Love, family, friends, or career? How would you choose as your first goal.

  • DKnight

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    Nov 26, 2012 2:51 PM GMT
    Which one is the most important for you now? Love, family, friends, or career?
    Mine is career right now. I wanna get achievement and hold the power as much as I can. Making effort and getting something in return, like salary or fame (I hope, ha) really make me happy. Another reason for choosing is finally I know how cruel is. Besides if you didnt set yourself well, how could you provide your lover with a better life, right? I guess this is much more real than talking about love in race or personality vs looking. icon_cool.gif
    Anyway, I would like to hear more opinions form you guys!
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    Nov 26, 2012 2:57 PM GMT
    Right now Career, then family, then friends, then love.

    Love will come and go, and it is important, but I need to have a stable career to support a family before I can think about love. Family will always be there for me and friends will too, so they are way way important to me.

    To be fair thought, even if we are rating these things, they end up falling pretty damn close to each other. I mean, Love may be number 4 but that doesnt mean I dont care about it, just if I had to choose between a gentleman suitor or saving my brother, my brother is getting saved.
  • PR_GMR

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    Nov 26, 2012 3:29 PM GMT
    I'm married to my life pursuit of being an independent filmmaker. My personal life has been a dissapointment. The love of my life hasn't shown up, so I'm putting my energy on my career success.
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    Nov 26, 2012 3:42 PM GMT
    I think a lot depends on your age. For your age, getting established, setting up a career and becoming financially independent is a good thing. Although it's very important to say that none of these 'choices' is independent of the others. While you're establishing yourself you can easily continue to engage with family, socialize with friends, even date but just make it known that at the current time you're focus is on establishing your livelihood. If you manage your life well and run these things in parallel, then you'll be able to hop from one to another easily and you'll end up with a great partner that your family and friends love and be set with your job too.
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    Nov 26, 2012 3:43 PM GMT
    Love, all you need is love. icon_redface.gif
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    Nov 26, 2012 3:47 PM GMT
    right now it's career that matters the most first. building up my career, leaving my mark on the business world and creating my legacy. big dreams lol

    after that would be friends and love in the same group.
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    Nov 26, 2012 3:56 PM GMT
    Love. From love is where you build foundations for a family, and maybe even friends. The career will fall into place when you realize that your work is what makes you provide for your family and enjoy doing the things you do with family and friends.

  • TheAlchemixt

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    Nov 26, 2012 10:20 PM GMT
    Love, the love for following my dreams.