BF2K saidI know most of us guys have an urge to fuck anything and everything, part of the DNA to spread the sperm. Is there any hope for a loving, respectful relationship with another man that doesn't include the "top or bottom" thing? I admit that I would suck another dudes cock, not because it's a cock but only because it's his and it would give him pleasure. Am I just dreaming or does this kind of relationship exist?
Maybe English is not your first language so I'll run with that...
No idea what analog oral sex is so I'm gonna guess you meant without anal or oral sex. There are guys who get into mostly frottage and muscle worship and the like. The Paulflex poster has announced that's his preference.
If English is your first language then you've got some issues at least by saying "I admit that I would suck", because that's not something we need to admit. It's something we brag about. That being the case you're not just dealing with figuring out your preference but you need to explore why you feel the way you do.
Yes, such relationships exist. Not everyone is into anal sex. Not to judge others but I find it gross myself. And even among the guys who are into it, many say they could do without. Some have to have it, of course.
And another thing, though now I am probably being just a bit stupidly judgemental, but if you're only into cock to "give him pleasure", I hate to break it to ya, but he's probably thinking to himself at the time: "this is not a very good blow job." I can only imagine that it would be like getting head from a lesbian, they're not into cock either.