Great Bodies, no Erotic Aptitude Whatsoever

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    Nov 19, 2012 3:27 AM GMT
    I'm beginning to think there are a large number of guys who work their bodies to perfection, but have no erotic aptitude whatsoever. They're not imaginative, they're not passionate, they're just plain.....dull. What's up with that?
  • AMoonHawk

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    Nov 19, 2012 3:39 AM GMT
    When guys have a really great body or great looking, some may tend to be a little stand offish because everyone is always pawing on them ... I think it would be worse if he just gave himself to everyone .. I met a couple like that and all I could think of was "how sad"
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    Nov 19, 2012 3:40 AM GMT
    I find that the hottest people are like 7/10. No one with exceedingly good looks is hot, they have nothing to strive for. The 7/10 work to make you happy, and man, awwww.
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    Nov 19, 2012 4:32 AM GMT
    Great bodies are erotic. Maybe they think that'll be enough to satisfy their partner?
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    Nov 19, 2012 6:44 AM GMT
    Is OP claiming to be disappointed after getting it on with a "perfect body", or is he advertising that with him "there's more than meets the eye"?
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    Nov 19, 2012 9:33 AM GMT
    My point of logic: Hard bodies in most of the gay culture is considered highly attractive. The highly attractive are more likely to be involved in one night stands and hookups due to the common lustful first reaction by others towards them. The highly attractive ones who choose to participate in said hookups are likely to repeat. That repetition of satisfying the physical urge reduces the frequency and/or desire for relationships. Lack of relationships limits emotional involvement and stumping emotional growth which could directly effect the passion needed for great sex. It also limits the duration spent with any one person losing out on the time needed to gain the trust and connection usually shared by couples who are more likely to experiment and learn new things.
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    Nov 19, 2012 9:47 AM GMT
    1blind_dog saidMy point of logic: Hard bodies in most of the gay culture is considered highly attractive. The highly attractive are more likely to be involved in one night stands and hookups due to the common lustful first reaction by others towards them. The highly attractive ones who choose to participate in said hookups are likely to repeat. That repetition of satisfying the physical urge reduces the frequency and/or desire for relationships. Lack of relationships limits emotional involvement and stumping emotional growth which could directly effect the passion needed for great sex. It also limits the duration spent with any one person losing out on the time needed to gain the trust and connection usually shared by couples who are more likely to experiment and learn new things.


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    Nov 19, 2012 9:51 AM GMT
    1blind_dog saidMy point of logic: Hard bodies in most of the gay culture is considered highly attractive. The highly attractive are more likely to be involved in one night stands and hookups due to the common lustful first reaction by others towards them. The highly attractive ones who choose to participate in said hookups are likely to repeat. That repetition of satisfying the physical urge reduces the frequency and/or desire for relationships. Lack of relationships limits emotional involvement and stumping emotional growth which could directly effect the passion needed for great sex. It also limits the duration spent with any one person losing out on the time needed to gain the trust and connection usually shared by couples who are more likely to experiment and learn new things.


    Holy moly! In one paragraph you just solved the biggest dilemma plaguing gay men. icon_eek.gif Well done
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    Nov 19, 2012 10:47 AM GMT
    You're welcome
    (bows)
    I knew I'd make my mark on RJ at some point
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    Nov 19, 2012 11:19 AM GMT
    1blind_dog saidMy point of logic: Hard bodies in most of the gay culture is considered highly attractive. The highly attractive are more likely to be involved in one night stands and hookups due to the common lustful first reaction by others towards them. The highly attractive ones who choose to participate in said hookups are likely to repeat. That repetition of satisfying the physical urge reduces the frequency and/or desire for relationships. Lack of relationships limits emotional involvement and stumping emotional growth which could directly effect the passion needed for great sex. It also limits the duration spent with any one person losing out on the time needed to gain the trust and connection usually shared by couples who are more likely to experiment and learn new things.

    Couldn't have said it better myself. Well-done!
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    Nov 19, 2012 8:46 PM GMT
    ^
    So that explains my erotic ineptitude.
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    Nov 19, 2012 8:49 PM GMT
    1blind_dog saidMy point of logic: Hard bodies in most of the gay culture is considered highly attractive. The highly attractive are more likely to be involved in one night stands and hookups due to the common lustful first reaction by others towards them. The highly attractive ones who choose to participate in said hookups are likely to repeat. That repetition of satisfying the physical urge reduces the frequency and/or desire for relationships. Lack of relationships limits emotional involvement and stumping emotional growth which could directly effect the passion needed for great sex. It also limits the duration spent with any one person losing out on the time needed to gain the trust and connection usually shared by couples who are more likely to experiment and learn new things.


    Lol, I can't believe so many guys bought this. Boiled down: if you're hot, you're a slut.

    I know plenty of good looking guys in relationships and also more than a few not so good looking slutty guys.
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    Nov 19, 2012 8:50 PM GMT
    1blind_dog saidMy point of logic: Hard bodies in most of the gay culture is considered highly attractive. The highly attractive are more likely to be involved in one night stands and hookups due to the common lustful first reaction by others towards them. The highly attractive ones who choose to participate in said hookups are likely to repeat. That repetition of satisfying the physical urge reduces the frequency and/or desire for relationships. Lack of relationships limits emotional involvement and stumping emotional growth which could directly effect the passion needed for great sex. It also limits the duration spent with any one person losing out on the time needed to gain the trust and connection usually shared by couples who are more likely to experiment and learn new things.


