Anal or Frot?

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    Dec 04, 2012 5:23 AM GMT
    What do you prefer?
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    Dec 04, 2012 5:24 AM GMT
    Take a wild stab in the dark on that one sweet heart.. I don't think you'd be shocked to know the answer
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    Dec 04, 2012 5:35 AM GMT
    No wild stabs for me, please. I'll have to skool you on how to do it right.
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    Dec 04, 2012 5:37 AM GMT
    mindgarden saidNo wild stabs for me, please. I'll have to skool you on how to do it right.

    hahahahahahahahahahahahaha
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    Dec 04, 2012 7:42 AM GMT
    MuchMoreThanMuscle saidGrin 'n bear it, right?!

    Something like that

    And occasionally just biting down real hard on a pillow
  • MikeW

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    Dec 04, 2012 7:46 AM GMT
    For me it really depends on the chemistry. There are a lot of really hot, fun things one can do that fall short of "going all the way," and I don't want to go there with everyone. Some guys, though, just 'do it' for me and it can work either way. Some I want to fuck, some I want to be fucked by--or take turns. But I don't feel that way about all guys I find attractive. Or maybe what I'm saying is, to me fucking is really intimate. Even if it is only a 'one night thing', I need to feel a strong connection with the person before I'll go there.
  • rnch

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    Dec 04, 2012 3:04 PM GMT
    Doesn't the second usually/often lead to the first icon_question.gif

    It does for me and my long termer icon_exclaim.gif


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    Dec 04, 2012 3:06 PM GMT
    Am I the only person who doesn't know what 'frot' is?
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    Dec 04, 2012 3:07 PM GMT
    Frot.
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    Dec 04, 2012 3:20 PM GMT
    ConfederateGhost saidAm I the only person who doesn't know what 'frot' is?

    Short for frottage, French for rubbing. Frottage can refer to a method of transferring an image onto paper by placing it over an uneven surface, for instance an engraving, and rubbing the paper with charcoal or pencil.

    Frottage as used here also means obtaining sexual gratification by rubbing one's body against someone else. When nonconsensual, such as some men will do to women in a crowded setting like an elevator, frottage is classified as a criminal act.
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    Dec 04, 2012 3:27 PM GMT
    My milky onionskin can't withstand prolonged skin-to-skin friction.
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    Dec 04, 2012 3:34 PM GMT
    ART_DECO said
    ConfederateGhost saidAm I the only person who doesn't know what 'frot' is?

    Short for frottage, French for rubbing. Frottage can refer to a method of transferring an image onto paper by placing it over an uneven surface, for instance an engraving, and rubbing the paper with charcoal or pencil.

    Frottage as used here also means obtaining sexual gratification by rubbing one's body against someone else. When nonconsensual, such as some men will do to women in a crowded setting like an elevator, frottage is classified as a criminal act.


    And if you weren't interested in it before, you certainly wouldn't be now, after that weird, antiseptic,and tangential definition! "Rubbing paper with charcoal... criminal act..." Wtf?

    It's when guys prefer being face to face and grinding against each other rather than banging in the back door.
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    Dec 04, 2012 3:39 PM GMT
    ART_DECO said
    ConfederateGhost saidAm I the only person who doesn't know what 'frot' is?

    Short for frottage, French for rubbing. Frottage can refer to a method of transferring an image onto paper by placing it over an uneven surface, for instance an engraving, and rubbing the paper with charcoal or pencil.

    Frottage as used here also means obtaining sexual gratification by rubbing one's body against someone else. When nonconsensual, such as some men will do to women in a crowded setting like an elevator, frottage is classified as a criminal act.


    This sounds like either an artsy past time or a disgraceful perverted act.
    I wish PaulFlexes responded to that question. He would have made it sound awesome and hott.
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    Dec 04, 2012 3:56 PM GMT
    GWriter saidAnd if you weren't interested in it before, you certainly wouldn't be now, after that weird, antiseptic,and tangential definition! "Rubbing paper with charcoal... criminal act..." Wtf?

    It's when guys prefer being face to face and grinding against each other rather than banging in the back door.

    My, what a poet you are. icon_razz.gif

    And you still got it wrong, Mr. Webster. Sexual frottage doesn't have to be face-to-face.

    I had one BF who liked me to lie face-down naked in bed, while he stretched out on my back lengthwise. He laid his hardon in my ass crack while he moved his body back & forth, until he came all over my back. Sorta like how straight guys titty fuck a woman, only using the ass cheeks.

    I found it so curiously relaxing that I would become sleepy, and even dozed off a few times in the middle of it, my snoring infuriating him. He'd quickly wake me up. icon_redface.gif

    He got into the frot habit when he lived in NYC during the early days of the AIDS crisis, before much was known about the spread of HIV. It was an earlier version of safe sex some experts recommended at the time, and this guy still remained too afraid to do anal, even with a condom.
  • GWriter

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    Dec 04, 2012 4:13 PM GMT
    Art,
    That was a MUCH better story. Why didn't you share that right away, rather than talking about charcoal and elevators??
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    Dec 04, 2012 7:57 PM GMT
    GWriter saidArt,
    That was a MUCH better story. Why didn't you share that right away, rather than talking about charcoal and elevators??

    I had intended to, after first giving ConfederateGhost a textbook definition. I was simultaneously getting ready for a gay business networking luncheon from which I've just now returned, visiting the computer at intervals while showering, shaving, dressing, etc. Your comment was waiting for me when I sat down again, already planning to share that little anecdote about my ex-BF.
  • Hothouse

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    Dec 04, 2012 8:25 PM GMT
    I pressed the "down to bottom" button on this forum and that pretty much sums up my preference.
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    Dec 04, 2012 9:42 PM GMT
    MuchMoreThanMuscle said


    BUTTSECKS!


    Hell yeah!!
  • wild_sky360

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    Dec 05, 2012 4:45 PM GMT
    I like both, but for spontaneity, frott rocks. What Art described with his ex is standard foreplay in our house. It feels great for the top or the bottom...teasing the hole. But that's just for starters.

    What I really consider frott, or my style of it, would be considered taint fucking. Usually my guy would be face down with legs tight together. It's not as tight as butt sex, although there are some muscle contractions and positions that can get pretty close...and a big dick helps.

    The key difference for me as the top, is I can go to town and pound away, which makes for an explosive orgasm. I'm versatile, and while neither one of us enjoys an ass pounding, we both like butt sex...a lot. When we do, it's planned and more a full service, bottom pleasing, tantric style. I usually have to pull out to finish, whereas taint fucking, or frot, lets me go all the way.

    And it really does feel good doing this as a bottom too. If you lie sideways, spoon style, you can jack your partner to the rhythm and he can cup his hand where you penetrate through to the front. Face down, ramming the back of his nut sack provides the extra head stim.