So This Is Awkward ...

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    Nov 27, 2012 5:24 AM GMT
    Someone sent me a message on a dating site that says, and I quote:

    "Hey man I drove by you today. You're fuckin sexy. Can I text you my pics so that we can get me sucking your cock asap"

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    Now, I'm not one to be picky and all, but that sorta scares the bejeezus out of me. What do I do about this? Is this something I have to worry about?
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    Nov 27, 2012 5:30 AM GMT
    Totally rude of you to decline his offer. OP you should be ashamed.

    Haha but seriously that's creepy. It wouldn't be a bad idea to invest in a couple of weapons and learn martial arts if you havn't already icon_razz.gif
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    Nov 27, 2012 5:32 AM GMT
    Make it anonymous, and put up a faceless pic. That's what the guys do here.
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    Nov 27, 2012 5:34 AM GMT
    You should look over your shoulders more often...
  • Pontifex

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    Nov 27, 2012 5:35 AM GMT
    Welcome to the "I have a stalker" club. Remember to go for the eyes, throat and groin first.
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    Nov 27, 2012 5:38 AM GMT
    I think all of y'all are ovary-acting ( see how I spelled that? Because you're all acting like you have ovaries. . . )

    He's just stating that he saw you earlier.
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    Nov 27, 2012 5:42 AM GMT
    You don't like to get your cock sucked?
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    Nov 27, 2012 5:42 AM GMT
    The thing is, if he didn't know the Guy then how did he get his email address ....
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    Nov 27, 2012 5:43 AM GMT
    Slim2010 saidI think all of y'all are ovary-acting ( see how I spelled that? Because you're all acting like you have ovaries. . . )

    He's just stating that he saw you earlier.
    wtf did you read 'cause I think you missed something
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    Nov 27, 2012 5:50 AM GMT
    Neight said
    Slim2010 saidI think all of y'all are ovary-acting ( see how I spelled that? Because you're all acting like you have ovaries. . . )

    He's just stating that he saw you earlier.
    wtf did you read 'cause I think you missed something



    "Hey man I drove by you today. You're fuckin sexy. Can I text you my pics so that we can get me sucking your cock asap"


    "I drive by you today" ( I saw you earlier).

    That's all he said.
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    Nov 27, 2012 5:52 AM GMT
    I just think it's odd phrasing - I mean there's a difference between, "Hey, I was driving Downtown and think I might have seen you," and heavy breathing on the other end of the telephone.

    But you make a good point, and I'm probably being a little overwrought.
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    Nov 27, 2012 5:52 AM GMT
    Yeah I'd get 911 on speed dial and consider buying a gun. Sounds like a basket case. I wonder if he knows where you live.
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    Nov 27, 2012 5:56 AM GMT
    Slim2010 said
    Neight said
    Slim2010 saidI think all of y'all are ovary-acting ( see how I spelled that? Because you're all acting like you have ovaries. . . )

    He's just stating that he saw you earlier.
    wtf did you read 'cause I think you missed something



    "Hey man I drove by you today. You're fuckin sexy. Can I text you my pics so that we can get me sucking your cock asap"


    "I drive by you today" ( I saw you earlier).

    That's all he said.


    Once again, did he know the Guy that drove by him and if he didn't then how was that Guy able to text him....STALKER ...
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    Nov 27, 2012 5:56 AM GMT
    4nic8tion saidThe thing is, if he didn't know the Guy then how did he get his email address ....


    Like I said, it's on a dating website. Otherwise he doesn't know me, but I guess recognized me from the site. Which is also kind of creepy - I mean how many people would you know on sight from RJ?

    But thanks for immediately trying to blame me for it. Geez.
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    Nov 27, 2012 6:12 AM GMT
    4nic8tion said
    Slim2010 said
    Neight said
    Slim2010 saidI think all of y'all are ovary-acting ( see how I spelled that? Because you're all acting like you have ovaries. . . )

    He's just stating that he saw you earlier.
    wtf did you read 'cause I think you missed something



    "Hey man I drove by you today. You're fuckin sexy. Can I text you my pics so that we can get me sucking your cock asap"


    "I drive by you today" ( I saw you earlier).

    That's all he said.


