Do u think it's more acceptable now for "straight" guys to be fluid, experimental & bi-curious?

  • TannerMasseur

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    Nov 07, 2012 2:30 PM GMT
    Do u think, particularly with the younger generation, it's easier & more acceptable for a "straight" kid to be experimental & bi-curious? That there's less of a stigma today about being gay or coming out? Seems in this zeitgeist, the climate has changed & young teens are coming out proud & accepting of who they are & showing the way for other teens who have issues with their sexuality. Do u think there's this trend of being "fluid", where straight guys are more open to being experimental with their sexuality? To have leanings or tendencies to follow their sexual urge for the same sex? Especially with the media & more & more sports figures & celebrities embracing their sexual orientation who become figure heads & heroes for those questioning their sexuality.....
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    Nov 07, 2012 2:32 PM GMT

    Er, how exactly are they straight if they have urges for the same sex?
  • TannerMasseur

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    Nov 07, 2012 2:43 PM GMT
    To meninlove: Guess in my post I shud put straight in quotes as questionable icon_smile.gif
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    Nov 07, 2012 3:00 PM GMT
    I do think it's more sociably acceptable to explore your sexuality now in the Western world. I think the term coined for it is 'heteroflexible'.

    Now that homosexuals have greater social acceptance the byproduct has been that increasing numbers of men/women in their early years are more willing to satisfy their sexual urges/wants and more importantly actually admit to being curious to their peers.

    The stigma still exists unfortunately but I think the mood has changed a lot, especially in more progressive parts of the world. This could be attributed to the lessening influence of religion in maintaining society's norms and values.
  • TannerMasseur

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    Nov 07, 2012 3:10 PM GMT
    I agree with u whateveryo icon_smile.gif
  • kevmoran

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    Nov 07, 2012 3:13 PM GMT
    I don't know what it was like in the past, but I'd say about 1/3 of "straight" guys are up for something with same sex. Maybe it's because I look girly, but there's a lot of guys that are willing to experiment. And it's talked about a little more, some straight friends can talk to straight friends about getting head from the freshman twink, but certainly not a majority are comfortable with it.

    EDIT: I guess I should also say I go to a pretty liberal college, so it could be very different elsewhere.
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    Nov 07, 2012 3:15 PM GMT
    manly lookin girl ^
    nice legs.

    i dont think its easier but i do think this period of growing acceptance will breed less late-in-life homos hopefully because they will question themselves more growing up and have an ever increasing list of out folk to use as role models
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    Nov 07, 2012 4:58 PM GMT
    meninlove said
    Er, how exactly are they straight if they have urges for the same sex?


    Great quote !!
  • Medjai

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    Nov 07, 2012 5:05 PM GMT
    kevmoran saidI don't know what it was like in the past, but I'd say about 1/3 of "straight" guys are up for something with same sex. Maybe it's because I look girly, but there's a lot of guys that are willing to experiment. And it's talked about a little more, some straight friends can talk to straight friends about getting head from the freshman twink, but certainly not a majority are comfortable with it.

    EDIT: I guess I should also say I go to a pretty liberal college, so it could be very different elsewhere.


    There are guys that just see it as 'a hole is a hole'. There is zero sexual attraction; they just want to get off. I still see them as straight in that boat.
  • TannerMasseur

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    Nov 07, 2012 5:12 PM GMT
    It cud be a watermelon or a simmering apple pie, long's it's pleasurable..... icon_smile.gif
  • TannerMasseur

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    Nov 08, 2012 5:52 PM GMT
    Imagine if new generations all became heteroflexible & fluid with their sexuality.....