Shy to guys but bold to girls

  • bobbyddadd

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    Nov 23, 2012 4:21 AM GMT
    Any one have this experience too? See a cute or hot guy, but you are too shy to walk up to talk to him. On the other hand, see a cute or hot girl, you felt easy to find a topic to talk to.

    Went to a party last night, saw couple cute and couple hot guys. But I was too shy, didn't know what to say to him. And then saw someone walk to him and started talking and then laughing with him. So jealous.

    But I went to a straight party the other time. I felt easy to talk to a girl and we had a very good time. Danced all night and talked and chatted a lot. She even gave me her phone number. She didn't know I am gay. Didn't ask, didn't say.

    Any one in this kind of situation too?
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    Nov 23, 2012 4:25 AM GMT
    pretty easy...you have no competition or romantic interest in the girl....no threat to keep your guard up for...
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    Nov 23, 2012 6:51 PM GMT
    Kind of a no-brainer...
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    Nov 23, 2012 6:55 PM GMT
    It is easier to talk to an attractive girl because we have NO interest to them.

    Attractive guys, gosh I will no sooner talk dumb and slam into a wall. icon_redface.gificon_confused.gif
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    Nov 23, 2012 7:00 PM GMT
    bobbyddadd saidAny one have this experience too? See a cute or hot guy, but you are too shy to walk up to talk to him. On the other hand, see a cute or hot girl, you felt easy to find a topic to talk to.

    Went to a party last night, saw couple cute and couple hot guys. But I was too shy, didn't know what to say to him. And then saw someone walk to him and started talking and then laughing with him. So jealous.

    But I went to a straight party the other time. I felt easy to talk to a girl and we had a very good time. Danced all night and talked and chatted a lot. She even gave me her phone number. She didn't know I am gay. Didn't ask, didn't say.

    Any one in this kind of situation too?


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    Nov 23, 2012 7:04 PM GMT
    Seriously, this is my life! I can hit on girls at bars easily, I don't even mean to do it. But when I see a hot guy, I get all red faced and can barley look them in the eye let alone talk to them.
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    Nov 23, 2012 7:10 PM GMT
    Hahahaha I actually have to think twice about bringing my (hottie female) roomie out to the gayborhood with me cuz I feel like she gets all the attention. She'll even turn them straight right in front of me. icon_evil.gif But then again, when I go out to straight places with straight guy friends, I'm the one that gets all the action.

    I think it has to do with the fact that girls are just seen as harmless fun in a gay context, whereas if you're a guy at a gay place (or anywhere for that matter), you gotta be careful to make sure you're not coming on too heavy at first. And vice versa.
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    Nov 23, 2012 8:03 PM GMT
    I'm the opposite, but I'm bi. Shy around attractive women, but not shy at all around attractive guys.
  • Kriss

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    Nov 23, 2012 8:27 PM GMT
    so true...attractive men leave me half retarded, attractive women are alright can talk about anything.
  • Import

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    Nov 24, 2012 12:24 AM GMT
    This is very easy to answer.

    Around girls u really don't give a fuck whether they like u or not. U can completely be yourself, because you do not want them.

    Around hot guys, you get nervous because u want them to like you and you dont wanna potentially fuck it up by saying somethnig stupid.

    There ya go.
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    Nov 24, 2012 12:49 AM GMT
    Import saidThis is very easy to answer.

    Around girls u really don't give a fuck whether they like u or not. U can completely be yourself, because you do not want them.

    Around hot guys, you get nervous because u want them to like you and you dont wanna potentially fuck it up by saying somethnig stupid.

    There ya go.


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  • bobbyddadd

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    Nov 24, 2012 3:10 AM GMT
    Import saidThis is very easy to answer.

    Around girls u really don't give a fuck whether they like u or not. U can completely be yourself, because you do not want them.

    Around hot guys, you get nervous because u want them to like you and you dont wanna potentially fuck it up by saying somethnig stupid.

    There ya go.


    Sounds pretty much right
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    Nov 24, 2012 3:12 AM GMT
    mikkeb saidI'm the opposite, but I'm bi. Shy around attractive women, but not shy at all around attractive guys.


    Same here
  • AMoonHawk

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    Nov 24, 2012 5:20 AM GMT
    I start up small talk with straight men all the time, but I find like about 50% to be stuck up and put offish. I guess they have stick up their ass. But I have to thank them because it makes them all the more less desirable, in fact, it makes me view all straight men with different eyes. Now I just assume they are all dick heads.
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    Nov 24, 2012 5:25 AM GMT
    tmac said
    mikkeb saidI'm the opposite, but I'm bi. Shy around attractive women, but not shy at all around attractive guys.


    Same here


    This.