My First Nasty Email from an RJ'r!

  • red_series

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    Nov 04, 2012 11:15 PM GMT
    I've been on this site since 2006 and have yet to receive a bitchy email until this afternoon. The cause of the email? Because I hotlisted a member without talking to him first. Is this what RJ has become? It's a hotlist, not a marriage proposal. Anyway, It blows my mind people like this exist, what'd you think? This is an insane response to a random hotlist, ya?


    u as well. i only deal with intelligent, handsome guys who can read and who look good. u don't rate, so go away now.

    ---- FROM red_series Nov 04, 2012 at 4:13 PM
    wow, you're a real gem ;)

    ---- FROM CoonRapidsDuo Nov 03, 2012 at 10:31 PM
    apparently u can't read.

    ---- FROM red_series Nov 03, 2012 at 11:11 PM
    Dear CoonRapidsDuo,

    This message has been generated by the RealJock system because I have hot listed you.
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    Nov 04, 2012 11:20 PM GMT
    Just for hotlisting him? I'll just mark that down as another thing to watch out for.
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    Nov 04, 2012 11:22 PM GMT
    What was it that you didnt read? Did he ask not to be hotlisted before being asked?
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    Nov 04, 2012 11:27 PM GMT

    Interesting; this was in the guys I'd like to meet section,
    "We'd prefer to chat first BEFORE you add us to your hot list or buddy list or send photo comments."

    But prefer doesn't mean be rude to people right off the cuff.

    It would be better worded as " Do NOT add us to your hot list or buddy list or send photo comments without chatting first. "

    Thanks for the heads up; we'll avoid them.

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    Nov 04, 2012 11:27 PM GMT
    Well, he is an ass. However he said right away in profile that they are couple and are not interested in being hotlisted before you speak to them.. which is indeed a dick thing to say but he said everything up front.. his profile was repellent..so i do not know why you responded to it in the first place. I have no idea why that guy/guys are so tough on hotlisting and being appreciated.
  • red_series

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    Nov 04, 2012 11:49 PM GMT
    JackKash saidWell, he is an ass. However he said right away in profile that they are couple and are not interested in being hotlisted before you speak to them.. which is indeed a dick thing to say but he said everything up front.. his profile was repellent..so i do not know why you responded to it in the first place. I have no idea why that guy/guys are so tough on hotlisting and being appreciated.


    Good Point,

    I didn't actually read his profile at first. I was under the, apparently incorrect, impression that no one would be offended by a compliment.
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    Nov 04, 2012 11:51 PM GMT
    There's really a place called "Coon Rapids"????

    I think I hear a banjo and a squealing pig.
  • Bunjamon

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    Nov 04, 2012 11:52 PM GMT
    Their profile does not make them come across as guys that I would want to hotlist.

    Getting a hotlist is a compliment, kind of like getting a smile from someone in a bar. Can you imagine a guy being snarky in a bar saying, "You have to talk to me before you're allowed to smile at me. You are obviously not psychic, so you don't rate."

    Sheesh.
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    Nov 04, 2012 11:53 PM GMT
    Well he's an idiot in the way he dealt with it. I'm guessing he thinks 'hotlist' is 'sexlist' which is what I can gather his profile is about, I think he's here just looking for a guy for a threesome or whatever. He should have just said thanks and nothing more. If you went on to talk to him then he could probably get away being mean.
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    Nov 04, 2012 11:53 PM GMT
    As if he gets to dictate the conditions under which anyone can click on a link. We should all hotlist him just to annoy the fuck out of him. icon_lol.gif
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    Nov 04, 2012 11:55 PM GMT
    Wow! That's a new one. Hot listing someone is just a compliment. Since when do you make demands on when and how someone compliments you? icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Nov 04, 2012 11:56 PM GMT
    unfounded7 saidAs if he gets to dictate the conditions under which anyone can click on a link. We should all hotlist him just to annoy the fuck out of him. icon_lol.gif


    Something tells me that's what's going to happen.
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    Nov 04, 2012 11:57 PM GMT
    unfounded7 saidAs if he gets to dictate the conditions under which anyone can click on a link. We should all hotlist him just to annoy the fuck out of him. icon_lol.gif


    If like 10 people do it with me, I'll do it lol.
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    Nov 04, 2012 11:58 PM GMT
    OneSongGlory said
    unfounded7 saidAs if he gets to dictate the conditions under which anyone can click on a link. We should all hotlist him just to annoy the fuck out of him. icon_lol.gif


    If like 10 people do it with me, I'll do it lol.


