Hook Ups: What do you do when the dude looks different then his pic?

  • uncgymguy

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    Nov 26, 2012 12:06 AM GMT
    I've always been curious when guys hook up early in the morning, and the dude shows up looking completely different than his pictures.

    Do you:

    Tell him to leave (or you leave)?
    Have sex with him anyway? (you are horny after all, right)?

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    Nov 26, 2012 12:09 AM GMT
    Call it off. If you go through with it, you're just rewarding his dishonesty.
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    Nov 26, 2012 12:23 AM GMT
    xrichx saidCall it off. If you go through with it, you're just rewarding his dishonesty.


    This!

    Thus the wisdom of meeting in a public place, like a bar, restaurant of fast food court.

    Run, do not stroll to the nearest exit!
  • reptile18

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    Nov 26, 2012 12:26 AM GMT
    Is he still hot?
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    Nov 26, 2012 12:32 AM GMT
    They've almost always looked much better in person in my experiences. Only once was a guy ten years older than his picture, but still attractive, very nice, intelligent, ... and fun
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    Nov 26, 2012 12:34 AM GMT
    reptile18 saidIs he still hot?
    This happens almost never. icon_lol.gif
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    Nov 26, 2012 12:55 AM GMT
    uncgymguy saidI've always been curious when guys hook up early in the morning, and the dude shows up looking completely different than his pictures.

    Do you:

    Tell him to leave (or you leave)?
    Have sex with him anyway? (you are horny after all, right)?




    If this were to ever happen (which by god almighty and saint mary I hope it doesn't) I would;

    1: Tell him to get out of my life.
    2: Leave the meeting place like a wounded puppy.
    3: Masturbate to his alleged profile picture out of bitter disappointment.
    4: Delete his profile while eating a tub of Ben and Jerry's cookie dough ice cream while listening to Adele....Anything to take the pain away...
    And finally 5: Delete my profile. Swear off all sexual relationships and join the priesthood somewhere in Ireland...
    Of course this is all hypothetical! icon_wink.gif
  • jayatl56

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    Nov 26, 2012 1:00 AM GMT
    I've only had it happen once. The guy drove up and I could see him as he got out of his car. He was a good 20 pounds heavier. At the time I was at a house with gates. As he walked towards the gate I stopped him and said sorry, you're not the same guy on the photos. He didn't say a word. Turned on his heels and left.

    My question is what do you when the face and body is the same but the cock is not. I mean, you meet and chat on line and exchange pics. Everything looks good but when he drops his draws you find something smaller than what was in the photo. AND I MEAN, SMALLER!

    This happened to me this weekend. The guy is a landscaper and 27 years old. Pics looked nice but tiny weenie and a shapeless, saggy ass. Nothing attractive at all. We jacked off and he went on his way.
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    Nov 26, 2012 1:03 AM GMT
    Pictures dont show the exact 3 Dimension of anyone, even with a state of the art camera.

    You can always tell the person about that issue or you can keep their friendship or say good bye.

    Roll the dice...scary cat
  • thadjock

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    Nov 26, 2012 1:05 AM GMT
    uncgymguy saidI've always been curious when guys hook up early in the morning, and the dude shows up looking completely different than his pictures.


    Hmmm....quandry...i do like early morning sex

    and u did stipulate "completely different" not necessarily "worse"

    one time for some reason i had mentally transposed two guys pics/emails in my head, and when one of them emailed me about meeting in person, so when i got there, it turned out to actually be the other guy i met. briefly disarming, but led to a smashing de-briefing.

    a short mobile vid-chat should remove all trepidation.
  • newyorkcanon

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    Nov 26, 2012 1:07 AM GMT
    It's happened to me twice... I just went through with it, ended up having sex, and ended up with bitter disappointment afterwards. icon_sad.gif

    On the last occasion however, I liked the guy's first picture, and he looked not-so-good in his other three. So I stopped myself and told him I didn't want to hook up with him. I'll be doing this instead from now on.
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    Nov 26, 2012 1:08 AM GMT
    I just tell him politely by getting up from the table at starbucks or wherever we decieted to meet and duce out
  • Whipmagic

