I want to confess my feelings for him

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    Nov 18, 2012 4:28 PM GMT
    There's this guy I went to high school with. I had a thing for him since sophomore year, nothing big just attraction but over time I began to think he was so beautiful to me. He goes to the same college as I do and i've seen him around and I got his number. I've txt. him but he didn't reply I mean he was never really social with people outside of his race. His facebook claims he is straight but even I had that bullshit on my facebook when I was in the closet and it's hard to tell if he is straight or not. Idk should I just as friends tell him that I have feelings for him or what?
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    Nov 18, 2012 4:42 PM GMT
    follow your heart, but be prepared for the worst. I had the same scenario with my best friend in high school, and told him 40 years later, he wasn't thrilled, but it was more closure for me than it was for him......he took it pretty well, tho....and he is straight, long married with two grown kids....
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    Nov 18, 2012 5:58 PM GMT
    Keith51 saidfollow your heart, but be prepared for the worst. I had the same scenario with my best friend in high school, and told him 40 years later, he wasn't thrilled, but it was more closure for me than it was for him......he took it pretty well, tho....and he is straight, long married with two grown kids....


    Yea i mean my life won't be completely over if I told him and he hated me for it
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    Nov 18, 2012 5:58 PM GMT
    Keith51 saidfollow your heart, but be prepared for the worst. I had the same scenario with my best friend in high school, and told him 40 years later, he wasn't thrilled, but it was more closure for me than it was for him......he took it pretty well, tho....and he is straight, long married with two grown kids....


    Yea i mean my life won't be completely over if I told him and he hated me for it
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    Nov 18, 2012 6:01 PM GMT
    "just follow your heart"
    yeah....don't do that.

    He didn't respond to ur txt. . . obvi, he's not too concerned about interacting with you. Perhaps have a hang-out with him and try and guage his personality and see if he's receptive toward you.....or not.

    Dont just randomly express your love for him......out of the blue.
    That'd be like kinda creepy. Especially, if he's not into it.,
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    Nov 18, 2012 10:31 PM GMT
    Personally, I'd look for some more solid evidence of him being gay, but if you really like him and have nothing to lose anyways, then yeah tell him.
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    Nov 18, 2012 11:29 PM GMT
    I don't think you should tell anything that heavy if he doesn't even respond to your texts. Do like the above poster said and try to hang out with him to see if he's really worth having feelings for.
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    Nov 18, 2012 11:40 PM GMT
    You don't have any evidence that's he is gay, so I wouldn't express anything to him. If you can find a way to figure out that he is, then you can go from there.

    If he is gay, then you can decide whether you want to tell him or not. I'd advise against playing games. It's just a pet peeve of mine, but I'm no good with games. I find it very hard to tell what people really think of me. I prefer that if people are interested in me, they come right out and tell me. I try to do the same if I am interested in them.
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    Nov 19, 2012 12:26 AM GMT
    First, find out if he's gay or not. Then, go from there. I recently told this gay guy I knew for a few years that I had feelings for him and wanted to date him. He rejected my ass. So if you're willing to put yourself out there, go for it just know it might not end the way u want it.
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    Nov 19, 2012 1:17 AM GMT
    yourname2000 said
    LigerWoods18 said...I've txt. him but he didn't reply...
    ...he was never really social with people outside of his race...

    Whether gay, straight or quadsexual:

    hes-just-not-that-into-you-.jpg
    +1
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    Nov 19, 2012 1:40 AM GMT
    yourname2000 said
    LigerWoods18 said...I've txt. him but he didn't reply...
    ...he was never really social with people outside of his race...

    Whether gay, straight or quadsexual:

    hes-just-not-that-into-you-.jpg


    Exactly!