Nov 12, 2012 5:26 AM GMT
Any advice? First timer here
bvb101 saidSo I've been seeing this really cute guy before starting school. He is so sweet and even went out of his way to get me a cupcake from sprinkles after we talked about how i'm lactose intolerant and can only get the vegan cupcake from there. He really is amazing, but really busy, he works, volunteers and is a full time student that is constantly studying, but doesn't have time to ever hang out since school and everything started. I really really like him, but I feel like i'm constantly bugging him to hang out and he never can. I've never been so antsy about a guy, its weird how much I actually like him, he replies to my texts here and there but I feel like he's not interested anymore. He never initially texts me, i'm always the one starting the conversations. Any advise on what to do? Should I just stop texting him all together, or keep trying?
Well if you like him so much and want to stay friends, just be caution not to fall in love with the guy. That'll just get things worse. But even as a friend, what kind of friendship is it if he can't even hang out or text you...
Haha I ran into him today with some other girl that we both know. I started talking to her and completely ignored him... I guess I feel some resentment because he won't acknowledge me? lol
k3l3k0 saidmy advice: give him some space. Patience is the only thing that will help you with this guy by the sounds of it. After some time you'll be able to see the situation clearly.
Also, if you really do like him, do you even want to be in his friend zone? Just because you two may not be together now doesn't mean you couldn't be down the road. If you put yourself in the friend zone then it's almost impossible to get out of it... really think about what you want from him.