For all single guys , where will you meet him ?

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    Sep 12, 2008 8:35 PM GMT


    In your fantasies and dreams ... where do you think you would meet your soulmate ??


    for me .. it's not in a gay bar or a praty , nor in a dating site ... far away from all this..
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    .. in a library .. sitting there alone ... icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Sep 12, 2008 8:44 PM GMT
    at church! icon_smile.gif
  • EricLA

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    Sep 12, 2008 9:36 PM GMT
    It would be nice if we met while walking our dogs in my neighborhood.
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    Sep 12, 2008 9:38 PM GMT
    Crikey, if I knew that, I'd be typing from there now
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    Sep 12, 2008 9:39 PM GMT
    At the gym
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    Sep 12, 2008 9:39 PM GMT
    swimisme saidat church! icon_smile.gif


    very interesting .. gay couple in a church .. then you can marry someday in the same church .. icon_smile.gif
  • CuriousJockAZ

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    Sep 12, 2008 9:39 PM GMT
    okay, I'll play...ummmm...he'll be waiting in my bed as I step out of the shower icon_wink.gif
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    Sep 12, 2008 9:42 PM GMT
    I'll knock him out with a tranquilizer dart as he's running shirtless along the lake.
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    Sep 12, 2008 9:45 PM GMT
    RBY71 saidI'll knock him out with a tranquilizer dart as he's running shirtless along the lake.



    That's a good idea !!!... maybe a poisonous dart will be better .. then you can just supperate the "soul" from your soulmate ... icon_confused.gif

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    Sep 12, 2008 10:01 PM GMT
    It's a bit early to tell just yet if we're soulmates, but the new man in my life and I are sure enjoying the hell out of the unfolding of new romance between us.

    We didn't meet in a gay bar, a party, or a dating site.

    In fact, we had one of those cliche meetings that everybody swears just never happens.

    We met in a grocery store.

    About two blocks from my house is one of those somewhat upscale stores that sells both conventional and organic products. I started shopping there in January when I bought my house.

    After a number of visits, I began noticing among the variety of handsome guys who work there, this one particular man. Tall, dark-haired, with a beard, and the most incredible green eyes. I started looking out for him anytime I was in the store. And eventually, he started noticing me.

    Neither of us knew it for a long time, but each of us would watch the other from a distance when we were spotted. He would stand back and watch me in the checkout line. And I would spend a lot of time in the aisle where he was working. He must have thought I just had a jones for diet ginger ale.

    Over the course of a few months, this progressed from looks at a distance to smiles exchanged to brief pleasantries.

    Finally, about a month ago, I ran into him. Almost literally as he rounded a corner. We laughed and talked a little bit longer than usual. It was a warm day and he was wearing shorts that showed off his very sexy hairy legs. He joked about biking to work and being glad he remembered to put on deodorant so he wouldn't offend his co-workers.

    As soon as he said that, the words slipped out of my mouth before my internal editor could halt them.

    "To each his own."

    He grinned at me. There was a silence. I figured since I was already out on a limb a bit, I may as well go for broke.

    I asked him if he was seeing anybody. He smiled and said, "no." Then I asked if he'd like to go out for coffee sometime. And before I knew it, he had whipped out a pad of paper and pen and wrote down his phone number to give me. We had coffee two days later.

    It's been getting better and better ever since. In fact, I pick him up from work in about 8 hours so we can spend another night together.

    I'm just crazy about him. In part because of how we met.
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    Sep 12, 2008 10:03 PM GMT
    GHoSTa said
    RBY71 saidI'll knock him out with a tranquilizer dart as he's running shirtless along the lake.



    That's a good idea !!!... maybe a poisonous dart will be better .. then you can just supperate the "soul" from your soulmate ... icon_confused.gif



    And when I separate his soul I can keep the rest for leftovers. I do like my men like I like my coffee: ground up and in the freezer.
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    Sep 12, 2008 10:08 PM GMT
    RBY71 said
    GHoSTa said
    RBY71 saidI'll knock him out with a tranquilizer dart as he's running shirtless along the lake.



    That's a good idea !!!... maybe a poisonous dart will be better .. then you can just supperate the "soul" from your soulmate ... icon_confused.gif



    And when I separate his soul I can keep the rest for leftovers. I do like my men like I like my coffee: ground up and in the freezer.


    LOL ... icon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gif .. good luck for this potential soulmate ...

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    Sep 12, 2008 10:22 PM GMT

    Hereticsoul , that's so romantic !! lot's of guys just fantasize about such situation ..
    wish you good luck and happiness..
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    Sep 12, 2008 10:51 PM GMT
    I'd have to say that knowing my luck, I'll be introduced to him by my mother.
    That way she'll own my happiness.
    Bloody parents looking to make their children happy.
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    Sep 12, 2008 10:53 PM GMT
    Satistically you will meet thru friends.
  • CAtoFL

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    Sep 12, 2008 11:09 PM GMT
    Alpha13 saidSatistically you will meet thru friends.


    Is that 'sadistically' or 'statistically'? Or both?

    Or does that depend on your friends? icon_lol.gif
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    Sep 12, 2008 11:19 PM GMT
    I thought I'd meet someone outside my career field, but I'm beginning to bank on meeting someone in Medical School or a field that intersects medicine.

    Although, I'm still holding out for that one guy in the cafe reading and enjoying a cup of tea.

    mmm...
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    Sep 13, 2008 12:10 AM GMT
    GHoSTa said
    Hereticsoul , that's so romantic !! lot's of guys just fantasize about such situation ..
    wish you good luck and happiness..


    Thanks very much, bud icon_smile.gif
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    Sep 13, 2008 12:17 AM GMT

    Somewhere over the rainbow, I'll fly my UFO, searching for the one... and when I find him, he'll be mine! MINE! MINE! *cackles and waves death ray cannon in the air*
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    Sep 13, 2008 12:17 AM GMT
    I would love to meet my dream guy at a museum, icon_smile.gif
  • EricLA

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    Sep 13, 2008 12:18 AM GMT
    Alpha13 saidSatistically you will meet thru friends.


    $%#. I need more friends.
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    Sep 13, 2008 1:07 AM GMT
    GHoSTa said
    swimisme saidat church! icon_smile.gif


    very interesting .. gay couple in a church .. then you can marry someday in the same church .. icon_smile.gif


    haha that happens at my church, we even have lots of straight and lesbian/gay families so yeah icon_smile.gif
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    Sep 13, 2008 3:01 AM GMT
    hm... I would have to say as either one or both of us is walking back on the beach after an excellent early morning surf...
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    Sep 13, 2008 3:03 AM GMT
    What's a soulmate?icon_rolleyes.gif

    No fantasy here just the reality that is gay life.
  • Hunter9

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    Sep 13, 2008 3:30 AM GMT
    in the darkroom... he'll have the set of hands among the many that i can feel are different from the others... when we return to the light, we'll just know