Wud u relocate & change jobs or vice-versa if u met the perfect RJer?!

  • TannerMasseur

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    Dec 01, 2012 4:59 PM GMT
    Wud u change ur whole life if u met the right one on here who suits u to a t?! Wud u change jobs, move in or closer to where he lives so u can be together or vice-versa? Wud one or both of u make sacrifices so u can start a new life together? Wud u be able to drop ur whole life as u know it or wud distance be a big issue?
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    Dec 01, 2012 5:16 PM GMT
    If I truly felt this person was 'the one' and all the signs were in place and the stars aligned and the moon was bluer than an eye I'd consider it. But I doubt I'm gonna meet him on here or ever.

    Lol I already signed up for a lifetime subscription to 'Spinster's Weekly'.

    You get a free cat when you sign up.

    Apparently I hear that's the same deal as when you become a lesbian.
  • TannerMasseur

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    Dec 01, 2012 5:51 PM GMT
    Lol icon_smile.gif The Old Maids Club!!
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    Dec 01, 2012 5:53 PM GMT
    spgem saidLol icon_smile.gif The Old Maids Club!!


    I'm actually the chairman of that club.
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    Dec 01, 2012 9:52 PM GMT
    No, I wouldn't. And I would advise others to focus on their career and themselves before trying to get into a relationship.
  • Whipmagic

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    Dec 01, 2012 9:55 PM GMT
    Absolutely. I'm already trying to get out of this rat hole known as Michigan, even without the incentive of the perfect man.
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    Dec 01, 2012 10:00 PM GMT
    Yes! I hate Georgia and it was a mistake ever to come down here!!!!
  • Whipmagic

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    Dec 01, 2012 10:03 PM GMT
    RadRTT saidYes! I hate Georgia and it was a mistake ever to come down here!!!!

    And I just put in a job application in Atlanta, figuring GA would stll be better than MI. But it's a long shot anyway, it would be a major step up professionally.
  • roadbikeRob

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    Dec 01, 2012 10:04 PM GMT
    Whipmagic said
    RadRTT saidYes! I hate Georgia and it was a mistake ever to come down here!!!!

    And I just put in a job application in Atlanta, figuring GA would stll be better than MI. But it's a long shot anyway, it would be a major step up professionally.
    Oh come on, not all of Michigan is bad. You are just not looking in the right places.
  • TheAlchemixt

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    Dec 01, 2012 10:05 PM GMT
    Hell NO, I"ll make him move to where I live. The only way I could see myself moving anywhere for a man is if I had a baby with him and I don't see that happening anytime soon... icon_eek.gif
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    Dec 01, 2012 10:07 PM GMT
    Whipmagic said
    RadRTT saidYes! I hate Georgia and it was a mistake ever to come down here!!!!

    And I just put in a job application in Atlanta, figuring GA would stll be better than MI. But it's a long shot anyway, it would be a major step up professionally.
    It's not bad. I live in Marietta GA not Atlanta. I bet if I lived in the city I would like it. But since I have been down here I havent meet many people my age. Everyone has said to me...the town I live in is bad for young adults. Im also a true Northerner and I miss snow...like A LOT!!!
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    Dec 01, 2012 10:14 PM GMT
    How can it be perfect on a newspaper!?

    there is something a little more then just that!

    subject to a certain degree to make such moves.

    Question is are you a smart, not just good, but a smart investor!? If so the choice is yours.
  • MadeinMich

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    Dec 01, 2012 11:48 PM GMT
    Whipmagic said
    RadRTT saidYes! I hate Georgia and it was a mistake ever to come down here!!!!

    And I just put in a job application in Atlanta, figuring GA would stll be better than MI. But it's a long shot anyway, it would be a major step up professionally.


    Amen brother. Michigan fucking sucks. It was a catatrophically bad desicion to move back here.

    Hell yeah, if fucking Al Roker asked me to move anywhere but this shit hole I would go. So you know I would definately be game for a real jocker to take me away from here.


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    Dec 01, 2012 11:56 PM GMT
    If ALL of the circumstances were right, yes. It wouldn't be a spur of the moment decision.

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    Dec 02, 2012 12:15 AM GMT
    If it was the right person? I wouldn't have to change my whole life at all! And I would only move if he was in Texas.
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    Dec 02, 2012 12:21 AM GMT
    My s.o. (met here on R.J.) relocated from Connecticut to California for me a few years ago. I would have done the same for him - - - but we decided on CA over CT (nothing wrong with CT, but for career choices, CA won out).
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    Dec 02, 2012 12:23 AM GMT
    Without a doubt!
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    Dec 02, 2012 12:29 AM GMT
    Well duh! YES.
    Tho not only for the right RJer, for the right guy (wherever I would've met him)
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    Dec 02, 2012 12:34 AM GMT
    I've done this 7 times already, dropped everything, quit my job, sold my house and car and moved across the country and every time this "perfect RJer" turns out to be a cat with a laptop in Dallas.
  • Kriss

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    Dec 02, 2012 12:35 AM GMT
    I think I would plan something out and not do it in the spur of the moment. I don't have much of anything to my name so relocating would be easy enough. It would be more of course concern of finances, and future jobs.

    Then again I am a student so preferably someone willing to wait would be nice....
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    Dec 02, 2012 12:41 AM GMT
    If I'm with someone whom I love from the roots of my soul, why would something as pesky as distance matter?
  • TannerMasseur

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    Dec 02, 2012 12:46 AM GMT
    A lot of decisions to be made if u met the guy of ur dreams. What if u both had the perfect job, who wud give up their dream job to live closer to the other?
  • MadeinMich

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    Dec 02, 2012 3:44 AM GMT
    spgem saidA lot of decisions to be made if u met the guy of ur dreams. What if u both had the perfect job, who wud give up their dream job to live closer to the other?


    The perfect job seems elusive to find in this economy. I would have to say no in that case. But I am dying to get out of Michigan. I doubt my dream job exist here. But if I was in my perfect city with the perfect job. We'd have to keep it a long distance relationship.
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    Dec 02, 2012 3:50 AM GMT
    I would consider it to a certain extent.

    If we both knew we loved each other I'd definitely move and try to be closer to him, but I'd have to take my work into account too. If I can't work in his area, then I would suggest we both move.

    I'd be willing to make some sacrifices, but only if he's okay with it and is willing to make sacrifices of his own.

    Distance is definitely an issue, and I'd be willing to make it work, but it has to be a two-way street.

    Most important to me, is that neither of us gives up on our dreams because of each other. I'd definitely try to make it work though.
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    Dec 02, 2012 3:51 AM GMT
    How do I vice-versa relocation and job change?