Sep 07, 2008 5:15 PM GMT
So lately I have been hearing one of my good friends is either bi or gay through the grapevine. I wasnt completely shocked to hear this knowing him pretty well, but he had always dated and slept around with women and seemed pretty into it. I have had a very unique relationship with this guy and there had always been moments where I couldnt really tell if we were flirting or not, but I never tried anything because he is a good friend of mine and I assumed he was into women. I am personally not out, so him being in the situation he's in leaves me in a sort of dilemma. I don't know whether to confront him about it or just leave it as is. He is a great guy and good looking too, but I dont know whether to try and pursue this or just leave our relationship as friends.