Feminine Gay Men: Yay or Nay?

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    Nov 23, 2012 12:40 AM GMT
    Now personally I have nothing against them and although most of the one I have met dont peak my fancy I have met a few I liked. However I know some men who feel like dating a feminine man defeats the purpose so to speak.

    Could you date a man who was extremely feminine? How feminine is too feminine for you?
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    Nov 23, 2012 2:14 AM GMT
    It depends on the personality that attracts me to a person. If a women can be masculin then a guy should be aloud to be fem.
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    Nov 23, 2012 2:16 AM GMT
    the whole reason there are so many guys on this site whining and bitching about being alone is that they have formed ignorant and uniformed ideas/ideals about with whom they would start a relationship....most haven't got past the relationship with their hand, let alone tried to enter a responsible, giving one with another human......short of it is....if you're gonna confine yourself to little pigeon holes....you're gonna die in the nest....
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    Nov 23, 2012 2:17 AM GMT
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    Nov 23, 2012 2:18 AM GMT
    Keith51 saidthe whole reason there are so many guys on this site whining and bitching about being alone is that they have formed ignorant and uniformed ideas/ideals about with whom they would start a relationship....most haven't got past the relationship with their hand, let alone tried to enter a responsible, giving one with another human......short of it is....if you're gonna confine yourself to little pigeon holes....you're gonna die in the nest....
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    Nov 23, 2012 2:18 AM GMT
    Nayyyyyy for dating, befriending someone whos feminine, meh
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    Nov 23, 2012 2:19 AM GMT
    AejA87 saidIt depends on the personality that attracts me to a person. If a women can be masculin then a guy should be aloud to be fem.
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    Nov 23, 2012 2:21 AM GMT
    It depends on what you mean by fem.
    I actually think it's really cute if guys have facial features that look a little fem, but if they look like actual girls, or crossdress, that's a turn off imo. :/ If I wanted a girl, I'd just go get one, lol.
    I prefer guys that largely act like a guy. I mean like a little stylish and stuff is okay, but please nothing like a stereotypical gay guy.
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    Nov 23, 2012 2:23 AM GMT
    I am not going to lie, I happen to be more attracted to masculine men than feminine. With that said, I think everyone should feel comfortable in their own skin and be themselves. That is one cause I will always support.

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    Nov 23, 2012 2:54 AM GMT
    Doesn't matter too much but i personally like my men more masculine.
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    Nov 23, 2012 2:59 AM GMT
    i like guys who are 9 feet tall, can shotgun a keg &crush boulders with their feet.
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    Nov 23, 2012 3:10 AM GMT
    blackstrap saidi like guys who are 9 feet tall, can shotgun a keg &crush boulders with their feet.


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    Nov 23, 2012 3:59 AM GMT
    I will never be friends with feminine gay men.They turn me off.I want nothing
    to with them at all.They are drama freaks and losers to me.They have much
    too baggage for me.I was friends with gay feminine men in the past and I
    regret it.
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    Nov 23, 2012 4:12 AM GMT
    GAYBIGMACHODUDE1972 saidI will never be friends with feminine gay men.They turn me off.I want nothing
    to with them at all.They are drama freaks and losers to me.They have much
    too baggage for me.I was friends with gay feminine men in the past and I
    regret it.


    but then again....you seem to have a prob with anything feminine...right..icon_question.gif
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    Nov 23, 2012 4:13 AM GMT
    IslamicBottom4SatanistTop saidINB4 NAYS


    I dont care what self-haters say. They are obviously envious of fems bravery, sociability and real masculinity.
    Bro Chillaxin my ass.......






    Keith51 saidthe whole reason there are so many guys on this site whining and bitching about being alone is that they have formed ignorant and uniformed ideas/ideals about with whom they would start a relationship....most haven't got past the relationship with their hand, let alone tried to enter a responsible, giving one with another human......short of it is....if you're gonna confine yourself to little pigeon holes....you're gonna die in the nest....


