Why do some (most) men like to Rim / get rimmed?

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    Sep 10, 2008 3:22 AM GMT
    Okay I've always wanted to know why some (MOST) men enjoy licking or getting that crap shooter licked?

    To me, it doesn't feel good and gives me no pleasure when someone does it to me. It reminds me of wiping my hole with a baby wipe... Maybe I'm missing something? Maybe they are rimming wrong?!?

    I have never rimmed someone and never will consider, so maybe that's the pleasure I don't understand?

    It kind of reminds me of like how some people like getting their balls SMASHED and getting their tits twisted. Neither of those are pleasurable to me what so ever. If anything, it makes the pole go down...

    Maybe I'm just too traditional? Oral and Fucking... the end. None of these extra creative things that have been invented ahha

    I remember seeing rimming in a porn a while ago and it was rare and now everyone is doing it!
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    Sep 10, 2008 3:33 AM GMT
    I think it feels wonderful and love having it done, especially before a good fucking.
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    Sep 10, 2008 4:51 AM GMT
    I personally love both getting rimmed and totally love being rimmed. Being mainly a top I find it the best way to get my partner all wet and loose before inserting. And besides that, I love making him moan from the pleasure of it.
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    Sep 10, 2008 4:33 PM GMT
    because it's awesome?
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    Sep 10, 2008 4:51 PM GMT
    Hmm. Sounds like you have issues over your body and your sexuality. Rimming can be as much fun as oral and fucking. I wonder how your (potential) partners will feel about your refusal to take part in certain things?
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    Sep 10, 2008 4:59 PM GMT
    Everyone's got different sensitivities to their body parts. Maybe your hole isn't as sensitive enough to enjoy getting rimmed, thats all. Just keep exploring and maybe you'll discover something new that gets you goin.
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    Sep 10, 2008 5:07 PM GMT
    The asshole is a very sensitive part of the body...lots of nerve endings.

    But I can understand an aversion due to the fact that it is so intimately associated with shit. ...and the hygiene of putting your mouth there can be revolting if you think about it. ....ok, scrub and douche, but it still can be revolting if you think about it. ...not to mention the health aspects of the viruses etc that can be contracted ...hepatitis especially.

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    Sep 10, 2008 5:33 PM GMT
    Just remember dental dams or condoms are a gay man's best friend when tonguing that part of the body. Hepatitis ain't fun.
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    Sep 10, 2008 6:11 PM GMT
    If you don't like it, and you've given it a try, then you don't like it and that's it. Everyone's different, and you shouldn't be pressured into doing something you don't enjoy.
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    Sep 10, 2008 6:22 PM GMT
    Don't forget you can get Hepatitis from kissing to, so where does the fear, and reality stop? Hard to answer, I think it is individual. I still love to get rimmed!
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    Sep 10, 2008 6:37 PM GMT
    malepuus said:
    To me, it doesn't feel good and gives me no pleasure when someone does it to me. It reminds me of wiping my hole with a baby wipe... Maybe I'm missing something? Maybe they are rimming wrong?!?


    Well if your gonna put it that way, now it doesn't sounds so seductive...

    However, it's Ironic this turns you off, when your name is "malePuss"? icon_eek.gif
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    Sep 10, 2008 7:23 PM GMT
    Funkapottomous saidbecause it's awesome?


    What he said. icon_smile.gif
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    Sep 11, 2008 11:53 AM GMT
    How could rimming possibly compare to having your balls smashed?

    I agree with polobutt. It's kind of like prepping the area. It's a lot more enjoyable that just spraying lube on the backdoors and and plowing through 'em. It is really hard for me to enjoy getting it if I don't feel that my ass is really being appreciated. This is why rimming is good for me.
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    Sep 11, 2008 9:27 PM GMT
    I absolutely LOVE to get rimmed for hours!!!! One of the best feelings out there!!!
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    Sep 11, 2008 10:16 PM GMT
    Love it, love it, love it. Both doing and receiving, the BEST thing prior to actually fucking.

    And I hate to be ageist, but you're 19 buddy, maybe you just haven't found the right guy to open your mind to these kinds of things.

    Give it time, and relax!
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    Sep 11, 2008 10:36 PM GMT
    I love to do it, but it really does nothing for me when a dude wants to lick my hole. which works out well since I'm a top...though I had one dude who really wanted to eat my ass out and he spent quite a bit of time doing it..he really got in there and was moaning and having a great time. I kept wondering when he'd be done.

    All of a sudden he quit eating my ass and went to the bathroom. I was like..wtf? he came back and said he had gotten a bloody nose from shoving his face in my ass so hard, lol. we were both pretty young and hadn't done much with anyone, so I wasn't worried about catching anything at the time. he was really hot...I wonder what he's up to now..huh...I gotta go...

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    Sep 11, 2008 10:49 PM GMT
    tommysguns2000 saidI love to do it, but it really does nothing for me when a dude wants to lick my hole. which works out well since I'm a top...though I had one dude who really wanted to eat my ass out and he spent quite a bit of time doing it..he really got in there and was moaning and having a great time. I kept wondering when he'd be done.

    All of a sudden he quit eating my ass and went to the bathroom. I was like..wtf? he came back and said he had gotten a bloody nose from shoving his face in my ass so hard, lol. we were both pretty young and hadn't done much with anyone, so I wasn't worried about catching anything at the time. he was really hot...I wonder what he's up to now..huh...I gotta go...


    Wow, um, hot. Except for the blood part. I've never gotten a bloody nose doing it but I have done it for so long that my mouth and tongue are sore the next day. It's worth it though. icon_twisted.gif
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    Sep 13, 2008 9:33 AM GMT
    Because it comes before punch and pie.
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    Sep 13, 2008 10:57 AM GMT
    It is a fun experience to try out with someone that you're familiar with. I never ever had been rimmed before until one of my exes opened that possibility for me. He was sucking me off and then he flipped me over. I was wondering what he was gonna do. Then I felt him rimming me, I was in a complete state of thrill that I moaned pretty loud. I didn't know what he did but after that, I just love getting rimmed (mind you that I'm a top and don't bottom that often). After that, I rimmed him and realized that it's fun doing that. He was moaning himself. A very hot time. icon_razz.gificon_biggrin.gif