me and my boyfriend dont and cant (it seems like) spend time together

  • rogerfederer

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    Nov 20, 2012 2:18 AM GMT
    me and my boyfriend have been dating for nearly 5 months now, and we are lucky to see each other once a week. Now, it is exceptionally bad. We only see each other once every two weeks. We both work and go to school. He has a really demanding major. Not to mention we live 40 mins from each other, and i got kicked out of his house for his mom walking in on us making out. And he's not allowed back at my house because I'm getting kicked out.

    When we don't hang out, we end up fighting massively over txt messages.
    It's not either one of our faults and we don't want to break up but i'm not happy or satisfied.
    Sexually, i don't have sex nearly enough (if ever) bc i never see him and its getting to the point where im i can't help but feel like sleeping with other guys bc THEY ACTUALLY WANT TO!
    what to do??????? I'm suppose to be moving in January so we'll be going to the same college and i'll have my own place. But he's always gunna be busy and so will i. I don't know what to do.
    Ur thoughts?
  • TheAlchemixt

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    Nov 20, 2012 3:50 AM GMT
    You and your boyfriend need to sit down and talk about where you see this relationship going. If you are both too busy for each other, I don't see how your relationship will work out at all.
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    Nov 20, 2012 3:52 AM GMT
    It's recycling time...

    lol, just kidding. But, I'm not really a fan of extended periods without seeing someone. If I'm not seeing a person every week, I don't care how busy they claim their schedule is....I'm not going to be hanging arond talking thru texts.

    I worked 40 hrs a week and went to school too. there was still saturday nights. so not a good enough excuse. if he can't make time to meet, then y'all just need to part ways for now.

    People can talk thru texts forever and never meet up. I don't allow people who can't meet up with me to use up my time like that. There's been a guy I met like over a month ago and haven't since seen him...yet he still texts me here and there. I'm going to cut that bullshit out after today.
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    Nov 20, 2012 3:55 AM GMT
    Long distance is harsh, few can make it work. You are much to young to be dealing with one. I say have a chat with this guy and decide if this relationship is worth pursing.
  • Kel_

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    Nov 20, 2012 3:57 AM GMT
    Just checked your Status, you're Single.
    Does that mean it's over?
    So.. are you seeing anyone lately? Rawr!
    Haha
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    Nov 20, 2012 3:59 AM GMT
    Kel_ saidJust checked your Status, you're Single.
    Does that mean it's over?
    So.. are you seeing anyone lately? Rawr!
    Haha



    Are you his boyfriend? Uh Oh...let me get out the popcorn LOL
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    Nov 20, 2012 3:59 AM GMT
    Mixleanmachine saidYou and your boyfriend need to sit down and talk about where you see this relationship going. If you are both too busy for each other, I don't see how your relationship will work out at all.


    Yup.
  • Kel_

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    Nov 20, 2012 4:02 AM GMT
    FuzzyPecs25 said
    Kel_ saidJust checked your Status, you're Single.
    Does that mean it's over?
    So.. are you seeing anyone lately? Rawr!
    Haha



    Are you his boyfriend? Uh Oh...let me get out the popcorn LOL


    Um.. he's from Louisiana, United States, and I'm from Toronto, Canada.

    I wish! Haha.
    He's a good-looking guy, young, but attractive. Perhaps I'm too old for him icon_sad.gif
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    Nov 20, 2012 4:53 AM GMT
    Dear rogerfederer

    I would fuck the shit outta you.


    Just so you know. icon_idea.gif
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    Nov 20, 2012 5:26 AM GMT
    Like brushing your teeth, try cleaning out your ass sometime. In most all of your threads you bitch and moan about finding men and not getting laid. At the same time, you bitch and moan about how you're too lazy and picky to keep you hole clean and ready. No wonder you have such problems with getting men all the time. Most tops don't have the stomach to fuck skanky bottoms. Do you brush your teeth? Do you use soap under your arm pits? If so, then clean out your ass already.

    Take the fucking hint.


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    Nov 20, 2012 5:30 AM GMT
    Kel_ saidJust checked your Status, you're Single.
    Does that mean it's over?
    So.. are you seeing anyone lately? Rawr!
    Haha


    Make sure you use a "dip stick" FIRST before you sink your stinger into his honeypot. The boy from New Iberia has been known to be carrying a colon full of fudge for the packer.

