Challenge: sexual abstinence for as long as you can, no porn and no masturbation

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    Dec 08, 2012 6:43 AM GMT
    So....Who is with me? I think this would free up a lot of time and make my body and will stronger. It will also build the character.

    If you are game, respond, make a vow, and we'll start the day counts together. This is the honor system.
  • AMoonHawk

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    Dec 08, 2012 7:02 AM GMT
    Ready .... Set ....

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    Dec 08, 2012 7:19 AM GMT
    I like the idea. . . .

    @ amoonhawk - screw you for posting that pic!!
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    Dec 08, 2012 7:32 AM GMT
    If I'm busy, I usually don't have time for it anyways. I'm making no promises, but I'll let you know what happens.
  • TroyAthlete

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    Dec 08, 2012 7:34 AM GMT
    I'm in. I won't abstain from sex even though I'm not getting any right now, but I'll give up porn and masturbation until I have sex again. How's that?
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    Dec 08, 2012 7:35 AM GMT
    I like your idea!
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    Dec 08, 2012 7:35 AM GMT
    Slim2010 saidI like the idea. . . .

    @ amoonhawk - screw you for posting that pic!!

    ooo .. no thanks dear ... you're not my type

    It's a gay site .. if you want to practice abstinence and self loathing, go to the focus on the family site
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    Dec 08, 2012 7:41 AM GMT
    Does gay site means you have to talk about only sex? Can't we talk anything else? If you don't like the post, you have the option to switch to other forum topics and find one that interest you. You don't have to be that rude, its just a forum post.
  • MidwesternKid

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    Dec 08, 2012 7:43 AM GMT
    I've already gone a day and a half so why not. I will hold out till Christmas, or at least try my best.
  • AMoonHawk

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    Dec 08, 2012 7:56 AM GMT
    Shawny99 saidDoes gay site means you have to talk about only sex? Can't we talk anything else? If you don't like the post, you have the option to switch to other forum topics and find one that interest you. You don't have to be that rude, its just a forum post.

    You're right, but it is also a site about health. And masturbation is actually healthy for you. I clears out the old dead cum from your system and keeps your balls and prostate in working order. Your first clue that you may be bringing up unhealthy activities and thought is to have challenge people to do it. In challenging them, it appears to be stating that there is something wrong with masturbation, sex or looking a porn. Buying into Xristian value propaganda bullshit is what is unhealthy.
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    Dec 08, 2012 8:04 AM GMT
    AMoonHawk said
    Slim2010 saidI like the idea. . . .

    @ amoonhawk - screw you for posting that pic!!

    ooo .. no thanks dear ... you're not my type

    It's a gay site .. if you want to practice abstinence and self loathing, go to the focus on the family site


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  • MikeW

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    Dec 08, 2012 8:04 AM GMT
    AMoonHawk said
    Shawny99 saidDoes gay site means you have to talk about only sex? Can't we talk anything else? If you don't like the post, you have the option to switch to other forum topics and find one that interest you. You don't have to be that rude, its just a forum post.

    You're right, but it is also a site about health. And masturbation is actually healthy for you. I clears out the old dead cum from your system and keeps your balls and prostate in working order. Your first clue that you may be bringing up unhealthy activities and thought is to have challenge people to do it. In challenging them, it appears to be stating that there is something wrong with masturbation, sex or looking a porn. Buying into Xristian value propaganda bullshit is what is unhealthy.

    I understand what you're saying but I don't get that from the OP. Sexual energy has a lot of potential uses besides the obvious. Many spiritual practices include term-limit abstinence as a developmental tool, for awakening Kundilini, for example.

    ETA...

    Not that I'm about to join this particular venture myself, understand.
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    Dec 08, 2012 8:07 AM GMT
    AMoonHawk said
    Shawny99 saidDoes gay site means you have to talk about only sex? Can't we talk anything else? If you don't like the post, you have the option to switch to other forum topics and find one that interest you. You don't have to be that rude, its just a forum post.

    You're right, but it is also a site about health. And masturbation is actually healthy for you. I clears out the old dead cum from your system and keeps your balls and prostate in working order. Your first clue that you may be bringing up unhealthy activities and thought is to have challenge people to do it. In challenging them, it appears to be stating that there is something wrong with masturbation, sex or looking a porn. Buying into Xristian value propaganda bullshit is what is unhealthy.


    No one said masturbation is bad for health. However, too much of anything is unhealthy, which I am sure everybody knows.

    I am pretty sure, the guy who started the forum never meant to say that all these things are bad for us, may be he just want a break and indulge in other healthy stuff or activities which might even save his time.

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    Dec 08, 2012 8:07 AM GMT
    MikeW said
    AMoonHawk said
    Shawny99 saidDoes gay site means you have to talk about only sex? Can't we talk anything else? If you don't like the post, you have the option to switch to other forum topics and find one that interest you. You don't have to be that rude, its just a forum post.

