Straight Christian friend doesn't understand man to man attraction.

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    Dec 08, 2012 12:41 AM GMT
    What do you think of a guy that doesn't like two guys kissing – but he has told me he had sex with a guy that changed to a girl except for the private parts (looked like a female outwardly)? He quotes the old testament for why he thinks we shouldn't get married.
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    Dec 08, 2012 12:42 AM GMT
    He's in the closet.
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    Dec 08, 2012 7:46 AM GMT
    He's stupid.

    And yes, he needs to get out of the closet.

    Or, he's giving YOU Hints to kiss him as hard as you fuck him.

    Just sayin.... icon_neutral.gif
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    Dec 08, 2012 8:13 AM GMT
    He holds 2 conflicting world views simultaneously. He has mental issues
  • TroyAthlete

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    Dec 08, 2012 8:31 AM GMT
    braddomo saidWhat do you think of a guy that doesn't like two guys kissing – but he has told me he had sex with a guy


    Stop right there. Obvious answer is obvious.
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    Dec 08, 2012 8:33 AM GMT

    Tell him Jesus hung around with plenty guys , and professed to love one of them , if cant understand the friendship and companion and love one man can give to another , masculine with masculine then he has been brain washed and indoctrinated, he need to think like human and possbilties humans can have with each other.
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    Dec 08, 2012 8:34 AM GMT
    He's an idiot....but it's okay, I have idiot friends too and they make up in other departments
  • calibro

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    Dec 08, 2012 2:20 PM GMT
    that if jesus was a mtf deity he'd be all over that shit
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    Dec 08, 2012 2:21 PM GMT
    Someone quoted the bible to me once...

    I quoted how humans, are not allowed to judge...and the fact we can legally, by bible standards, have slaves.
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    Dec 08, 2012 2:24 PM GMT
    Lots of conflicting "education" that a guy has to deal with. Many gay guys are respectful of their parents and auhorities and that is really tuff when there is disagreement between society's norms and sexual feelings. Are you out to him? Have you made an effort to make him comfortable with simple friendly touch? He is probably your friend cus he wants some help coming to terms with his internal conflict .
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    Dec 08, 2012 2:57 PM GMT
    TroyAthlete said
    braddomo saidWhat do you think of a guy that doesn't like two guys kissing – but he has told me he had sex with a guy


    Stop right there. Obvious answer is obvious.


    i call them capital M.E.N.
  • LuckyGuyKC

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    Dec 08, 2012 3:10 PM GMT
    Right Wingers that quote the Old Testament are easy targets. Just ask them to the read the entire book of Leviticus and ask them how they fared in their daily life according the O.T.

    If they don't know what you are talking about educate yourself and give them a few nuggets.

    Jesus as he shows up in the New testament gospels and in the Koran has no anti-gay testimony.
  • LJay

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    Dec 08, 2012 3:15 PM GMT
    Gobbledegook!

    You describe very little behavior and seem to want to extrapolate.

    I am guessing that the guy, like ost guys, is evolving in his own way. He does not need your opinion of him to do that.
  • FRE0

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    Dec 08, 2012 11:45 PM GMT
    What do I think of him? Not much!
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    Dec 08, 2012 11:56 PM GMT
    braddomo saidWhat do you think of a guy that doesn't like two guys kissing – but he has told me he had sex with a guy that changed to a girl except for the private parts (looked like a female outwardly)? He quotes the old testament for why he thinks we shouldn't get married.


    WOAH. thats out there.

    sounds like a closet guy. just sayin. most straight christian men i know wouldn't do that without actually be closeted gay men
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    Dec 09, 2012 7:49 AM GMT
    Yeah he's in the closet. And probably trying to preach against himself.
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    Dec 10, 2012 4:25 AM GMT
    I have been a friend and out to him for years. I've been to church with him and his ex girlfriend. We are actually very close. I am not attracted to him since he is now gray haired, chubby and smelly (in a bad way). We exchange hugs a lot. Yes he has major issues. Since he knows I'm bi / gay I thought that my educating him would have enlightened his view of men with men. But no, he goes back to quoting the sodom and gomorrah and adam steve thing. I told him he was being a turd and that he actually had sex with a man once makes his thoughts even more ridiculous. PS. he bottomed.
  • HottJoe

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    Dec 10, 2012 5:15 PM GMT
    braddomo saidI have been a friend and out to him for years. I've been to church with him and his ex girlfriend. We are actually very close. I am not attracted to him since he is now gray haired, chubby and smelly (in a bad way). We exchange hugs a lot. Yes he has major issues. Since he knows I'm bi / gay I thought that my educating him would have enlightened his view of men with men. But no, he goes back to quoting the sodom and gomorrah and adam steve thing. I told him he was being a turd and that he actually had sex with a man once makes his thoughts even more ridiculous. PS. he bottomed.


