[quote] I am one of those guys with poor conversation skills, but when I put myself out the other guy never wants to know. So guys always come to me first, and I also focus on becoming happy with myself. The guys who contact me frequently, I always feel are too different from me and I never find myself very attracted to them.
If you like guys with no social skills (really?) then back off even more. The guy with no social skills needs to feel like it's his game as well and he'll feel good about himself if you let him take the lead. Let him come to you by always being happy that he contacted you/takes he lead. If he doesn't come to you then it confirms he is not into you, sorry. That's me anyway.
I think, that you need to both be playing on the same - or close - levels or it doesn't feel right. Either you back down to his level of indifference or try and find other shall we say "enthusiastic" guys.
chris_hastings1 saidwhy do all the twinky boys gotta be queeny?
Where do you obtain this supply of queeny twinks? You have to know where to find them, and I would suspect that bars are not a reliable place to find non queeny guys - of any description. Try bumping into people from other areas, whether it be
by being open to people in your everyday life[/quote]
yeah, I know that most non queeny guys aren't exactly the types to go to the club, but thats what id on't understand, how dot hey meet other non queeny guys? you'd have to rely on shear luck lol. unless its a club outside military bases... those have more non queeny guys. but still. it's like needle in the haystack. though i've been talking to a guy on here thats really cool... but hes like 5 states away :/