How Do I Cope with Ugliness

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    Nov 10, 2012 4:55 AM GMT
    i can work out and change my body all day, but I am stuck with my face. How do i deal? I just feel so ugly and i feel like no guy would ever stay with me.Whats the point in having/getting a good body if your face is messed up.

    i cant afford surgery or anything.
    is there anything i can do?icon_cry.gif
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    Nov 10, 2012 5:22 AM GMT
    It's not an ugly puss.
  • Just_Tim

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    Nov 10, 2012 5:26 AM GMT
    I don't like threads that seem to be fishing for compliments or validation, but I hope that's what this is. I hope you don't really think that. You're not ugly by any means, dude. I promise.
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    Nov 10, 2012 5:35 AM GMT
    Here we go again...icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Nov 10, 2012 5:36 AM GMT
    Just_Tim saidI don't like threads that seem to be fishing for compliments or validation.


    You might want to reconsider your RJ membership.
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    Nov 10, 2012 5:39 AM GMT
    Sue your parents for not disclosing that before you are born: http://news.yahoo.com/man-sued-wife-birthing-ugly-baby-110500995.html

    Just joking...take it easy, attractiveness can come in more ways than just your look.
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    Nov 10, 2012 5:43 AM GMT
    Find a job from which you make lots of $$$. Eventually, you'll find a guy who won't care how you look.
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    Nov 10, 2012 5:54 AM GMT
    JamieJfromtheA saidi can work out and change my body all day, but I am stuck with my face. How do i deal? I just feel so ugly and i feel like no guy would ever stay with me.Whats the point in having/getting a good body if your face is messed up.

    i cant afford surgery or anything.
    is there anything i can do?icon_cry.gif


    You are a beautiful unique snowflake.

    Now where did all the "guy above you" threads go?
  • Just_Tim

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    Nov 10, 2012 5:54 AM GMT
    Ariodante said
    Just_Tim saidI don't like threads that seem to be fishing for compliments or validation.


    You might want to reconsider your RJ membership.


    What do I know? I'm fat and ugly.
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    Nov 10, 2012 5:56 AM GMT
    unfounded7 saidFind a job from which you make lots of $$$. Eventually, you'll find a guy who won't care how you look.


    This post teaches us an important lesson. As time passes, looks fade, but financial interest multiples in the bank.
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    Nov 10, 2012 5:57 AM GMT
    JamieJfromtheA saidis there anything i can do?icon_cry.gif
    Forget the "ugly." Find confidence. That's what I did.
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    Nov 10, 2012 6:13 AM GMT
    Same answer as in other threads you've made. A little help from a compassionate therapist would do wonders for you. Good luck.
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    Nov 10, 2012 6:27 AM GMT
    Gain some self-confidence. You won't attract a guy if you don't have the self-esteem to do so.
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    Nov 10, 2012 6:28 AM GMT
    Ariodante said
    This post teaches us an important lesson. As time passes, looks fade, but financial interest multiples in the bank.


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    Nov 10, 2012 6:37 AM GMT
    JamieJfromtheA saidi can work out and change my body all day, but I am stuck with my face. How do i deal? I just feel so ugly and i feel like no guy would ever stay with me.Whats the point in having/getting a good body if your face is messed up.

    i cant afford surgery or anything.
    is there anything i can do?icon_cry.gif


    i cant afford surgery or anything. ....REALLY?
    Every guy wants to be with the hottest man out there, but somewhere down the line, personality takes over appearance. And everyone has types ... I got a friend who thinks I'm cute and another friend who thinks I'm hideous (and yes, we're still friends, great friends in fact.)

    Confidence does wonders...
  • AMoonHawk

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    Nov 10, 2012 7:01 AM GMT
    You seriously worry about too many little things in life ... you need to stop dying and start living
  • HottJoe

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    Nov 10, 2012 6:04 PM GMT
    Beauty is overrated. It's a burden.

    I'M SO SICK OF BEING EYE RAPED EVERY TIME I LEAVE THE HOUSE!!!

    (Just kidding. You can't rape the willing.icon_razz.gif)
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    Nov 10, 2012 8:03 PM GMT
    Though it's true you can't change your bone structure, skin care products, and manscaping (I'm hoping this term can apply to the face as well) can really change your appearance.

    Save up, get a new hair do and talk to someone about what features you think need fixing. It may be as simple as plucking your eyebrows, and whitening your teeth.

    I'm my opinion, very few are really ugly, everyone just has preferences.
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    Nov 10, 2012 8:19 PM GMT
    JamieJfromtheA saidi can work out and change my body all day, but I am stuck with my face. How do i deal? I just feel so ugly and i feel like no guy would ever stay with me.Whats the point in having/getting a good body if your face is messed up.

    i cant afford surgery or anything.
    is there anything i can do?icon_cry.gif


    Uhhh.....you're extremely handsome, going by your profile pic. The problem is that you won't believe it even if a plastic surgeon told you so in no uncertain terms.
    That's the issue you have to confront.

    ...and pay close attention to moonhawk's post. icon_wink.gif
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    Nov 10, 2012 8:49 PM GMT
    AMoonHawk saidYou seriously worry about too many little things in life ... you need to stop dying and start living


    Listen to this man!
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    Nov 10, 2012 9:14 PM GMT
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    Nov 10, 2012 9:42 PM GMT
    Learn the art of Papier-mâché

    Make your self some fabulous masks

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    And develop a rockin arse that'd make gay men weep as you walk by lookin all fabulous in your papier-mâché mask!
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    Nov 10, 2012 9:42 PM GMT
    Ya know what forget the masks, just build a rockin arse and don't bitch when he wants to do you doggy!
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    Nov 10, 2012 9:47 PM GMT
    u ain't ugly though. Don't worry about it. I know this sounds cliche, but if someone doesn't want you because you aren't high on the scale of attractiveness, he probably isn't much to begin with, And if you are looking for one night stand, lots of people don't really give a shit about your attractiveness, but from what I can see, you look fine
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    Nov 11, 2012 1:54 AM GMT
    I have this weird complex when it comes to beauty...which makes me feel like such a hyporcit

    i don't at least i try not to judge others on their looks and am so against vanity..however when it comes to myself..it's different.

    I always get the 'handsome thing" but I want to be..idk desirable.