Hold on !! let me ask you a few questions !

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    Sep 07, 2008 10:27 PM GMT


    what would be the three most important questions (Y/N questions) that you ask a potential date before dating him ?? and what are the answers that tell you to go for it ?



    here are mine :


    - are you in the closet ?

    - do you belive in god ?

    - do you smoke ?


    If you answered NO for all of them then ya made it !!


    what are yours ! think carefully!


    To make it more interesting :
    every guy have to post his answers for the guy's above questions - then the guy above will tell what are the right answers (but doesn't post another questions) and so on....
  • Bunjamon

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    Sep 08, 2008 2:30 AM GMT
    No to all three.

    Mine:

    Are you HIV+?

    Are you out?

    Are you a good cook?

    I want someone who's willing to cook with me! And no closet cases.
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    Sep 08, 2008 2:45 AM GMT
    ^
    no (Kinda personal for a forum, isn't it?)
    yes
    yes (well, define good. Does cereal count?)

    My turn:
    Do you take life seriously? (By that I mean: too seriously)
    Do you enable friends and bfs when it comes to having fun, etc.?
    Are you an asshole?
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    Sep 08, 2008 4:59 AM GMT

    Are you serious?

    I don't have any control over how much fun they have or don't have.

    Define asshole?


    Mine are:

    Do you like Mexican food?

    What are you going to wear? (just so I can try to be on the same level dress wise, you know, don't wanna doll it up if you plan on wearing sweats.)

    How often do you shower? (more like a clue for him to shower before the date cause never know.)

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    Sep 08, 2008 12:32 PM GMT
    GuiltyGear said
    Do you like Mexican food?

    What are you going to wear? (just so I can try to be on the same level dress wise, you know, don't wanna doll it up if you plan on wearing sweats.)

    How often do you shower? (more like a clue for him to shower before the date cause never know.)



    hmmm, I don't mind mexican food, I'll happly eat it, but I'd take many other types of food over it.

    well, if I have the option of wearing anything, then, shorts and tshirt I hate shirts with a passion

    I shower every day, sometimes twice a day, always before a date and after too.



    Hmmm my questions..

    Can we eat chocolate for dinner?

    Do we really have to do that whole nervous shit before finally getting into making out with each other?

    Can I have that that piece of chocolate?
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    Sep 08, 2008 1:49 PM GMT
    GHoSTa said

    what would be the three most important questions (Y/N questions) that you ask a potential date before dating him ?? and what are the answers that tell you to go for it ?



    here are mine :


    - are you in the closet ? Not in the closet. I just do broadcast my sexuality to everyone.

    - do you belive in god ? Well I have been around the world and experienced different religions. So I believe in a higher power.

    - do you smoke ? NO. I hate smokers. They throw there nasty cigarette butts on the ground and they smell like crap.


    If you answered NO for all of them then ya made it !!


    what are yours ! think carefully! I do not really ask questions. I just observe and go on the date if I feel comfortable with the person. Then afterthe date if all is well i might go on another. But if not then it ends.


    To make it more interesting :
    every guy have to post his answers for the guy's above questions - then the guy above will tell what are the right answers (but doesn't post another questions) and so on....
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    Sep 08, 2008 1:58 PM GMT
    Here are mine:

    "Are you interested in monogamy or an open relationship?

    "Are you employed?"

    "Do you like to cuddle?"

    My ideal answers would be:

    Monogamy, yes, yes.
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    Sep 08, 2008 2:04 PM GMT
    Dear SurrealLife,

    "Are you interested in monogamy or an open relationship?"
    Monogamy is more my speed.

    "Are you employed?"
    Yep... and I love my job, which is also a bonus.

    "Do you like to cuddle?"

    More than I like sex itself sometimes... icon_wink.gif



    Now mine? I don't usually ask these questions directly because I try to figure them out from the conversation, but if I were to do so, here they are and what I want to know when ask them:

    1. What do you do for fun? (translation: "do you have a life beyond work?")
    2. In general, are you happy? (translation: "if there's one thing I don't need, it's a date with a cynical, whiny asshole, so answer carefully!")
    3. What's the most romantic thing you've ever done or hade done for you? (translation: "what's it going to take to charm you?")


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    Sep 08, 2008 3:20 PM GMT
    Bunjamon saidNo to all three.

    Mine:

    Are you HIV+?



    I'm assuming the answer you're looking for to your first question is "no" -- but what would you do if the person found out after the fact that they WERE HIV+ and they didn't know it...and you had developed feelings for him...what would you do then? And how much of your initial question is based on lack of education surrounding HIV/AIDS issues? I'm not saying you're wrong for asking the question, I'm just curious as to why this is a requirement for someone you date?
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    Sep 08, 2008 4:55 PM GMT
    1. What do you do for fun? (translation: "do you have a life beyond work?")

    Yeah, I like to think so, thought at the moments its usually gym, shower tv bed.
    2. In general, are you happy? (translation: "if there's one thing I don't need, it's a date with a cynical, whiny asshole, so answer carefully!")

    Yeah I'm happy, I'm pretty astounded with my lot in life.
    3. What's the most romantic thing you've ever done or hade done for you? Considering most of my Bf's have been assholes, not much. I help a guy move once, but that's about it
  • joggerva

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    Sep 08, 2008 5:32 PM GMT
    lilTanker said

    Hmmm my questions..