    I'll do it. I'm pretty sure I dont qualify.
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    Nov 05, 2012 12:00 AM GMT
    2much said
    OneSongGlory said
    unfounded7 saidAs if he gets to dictate the conditions under which anyone can click on a link. We should all hotlist him just to annoy the fuck out of him. icon_lol.gif


    If like 10 people do it with me, I'll do it lol.


    I'll do it. I'm pretty sure I dont qualify.


    Sure you qualify, I'm gonna do it now! Let me know if he responds!
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    Nov 05, 2012 12:00 AM GMT
    A mass hot-listing would be funny as hell. icon_lol.gif
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    Nov 05, 2012 12:02 AM GMT
    OneSongGlory said
    2much said
    OneSongGlory said
    unfounded7 saidAs if he gets to dictate the conditions under which anyone can click on a link. We should all hotlist him just to annoy the fuck out of him. icon_lol.gif


    If like 10 people do it with me, I'll do it lol.


    I'll do it. I'm pretty sure I dont qualify.


    Sure you qualify, I'm gonna do it now! Let me know if he responds!


    I did it but he hasn't told me off yet.
  • PR_GMR

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    Nov 05, 2012 12:02 AM GMT
    Wow.. What a douchebag. 'We prefer to chat us first before hotlisting'. Really? Do they think a hotlist is some sort of commitment? It's only a small token of appreciation and a complement. That's about it. You're more than welcome not to hotlist anyone back who hotlists you if you don't feel the same and it shouldn't be a cause of any concern.

    As I learned this past week, with gay men, it takes all kinds. To the OP, just ignore these douches and keep on keeping on.
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    Nov 05, 2012 12:05 AM GMT
    2much said
    OneSongGlory said
    2much said
    OneSongGlory said
    unfounded7 saidAs if he gets to dictate the conditions under which anyone can click on a link. We should all hotlist him just to annoy the fuck out of him. icon_lol.gif


    If like 10 people do it with me, I'll do it lol.


    I'll do it. I'm pretty sure I dont qualify.


    Sure you qualify, I'm gonna do it now! Let me know if he responds!


    I did it but he hasn't told me off yet.


    I did it too, I have a strong feeling he's watching this thread lol.
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    Nov 05, 2012 12:12 AM GMT
    He replied with the following:

    "apparently u can't read."

    I think he's a robot icon_razz.gif
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    Nov 05, 2012 12:13 AM GMT


    You guys realize now that for the first time in our history here we...hotlisted someone. rofl!
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    Nov 05, 2012 12:13 AM GMT
    *Unhot list*
    *move on*
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    Nov 05, 2012 12:15 AM GMT
    OneSongGlory saidHe replied with the following:

    "apparently u can't read."

    I think he's a robot icon_razz.gif



    We got the same reply.
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    Nov 05, 2012 12:16 AM GMT
    This is what we said to each other, it was a real love connection.

    Only if you say please.

    ---- FROM (rude guy) Nov 04, 2012 at 6:12 PM
    then you're dumb and ugly. go away now.

    ---- FROM 2much Nov 04, 2012 at 6:11 PM
    Your torso didnt have anything written on it.

    ---- FROM (rude guy) Nov 04, 2012 at 6:10 PM
    apparently u can't read.

    ---- FROM 2much Nov 04, 2012 at 5:59 PM
    Dear (rude guy)

    This message has been generated by the RealJock system because I have hot listed you.
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    Nov 05, 2012 12:17 AM GMT
    Well that just solidifies how much of an idiot he is...