How long have you known you were gay?

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    Nov 10, 2012 7:19 PM GMT
    Okay this post probably already exists, but only reason I'm asking. Is it seems that every gay guy I've talked to has known he was gay since he was about 14 (roughly). Some younger.
    I didn't realize I was gay until I was almost 20?
    Are there a lot of people out there who realize it later on too? Or generally do people have these feelings for a while?
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    Nov 10, 2012 7:55 PM GMT
    I've been attracted to men since I was around 10.
    I discovered what gay was when I was around 15
    I finally put the pieces together when I was 16
    I was in denial until I was 19.
    At 20 I've accepted it.

    I realized kinda late because I didn't even know what gay was. But looking back the feelings have been there for a while.
  • 1blind_dog

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    Nov 10, 2012 9:02 PM GMT
    Figured it out for sure and accepted it quickly when I was 21. Had my first experience with a guy when I was 22. One of my best friends didn't have his first real bf til he was 30.
  • ThatSwimmerGu...

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    Nov 10, 2012 9:03 PM GMT
    I've been attracted to guys since I was around 13
    I was in denial until i was about 16.
    First time I had sex was a week and a half ago... 19
    Now I'm not sure when a good time to tell my friends would be...
    I'm also interested in finding my first bf.
  • TannerMasseur

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    Nov 10, 2012 9:14 PM GMT
    Ur sexual awakening can happen at any age..... icon_smile.gif
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    Nov 10, 2012 9:16 PM GMT
    I've liked men ever since I was eight.
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    Nov 10, 2012 9:18 PM GMT
    Age 4. I just knew.

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    Nov 10, 2012 9:20 PM GMT
    Cash saidAge 4. I just knew.



    Wow early starter, I cant even remember anything from when I was four
  • ChrisBGood

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    Nov 10, 2012 9:21 PM GMT
    I "played" with another boy at 6. When I discovered masturbation, i imagined guys. I was 12 and knew from then on. I dont think I accept it but whatever. Thats life.
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    Nov 10, 2012 9:25 PM GMT
    Roguewave said
    Cash saidAge 4. I just knew.



    Wow early starter, I cant even remember anything from when I was four


    I have clear memories from age 2 when I lived in Holland.

    The windmills. The Tullip Festival.

    I could read at age 3.

    NO ONE knew what to make of Me.
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    Nov 10, 2012 9:32 PM GMT
    Cash said
    Roguewave said
    Cash saidAge 4. I just knew.



    Wow early starter, I cant even remember anything from when I was four


    I have clear memories from age 2 when I lived in Holland.

    The windmills. The Tullip Festival.

    I could read at age 3.

    NO ONE knew what to make of Me.


    Do they know what to make of you now?
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    Nov 10, 2012 9:35 PM GMT
    Aristoshark saidSince about 2:30 this afternoon. It was looking at all your n00dz that turned me.


    Looking at Architectural Digest changed You.

    The quaint cottages.

    The FABULOUS fabrics.

    The bouillion fringe.

    THAT was IT Man and You KNOW it.
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    Nov 11, 2012 12:52 AM GMT
    I have been physically attracted to men since 14.
    I finally understand the meaning of gay/homosexual when I was 16.
    I had a crush on one of my male friend when I was 17, but I didn't realize that. I thought we were just best friend.
    I realized that i might be gay when I was 18, but I was in denial until this summer (I'm 20 now), I was overwhelmed by the thoughts and had an emotional breakdown.
    And then I finally suck it up and accepted myself.
  • nathantoy

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    Nov 11, 2012 1:29 AM GMT
    i dont consider myself as a gay. i consider myself as a bisexual.
    for a reason that gays here in our place are like girl acting and sometimes cross dressers.
    bisexuals are people who can act as a straight guy but also attracted to men like them.
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    Nov 11, 2012 1:39 AM GMT
    When I was around 12/13 I was attracted to guys.
    When I was 19 I accepted that I was gay (for the most part anyway).
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    Nov 11, 2012 1:51 AM GMT
    I came out when I was 16

    I knew I was gay years before that. How long no idea.

    it took a while to understand that one event in life didn't make me gay or happened because I was gay. But I accepted who I was pretty easily because I didn't really know any other way I was suppose to be so I never went through any period of denial about who I was
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    Nov 11, 2012 2:16 AM GMT
    I knew for sure around 7th grade (12 years old)
    Before that, I was just unsure if I liked people at all.
  • barriehomeboy

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    Nov 11, 2012 2:18 AM GMT
    I knew when I was 3. I'm a writer and I'm looking for material, and doing research at the same time. I'm not sure why it takes as long as it did for you to realize you liked cock.

    I'm guessing there's a bi angle.

    Anyone who shares this gay revelation at 20 instead of 3, message me.
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    Nov 11, 2012 2:19 AM GMT
    When I was like 5 or 6 but didn't admit it until 1 or 2 years ago.
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    Nov 11, 2012 2:23 AM GMT
    I'm not gay I just joined this site to get photo comments
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    Nov 11, 2012 2:32 AM GMT
    Puberty, age 12. The night I discovered masturbation... cam without touching myself looking at this hot shirtless guy on TV at 1am. Thought I was going to be a straight guy when I grew up. Stupid TV lol
  • urhereurthere

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    Nov 11, 2012 3:15 AM GMT
    At 11 years old is had a friend that wanted to play with my penis and he wanted me to play with his. I didnt like it and thought it was gross but he insisted and we would be siting down just touching and holding each others penis. It was weird.

    At 15 I had a crush over and guy but until then I just didn't like people at all. Had had a gf but eh.

    Denial till 18. 18 I decided to get online and meet a guy. Moral of the story, he got me hard as stone icon_smile.gif and I loved it.
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    Nov 11, 2012 3:35 AM GMT
    I remember a couple "situations" from when I was younger lol....so it had to be before I was 7. Since then I knew I had feelings. Never acted on them, never came out.
  • uaeson

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    Nov 11, 2012 3:41 AM GMT
    have been attracted to men since 14
    first time i had sex i was 21 icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Nov 11, 2012 3:51 AM GMT
    Liked men since i was nine, in denial until 20, accepted after first time with a guy at 21 y/o