    RIGHT!!!!!!! WORD TO YA MOTHER!!!!!!!!!!!
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    Nov 19, 2012 8:55 PM GMT
    1blind_dog saidMy point of logic: Hard bodies in most of the gay culture is considered highly attractive. The highly attractive are more likely to be involved in one night stands and hookups due to the common lustful first reaction by others towards them. The highly attractive ones who choose to participate in said hookups are likely to repeat. That repetition of satisfying the physical urge reduces the frequency and/or desire for relationships. Lack of relationships limits emotional involvement and stumping emotional growth which could directly effect the passion needed for great sex. It also limits the duration spent with any one person losing out on the time needed to gain the trust and connection usually shared by couples who are more likely to experiment and learn new things.



    I completely disagree with every point you have asserted here. I'm one of the most promiscuous people I know, and I'm simultaneously very attuned to people's emotions, passions, needs, and desires. It's my business. As for whether or not being promiscuous in and of itself reduces the urge to be in a relationship, I would point out that I am the exception to the rule within my circle of peers/friends: I don't want a relationship (because of my past relationships), but nearly every porn model, escort, and exotic dancer I know is, in fact, in a long term relationship. Also, most of my clients are also in long term relationships, and they come to me BECAUSE THERE IS NO PASSION OR EXPERIMENTATION IN THEIR RELATIONSHIP.

    Everything you said here is laced with bias. Perhaps what is more accurate to assert is that if there isn't true chemistry in the first place there's no reason to show off or impress someone (especially if you don't anticipate seeing that person again). The OP presumes that he's worth impressing, which may or may not be the case from the perspective of the various perfect bodies he's fucking. Just saying.
  • Splendidus_1

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    Nov 19, 2012 9:07 PM GMT
    There's no such thing as one universal truth that applies to the source of this "problem" - each case is a case. 1blind_dog gave an explanation for people who fall into that category.

    In my opinion, there might be also another reason: If you have a body of a God, then there's nothing else you have to do to get most guys. People simply show up with their bodies, and that's that. I've heard most straight guys stating that ugly women are the best fucks by far, since it's like they have to "compensate" (this is lame, but I'm just telling how it is) their lack of beauty.
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    Nov 19, 2012 9:10 PM GMT
    wrestlervic saidI find that the hottest people are like 7/10. No one with exceedingly good looks is hot, they have nothing to strive for. The 7/10 work to make you happy, and man, awwww.



    Translation: I lower my standards to give desperate people a chance to use me vigorously.

    Am I close?
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    Nov 19, 2012 10:30 PM GMT
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    wrestlervic saidI find that the hottest people are like 7/10. No one with exceedingly good looks is hot, they have nothing to strive for. The 7/10 work to make you happy, and man, awwww.



    Translation: I lower my standards to give desperate people a chance to use me vigorously.

    Am I close?
    I raise my standards and seek out really hot guys who've lowered theirs. icon_twisted.gif
  • Vaughn

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    Nov 19, 2012 10:36 PM GMT
    wrestlervic saidI'm beginning to think there are a large number of guys who work their bodies to perfection, but have no erotic aptitude whatsoever. They're not imaginative, they're not passionate, they're just plain.....dull. What's up with that?


    Yuppppppp they fuck in doggy or want to be ridden. The doggy is worst because they have no aim.. It's like a jackhammer. They're pretty so no one tells them they suck.
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    Nov 19, 2012 10:36 PM GMT
    sounds like bitterness to me...
  • Pyre85

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    Nov 19, 2012 10:46 PM GMT
    I think it's all in the person.
    In my more free wheeling past, I've had an incredibly hot man or two who bounced me off walls and rang all the right bells, and some rather physically unattractive ones do the same, and vice versa. There were some mediocre guys who literally made me want to gag they kissed so bad, (oh lord were they trying tho)
    Skill aside tho, It all comes down to passion, and this holds true for porn too. Nothings more boring than watching a boy--no mater how ripped and sexy--slam into another with a blank look on his face that says he'd rather be watching CSI, while the bottom too, stares blankly at the top as if wishing he'd come already so he can cash his check.
    Now one where the two are gasping and moaning, have obvious chemistry and are clearly loving every second of it--even if they aren't physically perfect--is the one I'm down for.
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    Nov 19, 2012 10:56 PM GMT
    I can't really offer an opinion. A lot more sex with "10's" would be required to have enough data to work from. However, I am willing to make that sacrifice.

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    Nov 19, 2012 10:57 PM GMT

    Isn't this a little like asking how come some guys that look bookish and wear those scientist glasses etc aren't automatically brilliant?

    or

    Swimmer's bodies, but they don't swim.
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    Nov 19, 2012 10:59 PM GMT
    That's why they need "perfect" bodies, it's because they're terrible in bed.
  • Vaughn

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    Nov 19, 2012 11:00 PM GMT
    McQueen saidThat's why they need "perfect" bodies, it's because they're terrible in bed.


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    Nov 19, 2012 11:02 PM GMT
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    1blind_dog saidMy point of logic: Hard bodies in most of the gay culture is considered highly attractive. The highly attractive are more likely to be involved in one night stands and hookups due to the common lustful first reaction by others towards them. The highly attractive ones who choose to participate in said hookups are likely to repeat. That repetition of satisfying the physical urge reduces the frequency and/or desire for relationships. Lack of relationships limits emotional involvement and stumping emotional growth which could directly effect the passion needed for great sex. It also limits the duration spent with any one person losing out on the time needed to gain the trust and connection usually shared by couples who are more likely to experiment and learn new things.


    Holy moly! In one paragraph you just solved the biggest dilemma plaguing gay men. icon_eek.gif Well done
    Agreed* Well said.