gyno1988 saidSo my mind is trying to rap around the thought of dating a person that says " I love you " with a closed fist. Is love truly that powerful that people can just learn to live with being hit just cause your man had a rough day ? I find the thought of hitting my lover for no reason sickening, but idk everyone has there situations and reasons why they lash out i guess.
But my question is would you ?
STAY OR GO
Oh my deity. Can you say "battered wife syndrome?" Can you say "dysfunctional" Can you say "mentally ill?"
Leave, NOW. If you stay you are mentally ill. The other guy is sick, already, and, if you continue, you will be, too.
This is not a situation you should be in UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES. LEAVE NOW.
This a very serious thing. You have to get away from it NOW.
Study up on physical abuse. Read about battered wife syndrome. GET YOURSELF OUT OF THE SITUATION A.S.A.P.
If you need help, contact an agency to help you with your mental health, or with shelter. GET OUT NOW.
Understand, you are dealing with two mentally ill people here. Him, because he believes it is o.k. to punch on you. You, for allowing it to happen and believing that it is some how o.k. IT IS NOT O.K. It is serious stuff. You need to seek a pro to see why you have dealt with it up to this point (it's called battered wife syndrome, and it's a mental illness that is completely irrational).
For your personal safety, you have to remove this person from your life. PERIOD. YOU MUST LEAVE.
DO WHATEVER IT TAKES TO COMPLETELY GET THIS PERSON OUT OF YOUR LIFE NOW. SEEK PROFESSIONAL MENTAL HEALTH CARE. THIS IS AN URGENT MATTER.