    You must be new......
    Too bad many wont think that far though.
    An interesting person gets an interesting date.


    second time around here, so no......and to life.....ya about 6 decades ago...
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    Nov 23, 2012 4:13 AM GMT
    GAYBIGMACHODUDE1972 saidI will never be friends with feminine gay men.They turn me off.I want nothing
    to with them at all.They are drama freaks and losers to me.They have much
    too baggage for me.I was friends with gay feminine men in the past and I
    regret it.




    not sure if troll or just very macho
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    Nov 23, 2012 4:20 AM GMT
    it's always the "masc guys" who are whining about the fem guys..


    I think they need to toughen up!

    Stop being little girls!

    Stop whining!
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    Nov 23, 2012 4:23 AM GMT
    Fem is okay, flamboyant is a whole different thing.
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    Nov 23, 2012 4:29 AM GMT
    jK87 saidNayyyyyy for dating, befriending someone whos feminine, meh
    my sentiments exactly
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    Nov 23, 2012 4:29 AM GMT
    we're all multifaceted individuals. the ones who claim not to be are lying to themselves. This afternoon after Turkey brunch I went outside and did some work on my car while the rest were chatting and then i came back in and debated the ridiculousness of male "haute couture" with one of my aunts, limp-wristed "ta-daa" flair included. Its who I am, and for it i make not one excuse.
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    Nov 23, 2012 4:49 AM GMT
    GAYBIGMACHODUDE1972 saidI will never be friends with feminine gay men.They turn me off.I want nothing
    to with them at all.They are drama freaks and losers to me.They have much
    too baggage for me.I was friends with gay feminine men in the past and I
    regret it.


    Me thinks the problem is not so much with them but with you. Maybe you feel like being associated with fem men will make people assume you are the same way.
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    Nov 23, 2012 4:53 AM GMT
    yourname2000 said
    lilTanker saidit's always the "masc guys" who are whining about the fem guys..


    I think they need to toughen up!

    Stop being little girls!

    Stop whining!

    Ahh....pretty sure (based on his other threads) that the OP is fem. icon_confused.gif


    Well yeah I am to a point. I like moving my body like a woman and dressing more out there because it feels like me. I like playing that role in my life and I prefer for men I'm with to be the same way. But I'm open if I really like the person and I like having fem friends. I may even date a really fem guy if she's cute enough and is more willing to play the man because that's honestly the only way I can function. Someone has to be in charge. Someone has to be dominant.
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    Nov 23, 2012 4:54 AM GMT
    Dating wise, I don't think I could date a feminine guy. I mean, with the few feminine guys I have talked to in my life, I had nothing in common with them except the fact that I like to take time in creating my outfits. Yeah I'll admit that I have fun coming up with new wardrobe ideas but as far as that goes, I really don't have anything in common with them to base a relationship on.

    However, I also don't think I could date the most masculine guy in the world neither. Guys who try so hard to "act straight" to fit in with normal society are just as much a turn off to me as the overly stereotypical flamboyant acting guys. I think a balance of both masc and fem is the perfect balance to me. Like they like to get down and dirty but aren't afraid to show that they have feelings as well. That's the perfect kind of guy to me.

    But yeah, I think that you should be yourself. If you do have fem qualities and aren't afraid to show them, then continuing being the guy you are. Because even if you meet a guy who doesn't like who you are, there will be another guy who will.
  • GAYBIGMACHODU...

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    Nov 23, 2012 4:58 AM GMT
    I'm totally masculine,always was and always will be too.I'm hyper masculine guy.I hate feminine guys and I want nothing to with them.
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    Nov 23, 2012 5:01 AM GMT
    touji saidIt depends on what you mean by fem.
    I actually think it's really cute if guys have facial features that look a little fem, but if they look like actual girls, or crossdress, that's a turn off imo. :/ If I wanted a girl, I'd just go get one, lol.
    I prefer guys that largely act like a guy. I mean like a little stylish and stuff is okay, but please nothing like a stereotypical gay guy.


    By fem I mean someone like myself who feels very comfortable nd natural with behaving in a manner that would be considered woman,y by most. Of course for most people like this it's not something they even have to try to do. I like being like a woman in many ways even though I want neither a vagina nor breasts. I do not feel like a man trapped in a woman's body but more like a man who is improving on womanhood by doing it himself.