Do you ever feel like you are no one's type?

  • BloodFlame

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    Nov 29, 2012 10:02 PM GMT
    Yeah, I don't know. I sometimes feel like I am no one's type or rather, no one's type to the guys I find attractive and it made me wonder if anyone else has ever felt this way before.

    I know that you are who you are and not everyone is going to like you and I'm alright with that, just the way the world works. But I'm just genuinely interested to hear if any of you guys have felt that way before. Discuss?
  • TheAlchemixt

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    Nov 29, 2012 10:43 PM GMT
    No, I just buy them drinks so they get drunk and eventually I'm everyones type! Sometimes I'll slip in a viagra, cialis, or ruffie... I don't have time for games. icon_twisted.gif
  • RichLather

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    Nov 29, 2012 10:56 PM GMT
    I am the epitome of 'nobody's type'.
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    Nov 29, 2012 11:05 PM GMT
    Yes frequently. I feel like I'm the brussel sprouts of the dating world.

    Round with a weird color no one wants.
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    Nov 29, 2012 11:06 PM GMT
    All the time.
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    Nov 29, 2012 11:07 PM GMT
    Well your gonna get that sometimes! The good thing though is when you find someone who digs you as much as you dig them its worth it!!! Trust me we have had all of our fair shares of rejections.....I actually had a person tell me after we kissed that I was 100% not his type...wrap your mind around that....he also proceeds to tell me that not every guy i met is going to be potential "the one" or ltr so have fun and it would be good of me to lose some weight...and im not overwieght by any-means... My point is you have to be the one that you want....and if we didnt have to sort through all these d bags then we would never know how awesome that dude is when we truly find him.
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    Nov 29, 2012 11:08 PM GMT
    I'm someone's type..but they're not my type.
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    Nov 29, 2012 11:10 PM GMT
    msuNtx saidAll the time.


    You are my type haha
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    Nov 29, 2012 11:18 PM GMT
    msuNtx saidAll the time.



    You are so my type dude! You seem funny, got a great smile, and you are cute to boot!
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    Nov 29, 2012 11:21 PM GMT
    All the time. But I ampt no ones type...im special..one of a kind...no one is good enough to notice me. Hey! You gatta develop this attitude to keep yourself from crying yourself to sleep at night
  • baldone

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    Nov 29, 2012 11:23 PM GMT
    Have felt this way forever,especially since I am of the older generation....thought there would never be anybody....then...I met him....2 weeks ago...incredible,handsome,sensitive genuine nice guy.....had huge thing to tell me even before we met...that he is poz....undetectable....but poz....thought for a minute and then decided that I wanted to meet this guy anyways.....thats all it took....now asking many questions...doing much reading and seeing that a neg poz relationship can possibly work....the man is an absolute gem and so damn luucky to have met him.....can't wait to see where things might go
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    Nov 29, 2012 11:26 PM GMT
    Yeah.

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    Nov 29, 2012 11:29 PM GMT
    Nah.
    There are folks who dig freaks.
    I know that there is always somebody out there who's into me. icon_twisted.gif
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    Nov 29, 2012 11:30 PM GMT
    Worlds smallest violin playing for everyone right now.
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    Nov 29, 2012 11:31 PM GMT
    vla8 saidI'm someone's type..but they're not my type.
    words of wisdom
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    Nov 29, 2012 11:31 PM GMT
    Dusk_Moonlight saidDo you ever feel like you are no one's type?
    No.

    But I also don't wear a corset.
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    Nov 29, 2012 11:33 PM GMT
    baldone saidHave felt this way forever,especially since I am of the older generation....thought there would never be anybody....then...I met him....2 weeks ago...incredible,handsome,sensitive genuine nice guy.....had huge thing to tell me even before we met...that he is poz....undetectable....but poz....thought for a minute and then decided that I wanted to meet this guy anyways.....thats all it took....now asking many questions...doing much reading and seeing that a neg poz relationship can possibly work....the man is an absolute gem and so damn luucky to have met him.....can't wait to see where things might go
    Good for you man, and kudos for being open. Best of luck to you!
  • onefortified

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    Nov 29, 2012 11:35 PM GMT
    I'm good at attracting people i'm not attracted to.
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    Nov 29, 2012 11:40 PM GMT
    GAMRican saidNah.
    There are folks who dig freaks.
    I know that there is always somebody out there who's into me. icon_twisted.gif


    I would be SO into You....

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  • calibro

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    Nov 29, 2012 11:41 PM GMT
    no, but i feel that i'm everybody's type
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    Nov 29, 2012 11:43 PM GMT
    I feel like I am someone's type, yeah, but where the hell are they? Usually they have already found theirs.
  • kevmoran

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    Nov 29, 2012 11:50 PM GMT
    The only people that find me attractive are fresh off the boat asian chicks and 13 year old girls.
  • newyorkcanon

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    Nov 29, 2012 11:51 PM GMT
    Yes, but to a much lesser extent nowadays compared to the old days of high school...

    All that changed in my junior year when my actual best friend kissed me. That's when I realized that I actually meant something more than a friend to somebody. I was enlightened. icon_smile.gif

    Present-day, I still get that feeling now and then simply because I don't meet much people in my everyday life who I actually seem to attract. Ironic coming from me, because I get hit on all the time but not by the "right" people! Cougars mostly, including the tranny kind, and older males which I usually have an affinity for. But the ones daring enough to approach me were of little interest... grr! Oh, and teenage girls.

    I get insecure because I don't seem to attract my kind of guy. That and sometimes I'm oblivious when others are into me, to the point where a third person or bystander has to point it out for me. Guess I'm pretty slow to catch on, they usually find themselves having to make a bold move, or be straight-forward and tell me "Dude. I dig you."
  • PR_GMR

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    Nov 29, 2012 11:54 PM GMT
    Yep, same here. I'm Puertorican and very ethnic-looking. I feel it has definetely kept me 'alone' thruought my life. I attract random guys these days and, sadly, most of them aren't my type. But I'm fairly confident about myself, so I do o right.
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    Nov 29, 2012 11:57 PM GMT
    I used to feel that way when I was younger and spent too much time looking for validation from others. I realized it was all in my head. I've learned having confidence and just being happy in my own skin is what’ s important first and the rest eventually came in time.