Women be crazy aka another reason why I'm gay.

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    Nov 28, 2012 5:15 PM GMT
    So I'm going to spare you guys the details but long story short I got into a rather annoying fb fight with a friend of a friend over a pic. Our mutual friend kinda looks like Ms Swan from MadTV with her latest hairdo. Everyone's saying "you don't look like her, you look like (insert stupid comparison). I point out that she does in fact have some resemblance and who the fuck cares. Boy did that start a flame war of me being wrong and i'm making comparisons to a person who is an idiot and doofy. I vehemently responded that a) I didn't make a looks to intelligence comparison, you did and b) if you're a real friend, you would say that "it doesn't matter who you look like, don't let someone define how you feel and that only you do". Bitch friend then said my response was "sanctimonious nonsense". After that I decided to bite my tongue out of respect to my friend but I'm beyond fuming because all her female friends are doing is feeding an insecurity and I'm sorry, but I'm not going to. And by saying that she's looks like (insert stupid comparison here) you're doing nothing to build her confidence that even if she looks like someone else, it doesn't matter because that person is not her.

    Seriously, I could not deal with this on a regular basis from an insecure woman or even a guy if I came across one like this.
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    Nov 28, 2012 5:17 PM GMT
    This is why I'm gay.

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    Nov 28, 2012 5:44 PM GMT
    lol. Maybe the title should have been "shit that happens that make me happy that i'm gay".
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    Nov 28, 2012 6:04 PM GMT
    troyboy04 saidlol. Maybe the title should have been "shit that happens that make me happy that i'm gay".

    Click on Edit Post in your OP, then change the topic if you like.

    No one thing is a reason I'm gay. I always was, always will be gay.

    But lots of things make me happy I'm gay, the top of the list being my late and present partners. I never understood what love was until I fell deeply in love with a man, after years of faking it with women.
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    Nov 28, 2012 6:08 PM GMT
    Thanks for the tip, I figured it out after I posted.

    Obviously this isn't the defining thing, I like guys because I'm attracted to them and only a few women here and there. But hearing this stupid shit and the idea that i'm supposed to pander to and enable insecurities, particularly with women is ridiculous.
  • kevmoran

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    Nov 29, 2012 2:34 AM GMT
    It's true, women are batshit crazy.

    But in this instance I feel like you were being and asshole and you're now trying to sugarcoat it. You told her she looks like a character that a comedian plays to be ugly and stupid.
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    Nov 29, 2012 2:56 AM GMT
    This is why I am gay

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    Nov 29, 2012 3:25 AM GMT
    Sometimes what you say isn't what people hear. Other times what you say isn't what people want to hear. That is a human thing, not a female or gay thing. I promise you will experience it over and over again in life, both as the offender and the offended. What's most important is to become good at digging out of that hole - a life skill that separates effective people from irrelevant people.