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    Nov 26, 2012 1:10 AM GMT
    I'm not big into quick hookups, but would like to get to knw the guy a bit first. So I usually meet some for a quick bite after work at a local gay bar / restaurant, and this gives us some time to talk and get comfortable with each other. And if the picture isn't honest, it's already a very major but not insurmountable strike against him. And if all goes well, we move on, if not, we simply go our way, disappointed, maybe, but still no worse off than a night alone.
  • Medjai

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    Nov 26, 2012 1:11 AM GMT
    Has happened to me before. I closed my front door on them. No regrets.

    If they're lying about looks, what else are they lying about?
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    Nov 26, 2012 1:23 AM GMT
    it's important to perform an immediate RISK ASS-ESSMENT OF DAMAGE.

    If he still floats ur boat and looks like Channing Tatum, then invite him, but don't offer any drinks or refreshments as punishment. However, if he looks like Jabba the Hut, then immediate say "No Engrish" and slam the door. lol

    In all seriousness though, if someone is playing and trynna act the fool and post fake pictures of themselves to lure you in, then why waste your time with someone like that. I demand respect, first and foremost and stuff like is just child's play, it needs to stay at the playground.
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    Nov 26, 2012 1:42 AM GMT
    reptile18 saidIs he still hot?


    This.
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    Nov 26, 2012 1:50 AM GMT
    Here's an idea...

    Don't be a total reptile and "hook up" with a complete stranger early in the morning.

    Oh and before you and yer 24 posts attempts to give Me crap...I am NO prude.


    Keep reaching up -- eventually you will stretch all the way to the gutter.

    I will refrain from commenting on your pics btw...

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    Nov 26, 2012 1:52 AM GMT
    Even if it is early in the morning and I'm horny, if he's not the same in the pic I'm not doing it.

    Even if he is hot, I'm still not doing it because it's saying, "yes you can lie about your looks and use other people's pics an you'll still get laid." I'd feel like less of a person if I went through with it.
  • varsitybadboy

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    Nov 26, 2012 1:52 AM GMT
    This actually happened to me acouple of weeks ago. I didnt leave nor did I get any lol. (though my initial thought was to leave =/) I stuck around and just chilled and talked to him for some hours. I made it clear tho that I was after his frienship if anything, nothing more. icon_cool.gif
  • Timbales

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    Nov 26, 2012 1:52 AM GMT
    people really invite total strangers into their homes for sex?
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    Nov 26, 2012 1:53 AM GMT
    uncgymguy saidI've always been curious when guys hook up early in the morning, and the dude shows up looking completely different than his pictures.

    Do you:

    Tell him to leave (or you leave)?
    Have sex with him anyway? (you are horny after all, right)?



    You run in the opposite direction. You also block their number from your phone and get the police on speed dial just in case they wanna get crazy.
  • tyler_helm

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    Nov 26, 2012 1:56 AM GMT
    Cash saidHere's an idea...

    Don't be a total reptile and "hook up" with a complete stranger early in the morning.

    Oh and before you and yer 24 posts attempts to give Me crap...I am NO prude.


    Keep reaching up -- eventually you will stretch all the way to the gutter.

    I will refrain from commenting on your pics btw...

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  • onefortified

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    Nov 26, 2012 1:56 AM GMT
    Timbales saidpeople really invite total strangers into their homes for sex?


    Oh you don't? icon_lol.gif

    I would tell them to leave.
  • Timbales

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    Nov 26, 2012 1:58 AM GMT
    onefortified said
    Timbales saidpeople really invite total strangers into their homes for sex?


    Oh you don't? icon_lol.gif



    nope, can't say that I have
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    Nov 26, 2012 1:58 AM GMT
    Timbales saidpeople really invite total strangers into their homes for sex?


    Not always my house. I slept with a Guy in the bathroom of the apartment complex's gym. He lied about being married and I sent him packing.