how do i last longer in bed?? any tips? (im a top)

  • rogerfederer

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    Nov 05, 2012 9:45 PM GMT
    so i want to be a really good top, but i have a problem with cumming too fast. Does anyone have any tips they can give me?? Essentially, i can be totally disinterested in sex, but when i do get horny i can't last long and i think my bf is annoyed. In fact, he's commented on it several times. Pills? tips? I've tried everything i could think of but nothing works.
  • kevmoran

    Posts: 1543

    Nov 06, 2012 12:13 AM GMT
    Take breaks and blow him for a bit, or have him try to scare you when you're about to cum... icon_lol.gif

    Also, did your boyfriend ever top for you? (I remember questions FOREVER :twistedicon_smile.gif
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    Nov 06, 2012 6:14 PM GMT
    Have you tried edging? That's when u get really close to climax and then back off. You can do this alone or during sex. Try going really slow and sensual at first and build the action slowly. Also try changing positions when you are getting close. You can really drive your partner wild by bringing him close to orgasm over and over. Last idea - if you know you are close to cumming just pull out and blow him while you cool off before the next round.

  • Koaa2

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    Nov 06, 2012 7:35 PM GMT
    If you can recharge quickly, cum the first time, and fuck him again, after a brief rest before he cums..
    Could also try cumming before fucking, than when the actual thing happens, may take you a bit longer, and he will enjoy it. Good luck
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    Nov 06, 2012 7:46 PM GMT
    Two condoms always works for me when I am topping a new man