Somebody if you can please shed some light on this I feel like this has gone way too far

  • Kromethius

    Posts: 156

    Dec 05, 2012 6:53 PM GMT
    There is this guy named wreztlinfreak11 who said he really liked me and everything and we deleted our accounts and we talked for six months it took him 4 months to get a phone and he has been randomly calling me by payphone till that point and then we were supposed to meet this past sunday and when i told him to meet me at this yogurt place he never called nor texted me and he said he was 30 min away no his friend hotmiamiboi who is his best friend is pisssed that i made another account because he thinks that I had something to do with his disappearance and he is jealous and he threatened me. I'm trying to get out of it but im worried about how far this has gotten. im only a 20 year old guy trying to be an electrical engineer why would i want to harm anyone and ruin all that especially to a guy I haven't met yet
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Dec 05, 2012 6:56 PM GMT
    I'd just break off all communication. You never wanna get into a situation with a person that makes you feel that uncomfortable.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Dec 05, 2012 6:56 PM GMT
    My, what drama.

    Have you ever actually seen this person, on cam or otherwise? If not, then I think you probably have been being led along by someone who doesn't exist, at least in the form you expect.

    You lost me when you got to the best friend and the threatening.
  • Kromethius

    Posts: 156

    Dec 05, 2012 6:59 PM GMT
    I made another account because i felt that i was being lied to for 6 months when wreztlinfreak11 didn't call or text me where he was but i also assumed he could be cheating or if he just got badly injured, but last night hotmiamiboi who is his best friend threatened how i don't love him and how he will blackmail me showing i made another account if he finds wreztlinfreak11 so hotmiamiboi can end up with him
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Dec 05, 2012 7:00 PM GMT
    MIS37 saidI made another account because i felt that i was being lied to for 6 months when wreztlinfreak11 didn't call or text me where he was but i also assumed he could be cheating or if he just got badly injured, but last night hotmiamiboi who is his best friend threatened how i don't love him and how he will blackmail me showing i made another account if he finds wreztlinfreak11 so hotmiamiboi can end up with him


    Yeah I would just end it all. Just reciting all this is making me think you're about to wind up in a very harmful situation.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Dec 05, 2012 7:03 PM GMT
    First off, wow, what drama, something you should seperate yourself from as much as possible. Secondly, if dude threatened you online, report him. and thirdly, if another situation arises where you feel the need to discuss it in the open, it might be best not to give specific screen names, that could just make it all the more uglier.


    but again, distance yourself from the drama.... there is alot more dick in the sea. icon_biggrin.gif
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Dec 05, 2012 7:04 PM GMT
    Someone thinks it's fun to string you along. "Hotmiamiboi" - no pics. Have you seen this person live or on cam either? I bet they're one and the same.

    Give it up, they're just fucking with you. Block them all. Take a deep breath then go out and meet some guys in real life.
  • Webster666

    Posts: 9217

    Dec 05, 2012 7:08 PM GMT
    Don't you deserve better than this ?
    Follow the good advice, above.
  • Kromethius

    Posts: 156

    Dec 05, 2012 7:08 PM GMT
    i know I try to meet guys in real life but they all want sex and aren't relationship oriented which is why I render myself to these online dating sites. I don't like the fact of going to one organization one day of the week just to meet a small group of people where as a straight guy can go out and meet anytype of people without being judged and he can flirt with a girl to know if she is interested. a guy and a guy can't do that in real life especially in a conservative community like mine who doesn't like black people
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Dec 05, 2012 7:12 PM GMT
    I'd like to add that since you never met this guy and if he disappeared, no one can hold that against you. There's no proof to connect you with it.
  • dommyinlosang...

    Posts: 261

    Dec 05, 2012 7:14 PM GMT
    my guess is he is lying to you... he's not who he says he is and now he's making up a different persona to argue with you... prob all the same person...

    i've known a few people (one str8 one gay) to have internet romances without meeting the other in person... those people were lying, misrepresenting themselves and when they got backed into a corner by being forced to meet... they got desperate... one pretended she died and had a friend call and to give the bad news but the friend calling turned out to be the original person lying online... turns out it was a bored fat woman in one case and an old lonely man in another... lonely people thinking they are doing no harm

    let it all go asap

    i suggest renting the movie... catfish... it's a documentary that has this adorable young man who ends up searching for this girl he was chatting with online... the deeper he gets into it the more he realizes it's all a lie and he tries to nicely confront the person lying to him... very odd interesting flick

    anyway... i think you're being lied to

    good luck

    and even if you are not... get out now
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Dec 05, 2012 7:45 PM GMT
    Firstly : icon_eek.gif

    Secondly : Let wreztlinfreak11 go. Sounds like some one who is jerking you around.

    Thirdly : wreztlinfreak11 & hotmiamiboi could be the same person with not much else going on in his/her life and has all the time to play you.

    Fourth : 6 months??!! SIX MONTHS??!! for someone you never met? Next time don't be so generous with your time.

    Fifth : If hotmiamiboi threatens to tell about your new account to wreztlinfreak11, tell him "Go ahead and do that if you can find wreztlinfreak11 because I don't know where he is. And if you do find him, then do me a favor and don't tell me because I don't care to know!"
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Dec 05, 2012 8:03 PM GMT
    Commas are your friend.
  • Kromethius

    Posts: 156

    Dec 09, 2012 5:20 AM GMT
    dude im being serious about this this was my first time online dating but this was cruel especially given everything that has been happening for 6 months so idk why are you acting like this is fun?
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Dec 09, 2012 5:29 AM GMT
    I think you're getting played and should sever all connections and move on.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Dec 09, 2012 12:57 PM GMT
    showme saidSomeone thinks it's fun to string you along. "Hotmiamiboi" - no pics. Have you seen this person live or on cam either? I bet they're one and the same.

    Exactly the same possibility that occurred to me when I read this. Plus making threats is a game-ender right there. Clear out of this mess quickly, and don't look back.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Dec 09, 2012 1:35 PM GMT
    Sounds like you got played. 6 months? Sorry, but after a week of chat or whatever, I would have pushed for coffee or meeting in some form. The longer online game players are able to play, the stranger their games get, like creating new people to threaten you with. Block them all and learn your lesson. Always push to meet quickly if you are interested, it doesn't have to be sexual, but it does have to be in reality, because long term online communication often ends like yours just did.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Dec 09, 2012 9:39 PM GMT
    This is probably the picture of the guy on the other end.
    larrycraigmugshot.jpg