundaries of what is acceptable to you in any given situation, but beyond that, thet're free agents.

    Sounds like your real problem is that you aren't sure of your own feelings about what happened. That's what you should share with him. Might open a meaningful dialog for you both.
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    Oct 31, 2012 5:30 PM GMT
    Speaking as someone who's been stripped by a drag queen and mr Macus Mojo in the middle of a bar you should just talk to him. He probably feels worse than you do. It seemed fun and playful at the time but I had regrets later as I'm sure there are videos and pictures floating around, your bf may feel the same way.
    Express yourself but I wouldn't harp on it. A month from now it will just be a funny story.
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    Oct 31, 2012 5:42 PM GMT
    Rockbiter saidYou should ask yourself why you are upset about it. Do you think he cheated? Do you not like the fact that everyone saw him naked? Do you feel left out? Then decide if you really should feel that way. He didn't cheat or anything and he certainly didn't plan this. If you don't trust him, that this is something you will want to figure out.

    I think you should be excited for him. If he had a good time and felt good, then celebrate with him! You should be even more excited that everyone knows that you are with a hottie. He had a good time and got some attention. It probably made him feel really good.



    I concur!
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    Oct 31, 2012 5:48 PM GMT
    calibro saidyou sound clingy
    agreed. don't worry about it. it was all part of the fun for the show icon_smile.gif
  • Hothouse

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    Oct 31, 2012 5:55 PM GMT
    Sounds harmless to me, enjoy the fact that they found your man attractive. I hope he had on clean underware - or any underware, for that fact.
  • Havenjock80

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    Oct 31, 2012 5:57 PM GMT
    Such a great opportunity to " Spank him for being a bad boy" and have some hot sex.. sometimes we need to change how we think of things...Dont make him feel bad.. screw him instead...lol
  • PR_GMR

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    Oct 31, 2012 6:04 PM GMT
    Sounds like inoffensive behavior. As someone posted on of 1:'Who's bed did he go home to?'. He wasn't having sex onstage or anything.
  • calibro

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    Oct 31, 2012 6:09 PM GMT
    Trollileo said
    calibro saidyou sound clingy
    And you sound twatty.


    don't you have a matinee showing of pitch-perfect to see again?
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    Oct 31, 2012 6:21 PM GMT
    HeniganSF saidIt is a shame I missed it, and I think that's what bothers me the most. That's an unusual occurrence and I would have liked to share it with him. However I might have been worse off seeing the objectification in person.

    The whole production is going to be on a DVD so I'm totally buying it, and no this isn't a sales pitch.



    That's fine. I'm with noname in that you should probably just let this one go unless he went home with someone else (infidelity is bad m'kay) or if this is a regularly occurring thing (seriously- if I brought someone- guy or girl home to my mom and she found out that he/she was a stripper, she'd literally die) otherwise just buy the DVD. But let him know that it's awesome that he's hot but at the same time, let him know you're worried about the outcome if this continues to happen.
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    Oct 31, 2012 6:27 PM GMT
    HeniganSF saidSo my boyfriend was in the front row of a drag show and got pulled up onstage and then backstage. They told him to strip and then paraded him around the crowd where people smacked his ass and well, probably decided he was a nice piece of ass.

    Problem is I missed the show by about 30 minutes because I wasn't off work yet. And, I'm just not sure how I feel about the whole thing. Should I not give a shit, or should I be jealous and angry? I am pretty confused about it.

    By the way, he is hot, and he doesn't seem to think so, although he knows he has a nice body.


    Tell him how you fell, but did he come home with you that night? Did he tell you about the show and what had happened? If so, don't let your insecurities ruin what was probably a really embarrassing yet exhilarating experience for him.

    Too often we 'gays' get uptight and insecure. Let your boys have his fun, if it doesn't change how he feels about you, then you have nothing to be worried about.