gay stereotypes...sigh!

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    Nov 08, 2012 10:47 PM GMT
    so if you are dark, hairy and get hard; you gotta be a top!
    but guess what: i am dark, hairy and get very hard; but definitely not a top...

    yep my appearance makes me fit to top gay guys category, which i don't belong, and a lot of gays expect that. for example, the last time i've been with a "supposedly" top guy (whom was very handsome and muscular) he kept asking whether i really want to bottom because i didn't seem enough bottom to him.

    and i found out that my profile is mostly viewed by bottoms and almost ignored by tops!

    well dark hairy bottoms DO exist and yes they get hard!


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    Nov 09, 2012 3:33 AM GMT
    I think the stereotyping of gay mem as probable tops and bottoms by appearance is more often based on more subtle clues, like the way they carry themselves - attitude, speech patterns, smiles, sneers, cockiness or the lack of it. OTOH, it's hard to view a 5' 6", 135 pound guy as a top, or a 220 pound, 6' 4" guy as a bottom. And the whole bottom/top classification doesn't fit so well for gays not into anal sex.
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    Nov 09, 2012 3:42 AM GMT
    Fuck stereotypes.

    Be yourself, and stand up for who you are.

    If others don't like it, they can go fuck themselves.

    And if they get video of said self-fucking and post it on x-tube, more power to them.
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    Nov 10, 2012 8:40 PM GMT
    You should move to DC metro area where there are tons and tons of dark, hairy and hard power bottoms.