I don't want to be cute. I want to be hot.

  • bobbyddadd

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    Nov 30, 2012 3:50 AM GMT
    Well, I used to think I'm not good looking or having an awesome body shape. So I can't be hot or cute.
    I started going to gym and working out really hard to put on some muscles. My abs still soft a bit when I touch it though. But I think I made certain progress.

    Recently, I went to party or bar. Couple gentlemen(age about 40-50...I think I am probably attractive to this age group ) came to me and said I am cute. When I was waiting for subway, I sometimes felt a gentleman was looking me up and down. Or maybe he just stared at the Cookie Monster on my shirt.

    But I want to be hot not cute. That's is why I went to gym working out so hard.
    If you want to be a nice person, please say I am hot or sexy. It will make my day.

    ps. totally have no idea why I am doing this.

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    Nov 30, 2012 4:11 AM GMT
    What's the big deal you're getting compliments. Some people will find you cute, some will find you hot, and some won't find you attractive at all. Life's just a game so keep playing and don't sweat the little things icon_razz.gif
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    Nov 30, 2012 4:18 AM GMT
    Time in the gym and lots of protein.
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    Nov 30, 2012 8:07 AM GMT
    I always feel the same way, I want to be sexy not cute.

    Just work with what you got though. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder after all. . .
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    Nov 30, 2012 9:17 AM GMT
    I'm good with what I got and just have to be more self-accepting that others will view you differently.

    But you should take the compliments in stride and don't worry that much about it. People have different views

    I often get cute as well from men that find me attractive and sometimes hot which shocks me because I don't see myself in that light.


  • TheAlchemixt

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    Nov 30, 2012 10:38 AM GMT
    A compliment is a compliment you should be glad because maybe one day you won't get any compliments at all. Do you know how many guys wish they could be told even that? Many!

    Even if you were to work out like crazy and were able to get a "hot" body you would still be categorized as "cute" but with a hot body. For me it really is all about the face to see if someone is cute, hot, or sexy.

    Who knows though you might be able to find a guy who think you're hot! Beauty after all is in the eye of the beholder. Keep your head up.
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    Nov 30, 2012 10:49 AM GMT
    I'd rather be cute than ugly.
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    Nov 30, 2012 1:10 PM GMT
    Aristoshark saidIt isn't your body, which seems to be very good.

    It's that your face is round, like a Cabbage Patch doll. Let's face it, you ARE cute. So get used to hearing it. Own it.


    Lol.
  • Karl

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    Nov 30, 2012 1:27 PM GMT
    What's wrong with "cute" ?
    I agreed with Josh , that's just a compliment , no big deal ...
    I got used to it so I like being called cute.
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    I also think that "hot" or "cute" depends on how your face looks like .....





    and sorry but you're REALLY cute icon_lol.gif
  • IAmTheOneWhoK...

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    Nov 30, 2012 1:39 PM GMT
    Yeah I know what you mean. I have a fuckin baby face too so 90% of my co.pliments are 'cute' too when 'hot' would be preferable, but just accept that if someone messages you calling you cute, you're still attractive to their eyes icon_smile.gif
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    Nov 30, 2012 1:44 PM GMT
    I dont know Paul is like mysteriously cute... but! what is that word that sits right between Handsome and Cute?

    Shark is like perfectly cool! and he sits right between Handsome and Cute.

    wait isnt like it Hot and cold

    Handsome and Cute

    Sweet and Sour

    Beer and Bear

    I only play Yes and No...icon_wink.gif

    OP you are both! Get that Chest and Arms pumping and you are no where far my dear! icon_wink.gif
  • winwin

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    Nov 30, 2012 1:49 PM GMT
    Be thankful you're at least getting compliments.
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    Nov 30, 2012 2:03 PM GMT
    Cute-guy-handsome-hot-model-Favim_com-46

    so you want to look like this guy?
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    Nov 30, 2012 2:08 PM GMT
    These labels are really subjective. I'm sure some people feel that you are hot.

    For me being hot is as much about attitude as it is about looks. Someone complaining about being cute, is not hot for me.


    Own who you are, love who you are without being cocky or conceited and I'm sure you will have more people labeling you as hot.

    While you are working on your body, consider also working on your confidence. icon_wink.gif
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    Nov 30, 2012 2:14 PM GMT
    confidence in yourself is what elevates you to being hot though. If you are not a confident person then others will see that. Its not about how you physically look.
  • alphatop

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    Nov 30, 2012 3:00 PM GMT
    tereseus1 saidconfidence in yourself is what elevates you to being hot though. If you are not a confident person then others will see that. Its not about how you physically look.


    +1. Grow up.icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Nov 30, 2012 4:25 PM GMT
    Steroids.
  • Bicuriouscool

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    Nov 30, 2012 4:43 PM GMT
    Yeah, I hate it too when some girls call me cute. Bitch please, I'm not your doll or something, you are supposed to feel sexually vulnerable in front of me icon_sad.gif
  • jeffeichorn

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    Nov 30, 2012 4:48 PM GMT
    I recommend you wear something other than a Cookie Monster shirt...just sayin. icon_idea.gif
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    Nov 30, 2012 9:43 PM GMT
    Poodles are cute.
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    Nov 30, 2012 9:48 PM GMT
    Funny ass thread...be thankful for what looks you DO have. Some are less fortunate than you
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    Nov 30, 2012 9:59 PM GMT
    I mean...
  • Kel_

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    Nov 30, 2012 10:02 PM GMT
    #firstworldgayproblem
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    Nov 30, 2012 10:12 PM GMT
    I understand the OPs plight.

    I've seen other posts that compare the two words: hot and cute.

    Some guys (here I might add) have said that they say "cute" when they think a guy isn't all that hot but doesn't want to offend them. Or some sort of variation of it like "he's attractive I'm just not attracted to him". Some sort of patronizing reason for it.
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    Nov 30, 2012 10:13 PM GMT
    Steroids and sheer dedication.

    You'll still have a round face though.