kind of guys do you find attractive?

  • account_92

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    Nov 27, 2012 5:14 AM GMT
    In my experience a lot of guys have been highly attracted to blond,blue eyed fair-lightly tanned looking guys.

    I've had quite a few guys tell me I was not their type due to my dark features.

    My type: Looks vary but I prefer muscualr/tall guys though again this varies and I have been with/dated shorter guys in the past.
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    Nov 27, 2012 5:42 AM GMT
    I like both dark features and ..."light features"? My ideal guy is a hybrid of that - blond with dark brown eyes.

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    "I have just met you and I love you!"

    I'm honestly not that big fan of the green/blue eyes. I'm very lax about the hair color.
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    Nov 27, 2012 6:22 AM GMT
    I used to really love Asian guys. There was a time in my life when I couldn't even really seriously be attracted to Non-Asian dude.

    As I got older I realized how ignorant that was and worked at appreciating the beauty in other people.

    Of someone won't date you because you have "dark features" then they probably have a very limited pallate to choose from since they can't date like 94% of the global gay population.

    As far as I'm concerned, people with these types of preferences haven't seen enough of the world yet.
  • braynes77

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    Nov 27, 2012 1:48 PM GMT
    I could care less about the color of a guys hair or eyes. His height does not matter either. I think the most attractive thing a guy can have is intelligence.
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    Nov 27, 2012 1:59 PM GMT
    Just about any member of Menudo!
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    Nov 27, 2012 2:10 PM GMT
    I normally base the type I like on personality and how well we connect. But I have a tendency to be attracted to guys with dark hair and blue eyes. I am a sucker for blue eyes. Idk why it is just what floats my boat I guess.
  • kevmoran

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    Nov 27, 2012 4:38 PM GMT
    My rule is if they look like they could beat me up, I'm interested.
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    Nov 27, 2012 4:40 PM GMT
    I find it isn't worth worrying too much about other people's types. There are tons of guys out there and all I need is to find one good one that finds me attractive.

    There was a thread recently about epiphanies. If a guy rejects me because I'm not his type, whatever that is, it's not a big deal. I can't change myself into something that I'm not. No matter how badly I want to be a short, hairy, dark featured guy, I won't ever be that type. I'm happy with who I am so I just need to find someone else who likes what I've got to offer.
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    Nov 27, 2012 4:41 PM GMT
    Eastern European Men like the boys from Bel Ami !!! hahaha, just kidding. Well, I like most types of men. The blond hair blue eyes, dark hair/Italian, Tall Asian/Latino jock, toned fit swimmer types, younger or older or same age. I like creative and musician guys a lot too. It's hard to say, I probably have to see his profile/pictures and/or in person to determine if I like him and vice versa. icon_cool.gif
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    Nov 27, 2012 4:43 PM GMT
    A pulse is always nice.
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    Nov 27, 2012 5:00 PM GMT
    [quote][cite]imasrxd said[/cite]I find it isn't worth worrying too much about other people's types. There are tons of guys out there and all I need is to find one good one that finds me attractive.

    There was a thread recently about epiphanies. If a guy rejects me because I'm not his type, whatever that is, it's not a big deal. I can't change myself into something that I'm not. No matter how badly I want to be a short, hairy, dark featured guy, I won't ever be that type. I'm happy with who I am so I just need to find someone else who likes what I've got to offer.[/quote

    exactly how I feel!
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    Nov 27, 2012 11:51 PM GMT
    Being a ocean baby, my kind of guy has to be a surfer like myself. Don't have to be good but in love with the sport.

    On top of that, he has to have a great personality and a great smile that can melt my heart. Preferably with a sense of humor but not mandatory (a dry humor can make me laugh sometimes.)

    Someone who is not afraid of life and knows who he is and what he wants. More specifically some guy who is willing to fight for what he desires.

    Other than that, a good heart always works.
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    Nov 28, 2012 3:45 AM GMT
    Oh that's silly if someone doesn't like you because of your hair color.
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    Nov 28, 2012 3:46 AM GMT
    Communicative ones. icon_lol.gif
  • FuriousGeorge

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    Nov 28, 2012 3:51 AM GMT
    Not flaky, not crazy, has a job, has self-respect. I'm picky, I know. icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Nov 28, 2012 3:55 AM GMT
    Some guys that are on this site :p
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    Nov 28, 2012 3:56 AM GMT
    FuriousGeorge saidNot flaky, not crazy, has a job, has self-respect. I'm picky, I know. icon_rolleyes.gif


    You and me both *sigh*
  • oh_noyeahhh

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    Nov 28, 2012 3:56 AM GMT
    color guys
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    Nov 28, 2012 3:56 AM GMT
    tall, dark hair, green or brown eyes, in shape!
  • wldct1998

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    Nov 28, 2012 4:01 AM GMT
    account_92 saidIn my experience a lot of guys have been highly attracted to blond,blue eyed fair-lightly tanned looking guys.

    I've had quite a few guys tell me I was not their type due to my dark features.

    My type: Looks vary but I prefer muscualr/tall guys though again this varies and I have been with/dated shorter guys in the past.


    Your dark features look great!
  • Karl

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    Nov 28, 2012 4:05 AM GMT
    actually Im attracted to older guys with a beard at all races. (weird much ? )
    lol, that's just my "type"
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    Nov 28, 2012 8:21 AM GMT
    Mostly guys that are in the ante mortem stage.
  • Pyre85

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    Nov 28, 2012 8:26 AM GMT
    There are so many different types of guys that I find sexy.
    I love the goofy nerds, with their enthusiasm and intelligence.
    I love the muscle bound jocks, with their masculine charm,
    I love the thin artistic types.
    Basically I love ALL the hotties.
    Skin hair and eye color couldn't mean less to me.
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    Nov 28, 2012 8:41 AM GMT
    I'm all over the shop.

    Black guy, white guys, blond hair, brown hair, tall, short, tanned, buffish, slender, average guys, chubbier guys.

    good lord it's everywhere.

    Rangas (red heads) go to the top of the list 90% of the time.
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    Nov 28, 2012 8:43 AM GMT
    lilTanker saidI'm all over the shop.

    Black guy, white guys, blond hair, brown hair, tall, short, tanned, buffish, slender, average guys, chubbier guys.

    good lord it's everywhere.

    Rangas (red heads) go to the top of the list 90% of the time.


    Agree with you on the red heads! always a favorite of mine.