starboard5 saidA happy ending is completely inappropriate in a professional massage. A professional massage is sensual but not sexual; there's a difference and mature people understand it. I have no doubt I'm going to get blasted for this. All you professional MTs out there, back me up.
Absolutely correct. It's not only disrespectful but it is against licensing law in most states. I don't go into anyone's work and ask them to break the law for my gain. Why would they feel entitled to come into my office and do it? That's my bottom line.
My advice to the OP would to document the Hell out of this stuff when it happens. Write up an incident report, and put a note about it in your SOAP notes, then close the file. That way if by chance you get some vindictive queen who tries to say you did something you didn't do because you didn't fulfill their request to go downstairs, then you at least have something drawn up in writing stating what happened, where, what time, how it happened, etc.
I don't know how strict licensing law in California is, but in NC you have to jump through a bunch of loopholes just to get a license, and if you pull something shady, they'll have it snatched up and you on disciplinary action in a very timely manner.