Ever had unexpected love?..

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    Oct 31, 2012 10:40 PM GMT
    I am now exclusively dating this hot young man that i didnt like the first time i met him for so many reasons:
    - i thought he was not into guy...both of us are still in the closet
    - he seemed soooo arrogant (and i also thought that he was racist) at first...maybe because of the costant anger look on his face.. like he wanted to kill someone with his killer eyes...
    - we were completely different from each other....he was like my antagonist!
    - the friend he brought along with him would constantly try to embarass me...and he wouldnt do nothing to make his friend stop!
    But after several months of "being forced" to go out with him, i found myself having a secret crush on him!He became more approachable and caring...so one night i kissed him!
    After that night i tried to avoid him since i was afraid tht he would tell someone tht i kissed him and tht he would make fun of me...
    Surprisingly he texted me and said tht he wanted to see me...he wanted to go on a date with me!..i said no bcoz i thought tht it was just a prank but then tht same evening he came to my dorm and brought dinner and said tht it was our first date...now Ita been 6 months that we're exlusively dating and evrytime feels like the first time..and oh he smiles more often now too!
    Have U ever experienced something similar too? I mean at first it didnt even cross my mind tht we would he together and tht i would love him so much
  • MikeW

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    Nov 01, 2012 3:04 PM GMT
    I've had a love at first sight kind of thing but not what you are describing. Sounds VERY romantic icon_smile.gif You're a lucky guy.
  • wellwell

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    Nov 01, 2012 3:07 PM GMT
    Yes, her name was Janice.
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    Nov 02, 2012 9:57 PM GMT
    OP's story:
    I couldnt help myself from going "aww" Very cute.

    For me, I've never loved and never been loved. (Aside from family. That doesn't count in my mind.) icon_rolleyes.gif
  • rnch

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    Nov 02, 2012 11:11 PM GMT
    WaytoDawn said.... I've never loved and never been loved. (Aside from family. That doesn't count in my mind.) icon_rolleyes.gif



    Me also. I had given up on both (loved/being loved).

    Then, 3 years ago it happened.

    Finally.

    Gradually, slowly, it crept up on both of us.

    Not what I had expected, not what he or I had envisioned...but it's still there, in spite of our own personality flaws/excesses.

    We bitch, we complain, then we mentally claw our way back the other. There's just ...something... that keeps pulling us back together.
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    Nov 02, 2012 11:20 PM GMT
    Fuck no.
    Sounds like a sweet sweet turnout for you tho. icon_smile.gif
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    Nov 03, 2012 12:57 AM GMT
    BP201 saidFuck no.
    Sounds like a sweet sweet turnout for you tho. icon_smile.gif


    Lets just say for both of us!:-P
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    Nov 03, 2012 12:58 AM GMT
    WaytoDawn saidOP's story:
    I couldnt help myself from going "aww" Very cute.

    For me, I've never loved and never been loved. (Aside from family. That doesn't count in my mind.) icon_rolleyes.gif


    Awww thank you!..wish U to find someone special soon too!