I'm Really Bad At Sex

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    Nov 02, 2012 10:01 PM GMT
    Last night I hooked up with a guy who I've messed around with a few times. I'm really self-conscious about my performance in bed. I'm a bottom and I really like to be submissive. I'm 5'6" 145 and somewhat shy about sex. I've only done anal about 20 times and it's usually just missionary position. I feel like I'm really disappointing in bed for the guys I've been with. I always make them cum but I don't feel like they understand what to do with me.

    Before I went to this guys house last night he had mentioned how I never came with him. Obviously this would make him think I wasn't very interested in him. Absolutely NOT true. He's absolutely sexy and has an awesome body. Much hotter than I would think I could get. He tells me that I'm beautiful but I still feel strange when we have sex. Almost self conscious.

    So last night we cuddled for just a little bit and he was rubbing me and squeezing my body. His hands are so strong and I can tell it wouldn't take much of his strength to hurt me. Every time we're together I feel like he's doing 15% of what he is able to do because I'm so fragile and he doesn't want to hurt me. He's like 195 6'3" really shredded with an incredible body. When I was giving him head he was telling me to go slower if I needed too. He's just very gentle with me and I'm damn sure he's a crazy warrior in bed with other guys. I told him to stand up by the edge of the bed and I laid on my back while I asked him to thrust into my throat but after about 5 seconds he was like....no. It's like he's afraid to do anything rough with me. So then when it came time for me to cum I did while he rimmed me. He thought I was done but I wanted him to finish so I tried to sit on him but I couldn't get it in. I really don't like being in control. So he picked me up and put me on my back while he went inside me. He asked me about 30 times if I was okay. I felt as if he thought he was hurting me, it kinda did but I just wanted to make him happy. I watch porn and my sex is never like that with him. What's wrong with me. How can I appear more durable and sexy.
  • HottJoe

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    Nov 02, 2012 10:29 PM GMT
    I would not be so gentle.icon_twisted.gif
  • kevmoran

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    Nov 05, 2012 12:31 PM GMT
    I've run into the same problem, especially with older guys. Your best bet is to jokingly challenge them, especially while youre talking or texting before you hook up. Beforehand I'll just talk about how I could take them down no problem (even though I obviously cannot) or push him around a bit in bed. It only takes a few minutes for him to catch on a get a little more aggressive. If all else fails, pull a Giana Michaels and slap him across the face.
  • Wyatt

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    Nov 06, 2012 1:30 AM GMT
    Here's the real question:

    Is the title of your thread an oxymoron?

    Think about it.
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    Nov 06, 2012 1:38 AM GMT
    alchlameon said I'm Really Bad At Sex
    Welcome to the internet. None of us would be here if we were good at it.
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    Nov 06, 2012 2:07 AM GMT
    kevmoran said... If all else fails, pull a Giana Michaels and slap him across the face.


    This. While he's fucking you face to face. Slap him hard and tell him he's a pussy fucker. That should get the party started.