Nov 17, 2012 12:09 AM GMT
I just can't seem to find the right guy. Even finding just a date seems to be a challenge. I think the area I live in is just very crappy and may not gay friendly
AMoonHawk saidNormal ... finding a gay relationship really is a bit of a long shot. First there are less of us around then straight people, second a lot of people are still not out or confused. You are really going to have to actively pursue guys, and I mean, ask them to lunch, the movies, a play or what ever. Most of us are shy as hell, so actively seeking a date with someone is not generally going to happen. I know that every guy I ever had a relationship with, I had to make the first move, whether it was throw him up against the wall and start making out with him or asking him if he wanted to go to a movie. And then you can't just pursue the one time and hope he gets back with you. You have to pursue him again and again until he finally becomes addicted to you. But don't over pursue, if he doesn't want to go out with you, then drop it and move on to someone else.
CollegeDude27 saidAMoonHawk said.
I've tried all of those things but I just continually get rejected
CollegeDude27 saidI just can't seem to find the right guy. Even finding just a date seems to be a challenge. I think the area I live in is just very crappy and may not gay friendly
Caslon21000 saidHA! You kids should be ecstactic with the life you have now. You have no idea of the isolation older gays grew in. NONE! But I hope you find a bf.