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    Dec 09, 2012 1:25 AM GMT
    New guy here... registered the other day. I'd like to know who here have found this site useful to their real lives. Were you able to find new friends, hookups, relationships, and the like from here?

    Would also appreciate it if you can share some stories. Thanks!
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    Dec 09, 2012 1:28 AM GMT
    Not really hookup wise but I've met nice people.
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    Dec 09, 2012 1:31 AM GMT
    Good. I've been here for a minute now and really enjoyed my time here.
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    Dec 09, 2012 1:46 AM GMT
    It's a gay fitness site, not a dating site.
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    Dec 09, 2012 1:54 AM GMT
    Caslon22000 saidIt's a gay fitness site, not a dating site.


    Touche. Though, i included friends... which could be training buddies and such.
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    Dec 09, 2012 1:59 AM GMT
    aidenMaximus said
    Caslon22000 saidIt's a gay fitness site, not a dating site.


    Touche. Though, i included friends... which could be training buddies and such.

    Well the guys in SF are getting together for social stuff.
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    Dec 09, 2012 2:10 AM GMT
    Yeah it is not a dating site......and long distance relationship.........really? I think most people just kill time and give random advice on here when they are bore.
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    Dec 09, 2012 2:23 AM GMT
    aidenMaximus saidNew guy here... registered the other day. I'd like to know who here have found this site useful to their real lives. Were you able to find new friends, hookups, relationships, and the like from here?

    Would also appreciate it if you can share some stories. Thanks!

    I've met about 20 RJ guys in person, and I'm online buddies with others. Also attended a local RJ get together here at a restaurant.

    I have no interest in hookups or dating because I'm in a monogamous relationship. But I have gotten good advice on health & fitness. Which included some good tips on golf and a lead to an instructor I've had for over a year now.

    Plus a ton of other good info on every imaginable subject. Scanning the forum categories gives you some idea.
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    Dec 09, 2012 2:54 AM GMT
    Not a hookup site.
    The forums, however, ROCK!!!!

    Do meet RJ'rs in real life when you can.
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    Dec 09, 2012 4:02 AM GMT
    I've only been on here for a little over a month. I use it mostly to kill time.
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    Dec 09, 2012 4:04 AM GMT
    Erik101 saidI've only been on here for a little over a month. I use it mostly to kill time.


    Me too.
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    Dec 09, 2012 4:10 AM GMT
    Good for friends, workout buddies, and mostly workout advice.
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    Dec 09, 2012 5:04 AM GMT
    Welcome! I would guess there's a fair amount of hooking up on the site, just not openly admitted. The " chat" part of the site seems to be pretty busy most of the time. I have been out of town, and trying to connect periodically using a cellphone. On a weekend it is usually not possible to sign on with a cell phone, and I'm guessing that is because there are so many guys signed on chatting. At these times I cannot sign on, the homepage display the number of guys signed on, in which is usually over 2600. There was a recent thrilled about weather RJ should get a phone app, and a major concern was that it would become more like Grindr than it already is. These are just my informed guesses.
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    Dec 09, 2012 5:07 AM GMT
    I have made awesome friends on this site, and learned a couple new fitness regimens...Just don't take the site to seriously when on the forums, we can be a bit crazy!!! icon_twisted.gif
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    Dec 09, 2012 5:09 AM GMT
    People use RJ to hookup? icon_eek.gif
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    Dec 09, 2012 6:16 AM GMT
    well ive met some people that i enjoy chatting with, but have yet to meet any of them in real life. though id be up for it, most of these guys seem pretty chill
  • Montague

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    Dec 09, 2012 6:19 AM GMT
    Neight saidPeople use RJ to hookup? icon_eek.gif


    People above fail to see that one of the categories you can check on your profile is to let others know you're open to hookups here! hah
  • Coug24_wyo

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    Dec 09, 2012 6:24 AM GMT
    Well this site isn't really for hookups, friends, relationships. Atleast not in the real physical world per say. I have found some genuine people to talk with and been inspired as well as helped to (hopefully) inspire others. So in those respects this site has been very beneficial and is worth my time.

    Welcome and good luck to you, but don't give your hopes up something in 'real life' will materialize out of some online socializing.
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    Dec 09, 2012 6:39 AM GMT
    Well, I'm not interested in looking for a relationship, but I've made some pretty good friends on here, and I talk to them almost every day. icon_smile.gif
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    Dec 09, 2012 6:47 AM GMT
    Friends told me about this site in '07. I checked it out for reading and sharing health, fitness & nutrition advice. I ended up meeting R.J. friends for talking by phone, and more R.J. guys I've met in person or in Yoga classes Some guys I've stayed friends with. It is not really a hook up site, but I did meet someone special here who is now my s.o. & he moved clear across the country to my state. We've been a couple for 2+ years now. There are however - two or three troublesome losers here - and you'll learn to avoid them, because for the most part - there are a whole lot of the greatest guys you'll find anywhere.
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    Dec 09, 2012 6:54 AM GMT
    Caslon22000 saidIt's a gay fitness site, not a dating site.

    Ahem..

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    Dec 09, 2012 8:26 AM GMT
    Looks pretty cool, not really into the whole dating/hookup thing just wan to get some workout plans/ tips.
  • barriehomeboy

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    Dec 09, 2012 8:31 AM GMT
    The guys are amazing. The site itself is SO fucked up.
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    Dec 09, 2012 3:04 PM GMT
    xrichx said
    Caslon22000 saidIt's a gay fitness site, not a dating site.

    Ahem..

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    It says that though I think the majority of people on here are using it for workout adivce and friends/workout buddies.
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    Dec 09, 2012 3:14 PM GMT
    Shyguy_1986 said
    Erik101 saidI've only been on here for a little over a month. I use it mostly to kill time.


    Me too.


    This.