Would you have sex with a couple?

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    Dec 04, 2012 12:50 PM GMT
    I've been propositioned by a couple.. they're both in great shape, one in his 40s and another a bit older.. very charming, sexy guys.

    I dont know them very well, but they took a shine to me and have been very complimentary, saying how much they'd like to 'play' with me..

    I'm still thinking about it.. for some hot NSA time it could be fun..

    How 'bout you guys - would you do a couple?
  • Koaa2

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    Dec 04, 2012 1:47 PM GMT
    Yes, give it a try, whatever happens, will be another event on the journey of life that you can experience.
  • Hothouse

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    Dec 04, 2012 8:37 PM GMT
    Go for it - some hot NSA would be fun, I'd do it.
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    Dec 04, 2012 8:46 PM GMT
    I've been offered by the same description. Not sure how good of shape they were in though. I ultimately turned them down - just isn't my cup of tea. I need experience one-on-one sex before I do something like that. icon_confused.gif
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    Dec 04, 2012 9:06 PM GMT
    No that's disgusting.

    I have more self respect for myself than to be a pawn in someone's sexual game. It's sick and obviously they have deeper issues that I don't want to be a part of.

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    Dec 04, 2012 9:09 PM GMT
    omg a couple asked to "play" with you too?
    Last week a couple approached me on the Grindr and asked if I've ever "played" with a couple before icon_eek.gif
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    Dec 04, 2012 9:13 PM GMT
    I've had two proposals in my lifetime. Both times I said "no":

    1. Guy and his girlfriend - I chickened out because I've never been with a girl.

    2. Two guys - First guy was hot but his bf was a lush and I wasn't into him.

    I doubt I'll ever be in a 3-way but who knows.... icon_cool.gif
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    Dec 04, 2012 10:40 PM GMT
    IceBuckets saidI've been offered by the same description. Not sure how good of shape they were in though. I ultimately turned them down - just isn't my cup of tea. I need experience one-on-one sex before I do something like that. icon_confused.gif
    But Ice, if you need experience, you would get twice as much experience with 2 guys as you would with 1.
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    Dec 04, 2012 10:46 PM GMT
    DO IT!! It's fun!

    Not that i would know...
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    Dec 04, 2012 10:52 PM GMT
    I would and have . Although now I have a partner I would only be in a 3 way if it was my partner, me and the third guy. As long is everybody was cool about it, everybody liked each other, and there were no strange issues like jealousy between the 2 halves of the couple, it can be a great experience. Just imagine porno, only nicer. It all depends on the 3 guys involved. It can be either very hot, or very sensual. When it does not work out for 1 of the 3, it is usually because somebody is being left out in some way.
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    Dec 04, 2012 10:59 PM GMT
    MashogaNubianPrince saidNo that's disgusting.

    It's sick
    You may not be aware, Mash, but most of the world thinks sex between 2 guys is "disgusting." Just think - what you think about doing with another guy is disgusting to most people, and would get your head cut off in some parts of the world. I think RJ is not the place for such prudish attitudes.
  • MikemikeMike

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    Dec 04, 2012 11:13 PM GMT
    you're in your 40's you should know what you want by now. Did u ask them if they do this a lot? Has either had an STD? Do they have unprotected sex w each other? Has one or both been unfaithful. You weigh the risk and decide you're a big boy.icon_idea.gif
  • DBomb129

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    Dec 04, 2012 11:22 PM GMT
    I've done it, it works out well if there's no preference involved. If one guy doesn't like you more or you don't like one more. Go for it though.
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    Dec 04, 2012 11:32 PM GMT
    For the sensual appetite, best taken with eXstasy.
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    Dec 04, 2012 11:36 PM GMT
    How funny, I just got asked today by a girl and a guy. I replied quickly with a "NO WAY". Mainly because I was not into a straight couple.

