A question I found on the internet

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    Dec 04, 2012 9:25 PM GMT
    "(Gay men only) What kind of guys do you like / wanna marry? Why?
    In terms of personality and his body features (e.g. biceps, bum, broad shoulders, cute face) , what kind of guys do you like?

    Do you expect your future boyfriend/ husband to protect you with his strong arms ? What's your expectation towards you future lover?

    thanks"

    I specifically wonder about the part highlighed in red. Never occured to me. Seems too Princess/Knight In Shining Armour to me.
    Your thoughts?
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    Dec 04, 2012 9:30 PM GMT
    The kind of guy I marry has to be able to deal with the fact I'm spastic, high maintinence and a bitch sometimes. I'm a loving person but I don't like to show it in ways that are overly noticable. By that I mean like big gestures. I'm subtly loving. I'm a mess emotionally and mentally sometimes and I'm someone who is fiercely possessive and I become easily bitter. I want someone who is the counter of all of that. Someone introverted and quiet and reflective and someone who can help keep me grounded when it feels like I'm gonna take off into that sea of histeria.

    I don't expcect him to be my God. I realize there's a lot of things within me I need to fix. I realize that there's not going to be perfection in him. He's not going to be my superhero and probably will not be the man I want. But he will be the man I need.
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    Dec 05, 2012 3:55 AM GMT
    hahah I feel like i'm somewhat shallow, I just want my guy to have broad shoulders, big strong forarms, straight teeth, no acne, tall, not hairy and YES big strong arm to protect me lmao.
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    Dec 05, 2012 4:26 AM GMT
    I would like a guy with a nice set of arms, but not to protect me (I'd like to think I can do that myself)...but instead to manhandle me during rough secks icon_cool.gif
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    Dec 05, 2012 5:18 AM GMT
    Personality wise, probably a teddy bear. Can be scary on the outside, but
    ultimately quiet and caring when it boils down. I wouldn't want another alpha personality; it conflicts with mine when they always want to "one-up" you in the relationship.icon_rolleyes.gif