    You're right, but it is also a site about health. And masturbation is actually healthy for you. I clears out the old dead cum from your system and keeps your balls and prostate in working order. Your first clue that you may be bringing up unhealthy activities and thought is to have challenge people to do it. In challenging them, it appears to be stating that there is something wrong with masturbation, sex or looking a porn. Buying into Xristian value propaganda bullshit is what is unhealthy.

    I understand what you're saying but I don't get that from the OP. Sexual energy has a lot of potential uses besides the obvious. Many spiritual practices include term-limit abstinence as a developmental tool, for awakening Kundilini, for example.

    ok .. I'll buy into that if it is of a spiritual nature to build up energy .... I've done that before myself ... but there should be a purpose to an end or a need ... but again I have to say what is the purpose of having to challenge to do it
  • MikeW

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    Dec 08, 2012 8:09 AM GMT
    AMoonHawk saidok .. I'll buy into that if it is of a spiritual nature to build up energy .... I've done that before myself ... but there should be a purpose to an end or a need

    Agreed. There needs to be an intention. But the OP said "to develop will and character," so that's something.
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    Dec 08, 2012 8:12 AM GMT
    I lasted nearly 9 hours, then thought, ah fuck him

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  • AMoonHawk

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    Dec 08, 2012 8:15 AM GMT
    Hmm ... to develope will I can see .... sort of self control ... to build character though? That's a stretch ... and perhaps a better way to have stated it would have been to say ... I am about to under go a spiritual quest to build will power and 'character', who would like to join me on this quest ... sorry .. I guess that word 'challenge' just irks me ... Like when you were kids and said 'I double dog triple dare you' .... and it usually never turned out good

    edit: ... and "for as long as you can" is that a challenge to be a monk?
  • MikeW

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    Dec 08, 2012 8:26 AM GMT
    AMoonHawk saidHmm ... to develope will I can see .... sort of self control ... to build character though? That's a stretch ... and perhaps a better way to have stated it would have been to say ... I am about to under go a spiritual quest to build will power and 'character', who would like to join me on this quest ... sorry .. I guess that word 'challenge' just irks me ... Like when you were kids and said 'I double dog triple dare you' .... and it usually never turned out good

    edit: ... and "for as long as you can" is that a challenge to be a monk?

    We're on the same wave length, moonhawk.
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    Dec 08, 2012 9:35 AM GMT
    I have tried the forty days and forty nights thing. It does not work cus nature will take its course and you will unload one night dreaming about getting laid.
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    Dec 08, 2012 9:39 AM GMT
    GonzoTheGreat saidI lasted nearly 9 hours, then thought, ah fuck him

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    What an ass on that guy! Damn! icon_biggrin.gif
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    Dec 08, 2012 10:34 AM GMT
    Back when I was a prudish Bible thumper in denial who thought I could live a chaste life so I wouldn't sin and felt extremely guilty for double sinning when masturbating ( 1. masturbation 2. thinking about men while masturbating), I challenged my friends to this in high school my sophomore/jr year. I went the longest at 2 months or 8 weeks. I started having wet sheets in the morning (didn't remember any dreams), and one time when I was studying I was on my stomach and basically kegeled myself into jizzing...another time when I was holding back I lost it on family vacation on a boat off Massachusetts while whale watching because some dude sitting next to me had hot forearms.

    Yes, forearms took me over the edge icon_razz.gif

    Unfortunately, I wasted such prime years of my life not enjoying my penis while it worked without flaws. Now there's psychological baggage thanks to growing up that way.
  • wild_sky360

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    Dec 08, 2012 10:40 AM GMT
    It might be an age thing, but I've found it's better to use it than lose it; seriously. If I abstain for a while I tend to lose interest. Flip side...lots of sex keeps me turned on and energized and upbeat and ready for more.

    I guess I can see the advantage to abstaining a while for you young guys, to learn to tame the beast.
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    Dec 08, 2012 10:48 AM GMT
    AMoonHawk said
    Shawny99 saidDoes gay site means you have to talk about only sex? Can't we talk anything else? If you don't like the post, you have the option to switch to other forum topics and find one that interest you. You don't have to be that rude, its just a forum post.

    You're right, but it is also a site about health. And masturbation is actually healthy for you. I clears out the old dead cum from your system and keeps your balls and prostate in working order. Your first clue that you may be bringing up unhealthy activities and thought is to have challenge people to do it. In challenging them, it appears to be stating that there is something wrong with masturbation, sex or looking a porn. Buying into Xristian value propaganda bullshit is what is unhealthy.


    While I'm not on board with the challenge, please make sure you post things about health that are true rather than opinion or hearsay. Your body recycles dead sperm on its own without you having to masturbate.

    That being said, the prostate releases a natural antibiotic which is why men have a much lower prevalence of urinary tract infections than women do (along with the fact that the male urinary tract is much longer). So, it can be healthy to some extent if you aren't keeping clean icon_wink.gif
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    Dec 08, 2012 10:48 AM GMT
    Time for the OP fundie sock account to get kicked off.

    Still trying to make masturbation an evil. If you guys got release more, you wouldn't be so full of hate.
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    Dec 08, 2012 11:05 AM GMT
    I understand that abstaining from sex/masturbation prevents Satan from entering your heart, but how does it build character?