    However, it the same conditions were met with two cute guys on the other hand maybe I would have jumped at the idea. icon_cool.gif
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    Dec 04, 2012 11:40 PM GMT
    Been there; done that.
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    Dec 04, 2012 11:48 PM GMT
    HikeSwimSkiSF said
    IceBuckets saidI've been offered by the same description. Not sure how good of shape they were in though. I ultimately turned them down - just isn't my cup of tea. I need experience one-on-one sex before I do something like that. icon_confused.gif
    But Ice, if you need experience, you would get twice as much experience with 2 guys as you would with 1.

    Dude, I'm a nervous wreck when I'm with one - I have a complete inability to relax when it comes to anything sexual. Two doesn't make it any better. icon_razz.gif
  • Midas426

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    Dec 04, 2012 11:49 PM GMT
    paulflexes saidBeen there; done that.


    Ditto.
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    Dec 04, 2012 11:49 PM GMT
    IceBuckets said
    HikeSwimSkiSF said
    IceBuckets saidI've been offered by the same description. Not sure how good of shape they were in though. I ultimately turned them down - just isn't my cup of tea. I need experience one-on-one sex before I do something like that. icon_confused.gif
    But Ice, if you need experience, you would get twice as much experience with 2 guys as you would with 1.

    Dude, I'm a nervous wreck when I'm with one - I have a complete inability to relax when it comes to anything sexual. Two doesn't make it any better. icon_razz.gif
    Try three. That way two could hold you down while the other one "shows you the ropes." icon_biggrin.gif
  • spankydrunk

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    Dec 05, 2012 3:42 AM GMT
    Go for it, if your attracted to both Of them, then it's just twice as nice
  • Wyatt

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    Dec 05, 2012 3:51 AM GMT
    I have, and it was fine, as long as everyone's okay with it. I should mention that it was reaally hot!
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    Dec 05, 2012 3:59 AM GMT
    I've accepted an invite from gay couples on 2 occasions when I was single. The first time was an unmitigated disaster. One of the guys suddenly turned jealous and couldn't handle seeing his partner having sex with me. I found myself in the middle of an enormous, screaming argument, with doors slamming and things being smashed, made somewhat surreal by our lack of clothing. Fortunately a physical fight didn't break out, but I got dressed and out of there as quickly as I could.

    The other time the couple simply wasn't very good in bed. Instead of an ugly scene like previously it was simply dull & boring, I couldn't wait for it to be over.

    But I've had other 3-ways and 4-ways (not to mention orgy-like group scenes) that turned out pretty well. A small sample, but I've had better luck with guys who weren't partners, but just BFs or FBs, and with whom I had at least some prior acquaintance. Maybe fewer emotional undercurrents were going on, I dunno. But it scared me from trying it again with guys who lived together in an LTR, especially if we were strangers or near-strangers, as in both those unpleasant encounters.
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    Dec 05, 2012 4:03 AM GMT
    I've done it and it was great. However they were not some random couple. They are friends of a friend who are in a long term relationship. We "played" a few times and then I went on my way. They are great guys and that is the only way I would do it.






    ps. they were hot
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    Dec 05, 2012 4:30 AM GMT
    paulflexes said
    IceBuckets said
    HikeSwimSkiSF said
    IceBuckets saidI've been offered by the same description. Not sure how good of shape they were in though. I ultimately turned them down - just isn't my cup of tea. I need experience one-on-one sex before I do something like that. icon_confused.gif
    But Ice, if you need experience, you would get twice as much experience with 2 guys as you would with 1.

    Dude, I'm a nervous wreck when I'm with one - I have a complete inability to relax when it comes to anything sexual. Two doesn't make it any better. icon_razz.gif
    Try three. That way two could hold you down while the other one "shows you the ropes." icon_biggrin.gif

    Eagerness, believe me, is not the issue here. icon_razz.gif
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    Dec 05, 2012 4:51 AM GMT
    paulflexes saidBeen there; done that.


    ^^ This. It was fun. They even made me their semi-regular plaything. icon_redface.gif