Slurs and Dirty Talk

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    Dec 03, 2012 1:55 AM GMT
    Are slurs ever okay during sex? I've had guys try and use the n word during the middle of things and although I wasn't neccesarily offended but kinda werided out. I mean sometimes it can be okay but it just comes off as he's trying too hard.


    I mean slut and bitch and stuff during dirty talk is run of the mill stuff but guys getting all 'you little black' so forth and so on is odd.

    Has anyone else encountered this? Did it do anything for you sexually?
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    Dec 03, 2012 2:06 AM GMT
    One guy called me "Puerto Chink" and I bit his dick off.

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    Racial epithets are not a turn on for me.
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    Dec 03, 2012 2:09 AM GMT
    GAMRican saidOne guy called me "Puerto Chink" and I bit his dick off.

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    Racial epithets are not a turn on for me.


    It doesn't do a while lot for either yeah men keep doing it.

    I also don't like that faux choking thing some people do. It kinda scares me.
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    Dec 03, 2012 2:24 AM GMT
    There should be no talking during sex. Moaning and heavy breathing is all that's needed. Conversation can come later when you drive him to the bus stop. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Dec 03, 2012 2:25 AM GMT
    why would someone insult another whilst making love
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    Dec 03, 2012 2:29 AM GMT
    Neight saidwhy would someone insult another whilst making love


    You would be so shocked. Some men even spit. That's extreme even for me.
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    Dec 03, 2012 2:41 AM GMT
    xrichx saidThere should be no talking during sex. Moaning and heavy breathing is all that's needed. Conversation can come later when you drive him to the bus stop. icon_biggrin.gif


    But that's a waste of gas! Make that boy walk his lazy ass! Then laugh at how awkwardly he walks because he was overstuffed.
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    Dec 03, 2012 2:44 AM GMT
    nicodegallo said
    xrichx saidThere should be no talking during sex. Moaning and heavy breathing is all that's needed. Conversation can come later when you drive him to the bus stop. icon_biggrin.gif


    But that's a waste of gas! Make that boy walk his lazy ass! Then laugh at how awkwardly he walks because he was overstuffed.


    At least give him some bus fare.
  • WApilot

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    Dec 21, 2012 7:18 AM GMT
    I've done the dirty talking stuff with my partner, we both enjoy it and can get a little kinky. My partner is white and I'm black, so we've played the whole race roles before but never used the n-word before... though if he did, I wouldn't think much of it considering I know he's not racists or is using it in a degrading way, so to speak, towards myself. To be honest, I'd probably laugh if he ever said that word. But we have said stuff like "you like that {insert color} cock in you..." and so forth
  • Hothouse

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    Dec 21, 2012 3:09 PM GMT
    I can get into the dirty talk during sex, it depends on the guy. I don't think I'd ever use or want to hear the "n" word or Fa**ot - that would not turn me on, other than that I'm good.