Ugh,How Shallow

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    Nov 21, 2012 4:49 AM GMT
    This site is shallow for the most part about the person's qaulity. Oh well, it is what it is I guess. Why will people not accept a person as is including a mentally disable or disordered person? What the physically or mentally disabled do to deserve that kind of cruel and hateful rejection beyond compare? Is it their disability getting the way of the lovable bond? Or are they a mere turn-offs to others that they had burden them as nothingmore than a simple difficult dead-weight that they could bare? Hmph, what a shame? I have Autism; this a mentally developemental disorder that with my ability tosocally interact with others. It is a spectrum's lower-end kind. That means that I can do anything that normal others do(well..sort of). But when I am alone with no one to chat with, I tend to do....weird things because of it. However, I can control my Autism when I am around people. And I am making progress of loving myself confidently with a smile icon_biggrin.gificon_smile.gif! Also, I will not let some shallow person put me down! Because I am too nice of person for that. In any case people, please do not be shallow to the disabled or disordered out of abhorence! Be gently honest if you do not want to go out with or be in a relationship with that person. Compliment his or her personality and explain reasons and befriend a person at least.
  • RollDontWalk

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    Nov 22, 2012 4:28 AM GMT
    I don't disagree, but that's life. Confidence attracts, but your post doesn't sound like confidence. Always keep in your mind that you deserve what you want.
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    Nov 22, 2012 10:07 AM GMT
    RollDontWalk saidAlways keep in your mind that you deserve what you want.

    I want cake and damn it I want it now!!!!

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    Nov 22, 2012 2:02 PM GMT
    Some guys here probably come across as shallow. But we have all had issues in our lives : confidence, rejection, body image, addiction, social awkwardness...

    It sounds like you are developing social skills and confidence in your life. Just keep building on that. icon_smile.gif
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    Nov 23, 2012 5:13 AM GMT
    At Roll,Atxd and Tanker: Thank you guys so much.