Weirdest Response When Coming Out?

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    Nov 25, 2012 2:56 PM GMT
    What is the weirdest,funniest, most random response you've gotten from someone when coming out to them?

    I came out to my 16 year old sister and her first question was : "Do you have butt sex?". She also went on to say "Does this mean I can't eat at Chick Fil A?".

    I love her so much haha.
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    Nov 25, 2012 3:01 PM GMT
    Hahaha. I hope the answer was "none of yer bidness" and "yes." icon_wink.gif
  • TheAlchemixt

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    Nov 25, 2012 3:25 PM GMT
    My dad put me in a choke hold and banged my head into the kitchen cabinet a few times. That was right after he found out I had sex with a man for free and not for money! Haha

    *The good old days icon_biggrin.gif
  • ThatSwimmerGu...

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    Nov 25, 2012 4:00 PM GMT
    "How many guys have you fucked"
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    Nov 25, 2012 4:03 PM GMT
    "Why aren't I your type" <----straight male friend, who is engaged and has a child
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    Nov 25, 2012 4:04 PM GMT
    When I first started to tell people, I was very solemn.
    One of my close friends said, "I thought you were going to say you got a girl pregnant!" icon_lol.gif
  • sonuus

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    Nov 25, 2012 4:11 PM GMT
    My Dad, asked me do you have HIV???
  • monet

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    Nov 25, 2012 4:16 PM GMT
    My mother said, "Oh, I've known that since you were little, honey. I was just waiting for you to figure it out on your own. I'm so happy that you finally told me, sugar. So, have you met any nice boys yet?"

  • a303guy

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    Nov 25, 2012 4:29 PM GMT
    When I told my mom, her instantaneous response was: "Well, you didn't get it from me".

    I was rather offended, but after some discussion, she wasn't referring to it as a disease, but rather, that she was rather sure my father (who she had divorced years earlier) had more than a little homo in him.

    So, when I finally got enough nerve up to tell my dad, his instantaneous response was 'I'm OK with it, just don't bring it into my home'

    Which was just as bizarre as my mother's response, and always made me wonder if that meant whoever I did bring to my dad's house wouldn't be safe...

    And I've always wondered why both parents referred to being gay as an 'it' thing.

    And I've always wondered why they were able to respond to my coming out so damn quickly. So much for 'passing' as straight, I guess....
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    Nov 25, 2012 4:34 PM GMT
    msuNtx said"Does this mean I can't eat at Chick Fil A?".



    Did she stop eating there?

    Also one of my Pharmacy friends said "Brenden, please don't have sex, I don't want you to get AIDS" (They said it the most concerning voice I have ever heard)
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    Nov 25, 2012 4:43 PM GMT
    RadRTT said
    msuNtx said"Does this mean I can't eat at Chick Fil A?".



    Did she stop eating there?

    Also one of my Pharmacy friends said "Brenden, please don't have sex, I don't want you to get AIDS" (They said it the most concerning voice I have ever heard)


    Luckily we don't have a CFA within 45 miles so she never goes anyways haha
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    Nov 25, 2012 4:44 PM GMT
    msuNtx said
    Luckily we don't have a CFA within 45 miles so she never goes anyways haha
    LUCKY! I have 3 within a 2 minute walking distance from my house, I can smell their disgusting food when running
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    Nov 25, 2012 4:52 PM GMT
    I come from a deep southern Alabama family and I sat my grandparents down at the kitchen table, this is where ALL serious discussions were held and i was really prepared for a long and emotional talk... I said " granny grandpa, I'm gay" my grandpa looked over at my granny and said "I told ya" then he asked me "anything else you need to tell us boy" . I said Nope, them we all got up from the table and my granny asked me to mow the grass before I left
  • ChrisBGood

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    Nov 25, 2012 4:54 PM GMT
    I told my Grandma before my college grad. She said "I dont care if you were purple, I still love you. Now, what should I wear?"
  • Trauts

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    Nov 25, 2012 4:56 PM GMT
    Me : I just wanted to tell you that I'm gay, and I hope you're okay with it

    Friend : Of course, I'm okay with it. Did you think I was not gonna be your
    friend anymore just because you're gay

    Me: icon_smile.gif

    Friend : Oh yeah, btw, I'm gay too.

    Me : icon_eek.gif
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    Nov 25, 2012 4:59 PM GMT
    Weirdest response I got was.... from a friend's mom:

    "Its such a shame, you could have any woman you want. Why not try harder to like girls?"

    I don't even know how to reply to that!
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    Nov 25, 2012 5:01 PM GMT
    A response I've gotten, "Okay. That's cool."

    Like I was explaining my day to them.
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    Nov 25, 2012 5:13 PM GMT
    shortmuscleguy saidI come from a deep southern Alabama family and I sat my grandparents down at the kitchen table, this is where ALL serious discussions were held and i was really prepared for a long and emotional talk... I said " granny grandpa, I'm gay" my grandpa looked over at my granny and said "I told ya" then he asked me "anything else you need to tell us boy" . I said Nope, them we all got up from the table and my granny asked me to mow the grass before I left


    Ha! Your grandparents sound awesome!
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    Nov 25, 2012 5:16 PM GMT
    My father: Have you seen a doctor about this?
    My mother: So what? icon_smile.gif
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    Nov 25, 2012 5:18 PM GMT
    I told my cousin and he said,
    "you better keep it on the down low with the rest of the family."

    He was fine with it, but now I'm nervous to tell anyone else, haha.
  • ChrisBGood

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    Nov 25, 2012 5:26 PM GMT
    amschutz saidI told my cousin and he said,
    "you better keep it on the down low with the rest of the family."

    He was fine with it, but now I'm nervous to tell anyone else, haha.

    If you live out on your own and pay your bills, just do it. The sooner the better (less emotional strain). Contrary to popular belief, coming out doesnt mean you have to automatically march in parades and do drag. Lol. Unless you are into those things...
  • tiddlypush

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    Nov 25, 2012 5:29 PM GMT
    Me: I think you should know that I am gay

    Sister: Listen! There is no need to panic.
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    Nov 25, 2012 5:30 PM GMT
    msuNtx saidWhat is the weirdest,funniest, most random response you've gotten from someone when coming out to them?

    I came out to my 16 year old sister and her first question was : "Do you have butt sex?". She also went on to say "Does this mean I can't eat at Chick Fil A?".

    I love her so much haha.


    haha that is very funny
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    Nov 25, 2012 5:32 PM GMT
    "Why dont you like to shop with me more??" - Mother
  • Rugga

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    Nov 25, 2012 5:35 PM GMT
    It's kinda awkward telling people you're bi. They kind of don't see the difference between gay and bi and end up just saying gay in the long run. Annoying to say the least.

    Typical response is, ".....So do you like girls or guys more?" or "So does that mean you let guys fuck you?"