    Can we eat chocolate for dinner?

    Do we really have to do that whole nervous shit before finally getting into making out with each other?

    Can I have that that piece of chocolate?


    These ones never got answered, so:
    Yes
    Absolutely not
    That depends on what I get in return.

    My questions:
    1) Are you out? (should be yes, but I don't really believe in absolutes)
    2) Do you have female friends? (I've met more than a few sexist gays, and they really bug me)
    3) Are you employed? (again not a deal breaker, but some sort of passion/motiviation is important)
  • MSUBioNerd

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    Sep 08, 2008 6:16 PM GMT
    "My questions:
    1) Are you out? (should be yes, but I don't really believe in absolutes)
    2) Do you have female friends? (I've met more than a few sexist gays, and they really bug me)
    3) Are you employed? (again not a deal breaker, but some sort of passion/motiviation is important)"


    1) Yes
    2) Yes; I have more female friends than male friends, actually.
    3) Yes; though we grad students don't make much, I make enough to cover my bills and fill out a retirement account.

    Three major ones for me:
    1) Do you smoke?
    2) How do you feel about people who disagree with you on major topics (politics, religion, etc.)?
    3) Will it be a problem that I'm not getting naked on a first date?

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    Sep 08, 2008 6:26 PM GMT
    "Three major ones for me:
    1) Do you smoke?
    2) How do you feel about people who disagree with you on major topics (politics, religion, etc.)?
    3) Will it be a problem that I'm not getting naked on a first date?"


    NO and I do NOT date smokers!

    It depends on how major and if we can disagree and still hold respect and act civil to one another.

    Hmmm that would depend on circumstances IE: are we in a place (one of our homes) where we could get naked, and how strong the sexual lust is icon_smile.gif

    Having said that, I am ok with no sex on the first date.

    Now mine;
    1, Do you smoke?

    2. Do you like to cuddle?

    3. Do you think of yourself as romantic?


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    Sep 08, 2008 8:44 PM GMT
    joggerva said
    That depends on what I get in return.


    I'd love to see that tattoo of yours a little closer.... icon_twisted.gif
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    Sep 08, 2008 9:14 PM GMT
    TallGWMvballer said

    Now mine;
    1, Do you smoke?

    2. Do you like to cuddle?

    3. Do you think of yourself as romantic?




    1. NOOOOO
    2. Depends with whom icon_twisted.gif
    3. Yeah so I have been told...

    My questions;

    1. Would take your time?
    2. Do you let others be? (Are you bothered by the negative opinion of others concerning you)
    3. Do you define yourself on the opinion of others? (eg do you value reputation over character? I believe character is more important, cause that is what you truly are and reputation is what others percieve you to be)


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    Sep 08, 2008 9:24 PM GMT
    1. Top, bottom or versatile?

    2. I like a lot of attention and usually like to be the center of attention. Can you handle that?

    3. I like a lot of sex... are you willing to occasionally experience others together?
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    Sep 08, 2008 9:40 PM GMT
    1. What do you charge for an overnight session?

    2. Is your wiring rated for heavy electrical play?

    3. Do you believe in informed non-consensual, consent?
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    Sep 09, 2008 5:23 AM GMT
    You cant afford me, and the other two, umm, i dont get em, lol.

    My questions:

    1. are you a dirty person (lack of tidyness)?
    2. do u play video games non stop and only watch football?
    3. are you a homebody?

    i need them to answer "fuck no" to all
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    Sep 09, 2008 6:24 AM GMT
    Ha, didn't know this was a comment on the above thread,

    To the bit you did understand, my wallet is bigger than your dick icon_eek.gif



    rowerboy saidYou cant afford me, and the other two, umm, i dont get em, lol.
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    Sep 09, 2008 8:56 AM GMT
    rowerboy saidYou cant afford me, and the other two, umm, i dont get em, lol.

    My questions:

    1. are you a dirty person (lack of tidyness)?
    2. do u play video games non stop and only watch football?
    3. are you a homebody?

    i need them to answer "fuck no" to all


    fuck yes to all. roflmao icon_lol.gif

    My questions:

    1) What is the answer to life, the universe, and everything.
    2) Where are you taking me? icon_confused.gif
    3) Why am I tied up? icon_eek.gif

    You're scaring me, mister. OH GOD HELP!
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    Sep 09, 2008 9:07 AM GMT
    Sedative said

    My questions:

    1) What is the answer to life, the universe, and everything.
    2) Where are you taking me? icon_confused.gif
    3) Why am I tied up? icon_eek.gif



    1.) 18765,6749
    2.) Gilligans Island
    3.) The question should be, why is there an apple in my mouth, oh look a cosy fire with a pretty stick turning over it ..what's that for ?

    yumm
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    Sep 09, 2008 10:05 AM GMT
    Yeah, finally we have the first official RJ online cannibals thread.

    Online cannibals have been entertaining me for years and years.

    Terry
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    Sep 09, 2008 10:52 AM GMT
    Oh come on, like you haven't thought about it. I am sure I can persuade you to join me, Sed will be served with a lovely

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    Sep 09, 2008 11:06 AM GMT
    I have Kuru.

    Stop me, I'm going to sing... icon_twisted.gif



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    Sep 09, 2008 11:32 AM GMT

    Someone please define "date." icon_twisted.gif

    The rope got my attention. The bears threw me. Thank you.