Sex in the military

  • D972

    Posts: 125

    Sep 06, 2008 3:21 AM GMT
    Hi, I just finished transitioning (don't ask -- too long to explain) a relationship with a military guy (for a foreign country), and i always wondered how does sex in the military work? There are a whole bunch of guys living in bunkers, close quarters ... there is the showers that are fairly open. Just seems like a lot of temptation.

    I know most people in the military think of it as a job, and there is that whole don't ask don't tell policy going on. I know you risk getting discharged if you are found to be gay.

    So ... anyone have any stories to share? I'm interested in hearing them. In general though ... does it happen often. Or is it just like in regular life, you think about it alot, but don't do much follow thru on the urge?
  • Koaa2

    Posts: 1556

    Sep 06, 2008 4:22 AM GMT
    I was in the military, had sex with a fellow soldier, who was married with kids.
    We use to work out together, played racquetball and ran marathons. Was fun.
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    Sep 07, 2008 4:45 PM GMT
    Sex in the Military, my experience was marked by a paranoia of the CID witch hunts. I would never consider sex with another soldier, especially a male soldier. My paranoia went so far as to sleep with my protective mask on in the field, in case I talk in my sleep. My excuse was to muffle the snoring.

    The CID is a branch of the Military Police. I don't begrudge the CID, they spent more time rooting out drug dealers than picking on us queers. I can't stand drug dealers.

  • zakariahzol

    Posts: 2241

    Sep 07, 2008 5:15 PM GMT
    Like kid looking at candy jar. I was in the army once. Everything is so masculine . I saw guy in the shower , swimming in water fall, guy with a hugh morning wood sticking out in his short. I have crushes with my sargent (eventhough he keep bullying me). But wont dare to go beyond just looking
  • D972

    Posts: 125

    Sep 11, 2008 8:11 PM GMT
    Okay so it seems like for gays, the military is just a place to be tormented and not the euphoria that the films make it out to be.

    I remember living in the all male dorm of my college and feeling the same way. Seeing all that cock and those round behinds in the shower area, waking up and seeing my roomates cock come thru his boxers with a stream of precum going down the side. And I wouldn't dare do anything but look and turn away quickly for fear it'd be too obvious that i was gay. Oh well.

    At least one person got a little adventurous here. Kudos to you.
  • WApilot

    Posts: 191

    Jan 21, 2013 8:39 PM GMT
    Sex in the military is like this.... very carefully. Especially gay sex.

    It can be managed and there are many ways to sneak away for a quick shag. Now when you're in any type of training environment, i.e. Basic Combat Training or Advanced Individual Training and such where you're just entering the military and you're being watched 24/7, it's a little harder to make happen, but not impossible.

    I had sex with a guy in basic training. While we were at the rifle range, we both snuck off behind a building and did what men do best. Given that we hadn't jerked off or had sex in over a month, sex was quick... which it needed to be quick.