Is it possible to really like someone you just met?

  • ChrisBGood

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    Nov 19, 2012 3:09 AM GMT
    Just met a guy yesterday and I really really like him. He is a "curious" guy. Am I jumping the gun or should I be going head first on this one? Thoughts anyone.... :-)
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    Nov 19, 2012 3:11 AM GMT
    You say that you really like someone you just met, then in the following phrase you ask: "Is that possible" ?

    Well, hmm. Apparently, honey.
  • great_scott

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    Nov 19, 2012 5:37 AM GMT
    Of course it's possible (especially if he's hot) because you don't truly know him yet, and he's still all the things you think he is in your mind. But he may not be any of those things at all in reality.
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    Nov 19, 2012 11:28 AM GMT
    great_scott saidOf course it's possible (especially if he's hot) because you don't truly know him yet, and he's still all the things you think he is in your mind. But he may not be any of those things at all in reality.


    Heaps true
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    Nov 19, 2012 11:47 AM GMT
    yourname2000 saidA billion painful minutes of crappy country and western music says it is possible.

    In this life, just go for it....the worst thing that can happen is he says 'no'. If you prepare yourself for that, accept the possibility, and realize if he does say that you haven't lost anything that wasn't yours to begin with, then what is really "bad" about it?? What if he wants you to ask and you don't and he doesn't have the guts? --then you both lose some thing nascent that could have bloomed into something really special....and that is a loss.

    Play safe, explore, treat each other well, never let anyone disrespect you....hard for anything ultimately "bad" to happen if those are your simple objectives.


    Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm ....icon_wink.gif
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    Nov 19, 2012 3:48 PM GMT
    If you like him, then keep the friendship going. You never know where it'll go. It might not go anywhere sexually but in the end you've gained a new friend. If it does go there, play safe and enjoy the moment, and don't think too much or impose too many rules as it always complicates things. That's my two cents of advice.
  • Splendidus_1

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    Nov 19, 2012 4:11 PM GMT
    great_scott saidOf course it's possible (especially if he's hot) because you don't truly know him yet, and he's still all the things you think he is in your mind. But he may not be any of those things at all in reality.


    Nothing more to add.
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    Nov 19, 2012 4:18 PM GMT
    Oh it happens to me. I get smitten quickly BUT.....it usually isn't reciprocated...

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    Nov 19, 2012 4:34 PM GMT
    People also tend to put their best foot forward when meeting others for the first time. Take ur time and find out who he really is as he lets his guard down.
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    Nov 19, 2012 4:42 PM GMT
    great_scott saidOf course it's possible (especially if he's hot) because you don't truly know him yet, and he's still all the things you think he is in your mind. But he may not be any of those things at all in reality.


    well said