    Unless you're into "that sort of thing" (aka Dirty Sanchez type scene).
  • Kriss

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    Nov 20, 2012 5:58 AM GMT
    sigh welcome to life....personally rogerfederer from all your previous threads I just dont think...your stable enough to handle a relationship...sit down and think about it before you try to jump in it
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    Nov 20, 2012 7:11 AM GMT
    When two busy people are in a relationship together (which is the case for most adult relationships FYI), you must schedule and plan your time together and come to terms he won't be there at your beck and call. If you can't deal with that, wait a little longer before you try a relationship out.
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    Nov 20, 2012 7:32 AM GMT
    January isn't that far away...
  • imbrad

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    Nov 20, 2012 9:44 AM GMT
    You are too hot for me to give you sound advice! Sorry... i do hope you find yourself in a situation with less stress and drama that you can truly embrace as your life.
  • Beastmode

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    Nov 20, 2012 10:36 AM GMT
    GAMRican saidLike brushing your teeth, try cleaning out your ass sometime. In most all of your threads you bitch and moan about finding men and not getting laid. At the same time, you bitch and moan about how you're too lazy and picky to keep you hole clean and ready. No wonder you have such problems with getting men all the time. Most tops don't have the stomach to fuck skanky bottoms. Do you brush your teeth? Do you use soap under your arm pits? If so, then clean out your ass already.

    Take the fucking hint.


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    Ewwww... That is so wrong on so many levels.
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    Nov 20, 2012 10:43 AM GMT
    DEKIRUMAN saidDear rogerfederer
    I would fuck the shit outta you.
    Just so you know. icon_idea.gif
    Literally, according to GAMrican.
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    Nov 20, 2012 11:50 AM GMT
    rogerfederer saidme and my boyfriend have been dating for nearly 5 months now, and we are lucky to see each other once a week. Now, it is exceptionally bad. We only see each other once every two weeks. We both work and go to school. He has a really demanding major. Not to mention we live 40 mins from each other, and i got kicked out of his house for his mom walking in on us making out. And he's not allowed back at my house because I'm getting kicked out.

    When we don't hang out, we end up fighting massively over txt messages.
    It's not either one of our faults and we don't want to break up but i'm not happy or satisfied.
    Sexually, i don't have sex nearly enough (if ever) bc i never see him and its getting to the point where im i can't help but feel like sleeping with other guys bc THEY ACTUALLY WANT TO!
    what to do??????? I'm suppose to be moving in January so we'll be going to the same college and i'll have my own place. But he's always gunna be busy and so will i. I don't know what to do.
    Ur thoughts?


    Sit down and talk to him. Hopefully things will change. If not, then you guys need to break up. It's a bad sign you are thinking about cheating on him rather than communicating.
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    Nov 20, 2012 11:58 AM GMT
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    GAMRican saidLike brushing your teeth, try cleaning out your ass sometime. In most all of your threads you bitch and moan about finding men and not getting laid. At the same time, you bitch and moan about how you're too lazy and picky to keep you hole clean and ready. No wonder you have such problems with getting men all the time. Most tops don't have the stomach to fuck skanky bottoms. Do you brush your teeth? Do you use soap under your arm pits? If so, then clean out your ass already.

    Take the fucking hint.


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    Ewwww... That is so wrong on so many levels.


    The worst (?) thing is that it's so true for so many!
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    Nov 20, 2012 1:17 PM GMT
    Do you still love him?

    When you love someone you can always make it work. Maybe its just the end of your relationship...
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    Nov 20, 2012 2:36 PM GMT
    Sounds like a dysfunctional relationship that's unhealthy for both of you. Relationships are supposed to make us feel good, not overburdened. What's the point in having one if it's more aggravating than mutually satisfying?
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    Nov 20, 2012 6:26 PM GMT
    Life is too short to stay in a bad relationship - especially if you are not sexually satisfied!
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    Nov 20, 2012 7:18 PM GMT
    Where the hell is the link to your YouTube channel???
  • FitGwynedd

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    Nov 20, 2012 7:20 PM GMT
    Do you have anything in common?