Closeness with a dude without analog oral sex

  • BF2K

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    Dec 02, 2012 9:54 PM GMT
    I know most of us guys have an urge to fuck anything and everything, part of the DNA to spread the sperm. Is there any hope for a loving, respectful relationship with another man that doesn't include the "top or bottom" thing? I admit that I would suck another dudes cock, not because it's a cock but only because it's his and it would give him pleasure. Am I just dreaming or does this kind of relationship exist?
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    Dec 02, 2012 10:14 PM GMT
    Forget analog oral sex - have you tried digital?
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    Dec 02, 2012 10:22 PM GMT
    ART_DECO saidForget analog oral sex - have you tried digital?


    lol, well I have to admit the concept of analog or digital sex intrigued me enough to visit this topic.

    I think he meant 'anal or oral'.

    And yes, BF2K those kinds of relationships DO exist - a lot. icon_wink.gif
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    Dec 02, 2012 10:31 PM GMT
    BF2K saidI know most of us guys have an urge to fuck anything and everything, part of the DNA to spread the sperm. Is there any hope for a loving, respectful relationship with another man that doesn't include the "top or bottom" thing? I admit that I would suck another dudes cock, not because it's a cock but only because it's his and it would give him pleasure. Am I just dreaming or does this kind of relationship exist?


    Maybe English is not your first language so I'll run with that...

    No idea what analog oral sex is so I'm gonna guess you meant without anal or oral sex. There are guys who get into mostly frottage and muscle worship and the like. The Paulflex poster has announced that's his preference.

    If English is your first language then you've got some issues at least by saying "I admit that I would suck", because that's not something we need to admit. It's something we brag about. That being the case you're not just dealing with figuring out your preference but you need to explore why you feel the way you do.

    Yes, such relationships exist. Not everyone is into anal sex. Not to judge others but I find it gross myself. And even among the guys who are into it, many say they could do without. Some have to have it, of course.

    And another thing, though now I am probably being just a bit stupidly judgemental, but if you're only into cock to "give him pleasure", I hate to break it to ya, but he's probably thinking to himself at the time: "this is not a very good blow job." I can only imagine that it would be like getting head from a lesbian, they're not into cock either.
  • PR_GMR

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    Dec 02, 2012 10:33 PM GMT
    Sex without sex?

    Oh, Hell no. That doesn't work for me. When I see a great cock, I must suck it. icon_lol.gif

    And ANALog sex is quite fine with me too.
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    Dec 03, 2012 2:24 AM GMT
    I don't know what gay sex practices are prevalent in France or French Switzerland, but in the US, roughly half of gay men never participate in fucking at all, so cannot be classified as tops or bottoms as you would, and some gay men who principally engage in fucking, are "versatile," which means they are both tops and bottoms. Many gay men engage in oral sex, even if they also engage in fucking. It seems you have a very limited perspective on what kind of sex gay Americans have. Please enlighten your friends.
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    Dec 03, 2012 4:42 AM GMT
    PR_GMR said...

    And ANALog sex is quite fine with me too.


    I just don't want to run into a "log" while having "anal".
  • BF2K

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    Dec 03, 2012 6:18 PM GMT
    Sorry, I meant anal or oral and my fucking iPad did an automatic word completion while I typed and although I'm originally from the US, 20 years of French have (has?) created occasional syntax deficiencies.
  • BF2K

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    Dec 03, 2012 6:23 PM GMT
    You must admit though the concept of analog vs digital sex would be an interesting conversation.
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    Dec 03, 2012 9:41 PM GMT
    Why not date a lesbian if you want to have a non-sexual, but loving and respectful (blah blah blah) relationship?
    Look, I have nothing against the whole asexual movement, but really, I am blaming all of this on the poor educational system, single parents and Barack Obama. There, I said it.
  • BF2K

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    Dec 03, 2012 10:59 PM GMT
    smartmoney saidWhy not date a lesbian if you want to have a non-sexual, but loving and respectful (blah blah blah) relationship?
    Look, I have nothing against the whole asexual movement, but really, I am blaming all of this on the poor educational system, single parents and Barack Obama. There, I said it.


    Who said anything about "asexual"? I was married to a lesbian for over 20 years, what's wrong with looking fr a loving relationship with a guy. For me sex is a response, not an objective in itself. If only sex is the objective, you can have "sex" every night without ever finding what you are looking for.