Is this right?

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    Nov 10, 2012 6:56 AM GMT
    I don't normally post here, but I want to seek some advice from other guys, I got this message from an older man seeking to hook up when I said no I got this

    "how are you gay? I assure you something. you will oneday dislike being gay. gay culture is based on sex more than love. sex is all you will find. you will be forever on the hunt."

    This isnt the fucking truth right? I dont hookup, and I usually ignore guys who ask to hookup, but for some reason this is really bothering me and I can't seem to stop thinking about it, I really felt like saying fuck off, but I didnt even respond.
  • Kriss

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    Nov 10, 2012 7:01 AM GMT
    this is called work your way into a pity fuck...

    Been in that situation dont fall for it. Don't let anyone change your mind about something because they see they can get something out of you. That's all I am seeing from this and when it comes down to it there's always the ignore and block button.

    Keep it moving, unless its a hot DILF thats when you can stop and give em the sexy wink LOL.

    But in all seriousness Ignore it lol
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    Nov 10, 2012 7:01 AM GMT
    That man was just desperate. Sometimes people get so desperate they will reach out to anyone for sex.
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    Nov 10, 2012 7:04 AM GMT
    I was sorta thinking that too, no pic started talking about sex right away..I guess the biggest thing was that he actually questioned my sexuality, never had that one asked before..
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    Nov 10, 2012 2:22 PM GMT

    "This isnt the fucking truth right?"

    No, it isn't. However, in their casual quest for love, a lot of guys try others out sexually as well as romantically; some do one first then the other. Some are just out for fun. Keep meeting people and eventually you and someone like you will cross paths. icon_wink.gif
  • Kagse

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    Nov 10, 2012 8:34 PM GMT
    Unfortunately, for some guys it is.
    They have never developed the skills necessary to have an actual romantic relationship with another man, or at some point was hurt by another guy. Instead of processing their emotions, making themselves a healthier and stronger man, they become cynical, bitter and use sex as a way to deal with this void.
    I have dealt with this before, and its sad. I hope that someday they figure out that being gay is more than sex and circuit parties. Like everyone else in this world its what you make it.

    So just ignore these bitter assholes. Keep your head up and keep working on you.
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    Nov 11, 2012 7:30 AM GMT
    Sounds to me like he's just bitter that you said no. That may be his personal experience, but it doesn't have to be true for you. Don't worry about it, it's probably just him ranting.
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    Nov 11, 2012 9:01 AM GMT
    PFFT #HAIRFLIP