    Once again, did he know the Guy that drove by him and if he didn't then how was that Guy able to text him....STALKER ...


    He knew it was him because he recognized his picture from the dating site THAT THEY'RE BOTH ON. He didn't text him, he MESSAGED him through the dating site.
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    Nov 27, 2012 6:14 AM GMT
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    4nic8tion saidThe thing is, if he didn't know the Guy then how did he get his email address ....


    Like I said, it's on a dating website. Otherwise he doesn't know me, but I guess recognized me from the site. Which is also kind of creepy - I mean how many people would you know on sight from RJ?

    But thanks for immediately trying to blame me for it. Geez.


    Yeah that is incredibly creepy. Either he has an amazing memory or he focuses on a little too much on your photo gallery.
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    Nov 27, 2012 6:16 AM GMT
    Slim2010 said
    4nic8tion said
    Slim2010 said
    Neight said
    Slim2010 saidI think all of y'all are ovary-acting ( see how I spelled that? Because you're all acting like you have ovaries. . . )

    He's just stating that he saw you earlier.
    wtf did you read 'cause I think you missed something



    "Hey man I drove by you today. You're fuckin sexy. Can I text you my pics so that we can get me sucking your cock asap"


    "I drive by you today" ( I saw you earlier).

    That's all he said.


    Once again, did he know the Guy that drove by him and if he didn't then how was that Guy able to text him....STALKER ...


    He knew it was him because he recognized his picture from the dating site THAT THEY'RE BOTH ON. He didn't text him, he MESSAGED him through the dating site.


    Yeah I know. I just wanted to see your face again....
  • kevmoran

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    Nov 27, 2012 6:18 AM GMT
    I had a guy come up to me at a restaurant and said "MORANK21?!?!" (my username on a dating site).

    I think some guys just think once they've seen your profile then you're acquaintances.
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    Nov 27, 2012 6:18 AM GMT
    4nic8tion said
    Slim2010 said
    4nic8tion said
    Slim2010 said
    Neight said
    Slim2010 saidI think all of y'all are ovary-acting ( see how I spelled that? Because you're all acting like you have ovaries. . . )

    He's just stating that he saw you earlier.
    wtf did you read 'cause I think you missed something



    "Hey man I drove by you today. You're fuckin sexy. Can I text you my pics so that we can get me sucking your cock asap"


    "I drive by you today" ( I saw you earlier).

    That's all he said.


    Once again, did he know the Guy that drove by him and if he didn't then how was that Guy able to text him....STALKER ...


    He knew it was him because he recognized his picture from the dating site THAT THEY'RE BOTH ON. He didn't text him, he MESSAGED him through the dating site.


    Yeah I know. I just wanted to see your face again....


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    Nov 27, 2012 6:22 AM GMT
    There are a couple guys from my city that I find attractive on this site. If I saw them "out there" I would likely recognize them, so it's really not all that creepy that this guy recognized you. He may have wanted to wait to offer to suck your cock until after a little conversation, though.
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    Nov 27, 2012 6:34 AM GMT
    unfounded7 saidThere are a couple guys from my city that I find attractive on this site. If I saw them "out there" I would likely recognize them, so it's really not all that creepy that this guy recognized you. He may have wanted to wait to offer to suck your cock until after a little conversation, though.


    I mean notwithstanding the fact that he sounds like he might be outside my door with a chloroformed rag, dude also sounds like his idea of foreplay is tugging on zippers.
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    Nov 27, 2012 7:55 AM GMT
    kevmoran saidI had a guy come up to me at a restaurant and said "MORANK21?!?!" (my username on a dating site).

    I think some guys just think once they've seen your profile then you're acquaintances.


    That would be one thing, but at least they don't sound like they're stalking.
  • tyler_helm

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    Nov 27, 2012 5:39 PM GMT
    And this is why I have a concealed weapons permit
  • Koaa2

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    Nov 27, 2012 5:48 PM GMT
    I think it is called a phishing scam to get your telephone number and possibly run up some long distance charges on it. Don't give it out. I think your safe. On these sites they don't need your email to contact you, as we all know. You might want to report it to the administrator of the site.
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    Nov 27, 2012 7:23 PM GMT
    phishing/spam