Nov 08, 2012 9:17 PM GMT
IceBuckets saidJust a warning before I say anything: I have never been in a relationship and haven't had that much luck in keeping men around but because this isn't me, my logic seems to be in correct working order.
Anyway. My suggestion would be to run it by him first. If you suddenly show up at his doorstep then it's creepy. If you try to lie and pass it off as "oh I'm just visiting a friend." it's already not a good start to any relationship (even FWB - nobody wants a crazy FWB) and is borderline obsessive that you feel you have to lie. Play it cool but don't lie. And by "run it by him" I mean tell a half serious joke about visiting him. Albeit be honest that you want to see him again and you have a week off...and you're not sure if it's creepy. And when I say "run it by him" I mean CALL him and not text him. With texting, it's harder to get a grasp of what his intent his. Since he can either be "No" or "Yes!" or "umm..okay." If you can skype with him.
lakeguy1001 said Planning a trip to visit previous hookupWho cares?