    Ugh, he sounds just pitiful.
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    Dec 20, 2012 5:00 AM GMT
    I know it sounds kind of wrong but that is his belief. I used to have a roomate who is very nice and I have high respect for him. He does not support or against gay people. He believes that it is wrong but he still treat them with respect. I think people are ok to think what they want, as long as they do not treat other in an unfair manner.
  • Lincsbear

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    Dec 20, 2012 5:07 AM GMT
    Closeted? Confused?
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    Dec 20, 2012 5:09 AM GMT
    ohboy saidHe's an idiot....but it's okay, I have idiot friends too and they make up in other departments


    Can I get an amen?
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    Dec 20, 2012 5:15 AM GMT
    umm ok the old testament is the jewish text and isnt supposed to be used by christians anymore, that was the point of jesus' entire existence and sacrifice. *rolls eyes* people dont know how to read their own damn book for crying out loud. the old testament also says you cant wear two different kinds of fabric, that means poly blend is gone. you can be stoned for planting two different crops side by side. your daughter also has to marry the man who raped her. so congrats we are all following that law arent we? its odious and ignorant and self-righteous to think that its ok to use one part of that book and not others. you cant cherry pick your beliefs and call your self a christian. you either believe in gods love or you simple spew hate with the rest of the sheep. let him keep him self in the darkness, its his choice to hate him self.

  • waccamatt

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    Dec 20, 2012 5:31 AM GMT
    I'd tell him the bible is a fairy tale written by some dudes thousands of years ago who had a very small world view and it's full of absurdities.
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    Dec 20, 2012 5:33 AM GMT
    The cognitive dissonance thing is a self-preservation ploy his mind plays on him. It is not based in rational thinking, so rational arguments from you will have no impact on him.

    Those who suffer from cognitive dissonance (most of us, actually) are basically two people sharing one brain. The gay-as-shit-fucked-up-the-ass-by-a-tranny part of him gets to enjoy the lush pleasures of his kink, while the holier-than-thou church lady in him gets to feel all superior over you. It's the best of both worlds. Why would he give that up? They're fuck'n tag-teaming you.

    Don't step into the octagon with him, since it won't be a fair fight. Instead, get him horny by talking about the bad-ass man love you enjoy on a regular basis. How awesome it is--despite the fact that you're going to hell--that you don't have to put up with women's bullshit. How ready a man is to go all the way after only one look. Fuck, who'd want to be straight? It's YOUR octagon, man. Wipe the floor with him.
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    Jan 04, 2013 8:43 AM GMT
    I'm a Christian, and it really annoys me when people insult my religion (not you) but others in this topic.

    Yeah him doing that was hypocritical, but if the person he was with he who turned into she was a girl/looked like one then he technically didnt do anything wrong in his eyes and really not in the gay eyes either. I mean a transgender is born in the wrong body...right?? So even having the parts dont make you male or female. It's a brain thing.

    At the end of the day he is a Chrisitan and that's what he believes in. I have friends who don't agree with being gay, but they still love and respect me. Just like how I don't drink, do drugs, or have sex and I still love and respect them.

    There are always going to be things someone does that you don;t necessarily care for, but you love them anyway.

    Friendships are special because of stuff like that.
    If doesn't agree then don't make him or care, that is his right. As long as he is not being rude to you or condeming you then I really don't see the issue.

    Now as you said he quotes the bible at you, then you need to rethink your friendships because none of my rleigious friends do that to me. Or you can do what I often do to enemies.

    They quote a bible verse against what you are doing and I quote one for what they are doing.

    Premarital sex, drunkeness, laziness, greedy, lying, lust, etc etc etc... are all sins, not to forget judgement. So do that back and see how he responds.