Refusing to view private pix

  • monstapex

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    Nov 24, 2012 3:49 AM GMT
    One of my real jock buddies sent a guy a compliment and opened private pix for him.. the guy said he refused to view his pix(just face pix) because he was in a monogamous relationship..???? make any sense ?
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    Nov 24, 2012 4:12 AM GMT


    Did your buddy tell the fellow that the private pics were just face pics?

    intrigued,

    -Doug
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    Nov 24, 2012 5:16 AM GMT
    meninlove said

    Did your buddy tell the fellow that the private pics were just face pics?

    intrigued,

    -Doug


    +1. I'm thinking the guy got the wrong impression and overreacted.
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    Nov 24, 2012 5:18 AM GMT
    YES Maybe for him it matters

    I would have done it too , if i were him
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    Nov 24, 2012 5:22 AM GMT
    The guy probably misunderstood that they weren't nude pics.

    Just for reference, if anybody wants to unlock their private pics for me I won't refuse to look at them..icon_eek.gif
  • Just_Tim

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    Nov 24, 2012 5:30 AM GMT
    The very few times somebody unlocked they're private pics for me I was a little reluctant to look at them. I think that around here private pictures are naturally assumed to be nudes. I always end up looking, and was pleasantly surprised to find that most of them were just face pictures. Most.
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    Nov 24, 2012 7:45 PM GMT
    Viewing nude pictures just like watching porn doesn't constitute cheating. But, everybody has different boundaries for themselves.
  • coolarmydude

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    Nov 24, 2012 7:48 PM GMT
    ricky1987 saidViewing nude pictures just like watching porn doesn't constitute cheating. But, everybody has different boundaries for themselves.


    Yes, maybe he doesn't want to be tempted away from his relationship. But is someone really that insecure that they cannot control their impulses after just looking? (rhetorical question) This is partly what I mean by people not being mature enough to be in a relationship.
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    Nov 24, 2012 7:50 PM GMT
    The 'monogomask' - blindfolded internet surfing - it could catch on.
  • ChrisBGood

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    Nov 24, 2012 7:50 PM GMT
    Tonka saidThe guy probably misunderstood that they weren't nude pics.

    Just for reference, if anybody wants to unlock their private pics for me I won't refuse to look at them..icon_eek.gif
    agreed lol. I would still question intent but its harmless to look. icon_lol.gif
  • Sportsfan1

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    Nov 24, 2012 7:51 PM GMT
    I had a bad experience with a RJ member that told me to "F*****Off, just for asking him to unlock. I was polite about it. I know this is not the norm. Most guys are very friendly and will unlock.
    I am always pleased when someone tells me that private pics are face pics. I always open them and have never been disappointed.
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    Nov 24, 2012 8:01 PM GMT
    Ex_Mil8 saidThe 'monogomask' - blindfolded internet surfing - it could catch on.

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    Sounds like a lack of social grace. Would your buddy have otherwise known that Mr. Uptight hadn't viewed his private gallery?
    Prolly not.
    So what was the point of telling him except to be a flaming ass?
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    Nov 24, 2012 8:07 PM GMT
    I have private pics for everyone to enjoy you just have to ask
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    Nov 24, 2012 8:20 PM GMT
    WaytoDawn said
    meninlove said

    Did your buddy tell the fellow that the private pics were just face pics?

    intrigued,

    -Doug


    +1. I'm thinking the guy got the wrong impression and overreacted.


    lol, I could tell you stories. Hey, I will!

    In our time on here we've received a few compliments followed by the 'I have unlocked my private pics for you.'

    We reply to those with statements such as, "Before we look we should tell you that our own private pics contain nothing racy." Sometimes that ends the email exchange because really they wanted reciprocation of noodz, which I think is only fair.
    Occasionally someone who we've interacted with on RJ has opened their private pics and we looked and ...O.O , leaving us wondering why they did that, lol. Sometimes we emailed a reply afterwards with something along the lines of 'Hey, we have those, too!'- (as in body parts, haha)

    One thing we have found is a few guys view monogamous couples on RJ as a challenge. A few no doubt felt they could 'expose' us for not really being as how we appear (monogamous) and some get downright hostile.

    I suspect that the guy your buddy was emailing with may have had a similar experience.
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    Nov 24, 2012 8:33 PM GMT
    Luke_1982 saidI have private pics for everyone to enjoy you just have to ask
    ...OMG can't keep up with the request..what did i do